What psychological analysis is it that children cry as soon as they say it?

1. Many children are spoiled at home, which leads to poor psychological endurance. When criticized, I always feel wronged and cry when I say it. Such children can easily become what others call "blx" personality when they grow up, and they are often devastated by a little criticism or frustration.

2. When children who lack self-confidence and cry are criticized, they always feel that they are not doing well enough, have doubts about themselves and lose confidence in doing things. Children are young, and their cognitive ability will have certain defects. They need to find their position and value through others' evaluation of themselves.

Therefore, parents should keep a good balance in reward and punishment education and don't criticize their children blindly. Such blind criticism will cause children's self-doubt consciousness and lead to the psychology of crying as soon as they say it.

Ways to soothe children's emotions

1, to appease children, parents should have a good mood and not be impatient. Some parents are in a bad mood because of work, life and many other reasons. If they watch their children fidgety again, they will add fuel to the fire. Children will get angry before they complain. Please don't do this.

2. Listen to the distress. When children are upset, they have the desire to tell and complain, so parents should listen quietly. When listening, be sincere and empathetic. Sadness is his sadness, and happiness is his happiness. This step is actually comforting the child.

3. accept the child's point of view. In the process of children's speech, their own views and opinions on homework will permeate the discourse. For the correct view, parents need to put down their posture to accept it, give up deep-rooted ideas, and even admit their prejudice against their children, such as laziness and fear of thinking, and affirm their children's correct ideas.