First-year tutoring homework joke

"When a child goes to primary school, his parents become third-class citizens." Only when he becomes a parent can he understand the meaning of this passage. Yes, it's not easy for children to go to school now!

Tutoring homework can be described as an unavoidable challenge, which makes countless parents have a headache. Before that, even a Nanjing mother was hospitalized because of a cerebral infarction.

However, children's self-control ability is poor, it is difficult to concentrate on their studies, and their homework is sloppy. There is really no way to put it down. The key point is that sometimes after parents correct it, children will make mistakes repeatedly, so that parents can't help yelling at their children.

Recently, a treasure mother shared an interesting story.

She was so angry with her child's homework that she broke down. At first, after seeing her daughter's attitude of fooling around and committing low-level crimes repeatedly, her patience disappeared. A wave of anger welled up in her heart and she cried.

Seeing this posture, the child's grandmother hurried back to her room, took out a letter and a yellow paper from home 23 years ago, laughed at her mercilessly and jokingly said, "You have today, too."

An interesting life story was recorded in the family book. It turns out that this precious mother is very angry with her father who helped her with her homework when she was a child.

The content is probably: when she was a child, she didn't take her studies seriously and couldn't understand her parents' good intentions. Her parents boldly speculated that her daughter could not be a parent in the future, nor could she help her children with their homework.

Seeing Ma Bao crying and laughing here, she was really right by her father. I really don't know the good of my parents if I don't raise children. When I think that I was angry with my parents because of my homework, I feel that there is nothing to worry about now.

In this regard, netizens are also deeply touched. Some people spit in the comment area: You also have today.

Tutoring children's homework really needs enough patience, but when you are angry, you should also know why children always make mistakes. In fact, there are two reasons:

Children are curious and lack self-control. When doing homework, everything around you will divert attention, and it will be sloppy if you don't concentrate.

Children's ability to accept knowledge is limited, and they will make mistakes if they don't understand it thoroughly.

In fact, the anger of parents can't solve the problem at all. Children are scared to a blank, how can they understand the knowledge points?

1, auxiliary only

Parents should be clear about their position. You can't do your homework instead of your child, just help him think and wait until the child has a problem.

Just stay quietly by your side, even if you are reading, give your child enough time to think independently.

Many parents can't wait to help their children finish their homework. When they see that their children have made a mistake, they must find out and talk about it. When they are confused, some people complain that they are too stupid.

This often interrupts children's thinking. First, he can't get into a state of concentration. Second, children lack a deep understanding of knowledge points. At this time, no matter how much you say, he won't listen.

It will be more efficient to check after the child finishes the homework of a unit or a subject and find that the mistakes are corrected one by one. If necessary, the effect will be better.

Think carefully before losing your temper.

The outbreak of bad temper is not good for both sides. As parents, you should pay more attention in front of your children and don't scare them.

When you find that your child's tutoring homework is not serious, you can communicate with him to see what is distracting him or what difficulties he has encountered, and it is good to solve them in a targeted way.

Try to solve problems through communication, and be sure to think carefully before losing your temper. Emotion will only make the problem worse.

3. Apologize afterwards and explain the reasons.

It is human nature to make mistakes.

Parents sometimes get angry because of their childishness, and it is normal that they can't lose their temper for a while. It is important to apologize to the child afterwards, explain the reasons for being angry, and let the child accept and understand.

This kind of communication can make both sides avoid the unpleasant occurrence next time, otherwise the children will not know what they have done wrong, and they will only hate their parents to help them with their homework, and their parents will get angry every time. If this continues, it will be a vicious circle.