Education first, education first.

Love yourself first, then love your children. Only by truly living in peace with your emotions can you hone your spiritual growth. After being kind to yourself, you can have the power to cherish your children.

A mother asked her sister to discipline her brother, and her sister said no problem. As a result, she found it really tiring to manage people. She reminds her of the same thing every day. Sometimes it seems useless to say it. He simply bought a parrot and put it on her brother's head, making the parrot repeatedly say that he can't watch TV, go to school quickly and don't stay up late. Although this story is a joke, if parents recite lines with their children every day, wouldn't they be like that parrot? If this is communication, will the child know what you are going to say before he finishes this sentence, and finally he will be numb. He won't move until you say it, and he won't move until you say it. It's really difficult to take care of children like this.

Imagine yourself as a parrot. Often let children get up quickly, be late, go to bed early, brush their teeth quickly, eat slowly, do their homework quickly, read English quickly and so on. Keep talking about this and that. Wow, now I feel so tired and stressed. I have worked hard to take care of the children, and the children have not changed significantly.

Through this one or two years of study, I realized that children don't need to be in charge, just need to set an example by themselves and lead him invisibly. Although I don't live well now, I sometimes nag. But I gradually realized that it is not the child's problem, and the root of everything is in myself. I am the original, and the child is a copy. I have changed, and the children will change slowly. Continue to work hard to grow yourself!