What does it mean for a lover to say that if he is unreasonable, he will be left in the cold?

This means that if you importune like this again, you will be in the cold! This is a joke and can't be taken seriously.

But I feel that the relationship between lovers is wrong, which is fruitless. Let go when it is time to let go, so as not to affect the later life.

And had an affair with my lover for a month. Then my husband found out. My husband won't forgive me for divorcing me. I am very sorry and sad. Now my lover's relationship is broken, but my husband doesn't accept me.

Now I live alone, even I have depression, and I'm still not well.