Why do the elders and leaders say that I am handsome, but many girls of the same age around me say that I am ugly?

Elder leaders say you are handsome, while many girls of the same age around you say you are ugly. What they say is one-sided, but their aesthetic views on you are not in the same direction. Each has its own aesthetic angle. They take different positions to evaluate your aesthetic point of view.

1: As one's own parents and elders, everyone is partial to their children, and no matter how ugly their children are, they feel precious. Only magnify the advantages of your children, but the shortcomings are everywhere. In their minds, as long as you are obedient and clever, you can make a difference in the outside world, but they feel satisfied with having a son like you. You are the most handsome baby in their eyes.

2: The leader praised you for being handsome, and there is a certain reason.

You are outstanding in your career and meticulous in your work. You are a very responsible employee. Never bow in the face of difficulties, and do everything possible to overcome them. Get along well with colleagues. At work, don't be picky. It has made outstanding contributions to the company's benefit and profit. It is a rare top talent around the leader.

In order to work, you forget all about eating and sleeping, work tirelessly, and devote all your youth to your own career. As a leader, he paid attention to your every move, and was deeply gratified, and he also had a hundred approvals for your attitude at work. So you have a high evaluation in the eyes of the leader, who praised you as the most handsome and outstanding young man.

3: There are many girls around with the same collar who say that you are ugly because they judge people by their appearances.

The girls with your collar may be of marriageable age. Their aesthetic standards for boys of the same age are excessively improved. In their hearts, there are few handsome men. Because their imaginary prince charming is a perfect person. But all human beings are not perfect, and there are always some fly in the ointment. Everyone will have shortcomings.

but these girls of the same age are not optimistic about the advantages of the opposite sex, but hold on to the shortcomings of men. In the aesthetic point of view of these women with the same collar, we must ask the handsome young man with good moral, intellectual, physical and facial features and generous beauty to be called "handsome".

according to the above, it is a saying that the elders and leaders say you are handsome, while women of the same age say you are ugly.