The man asks if you love me. People with high emotional intelligence often answer this question.

The discovery of secret love is actually a blessing in feelings.

I remember a saying: "What's it like to have a crush on someone? I am afraid that he knows, I am afraid that he does not know, and I am even more afraid that he knows but pretends not to know. "

In the story of unrequited love, the difficulty is never how to hide one's mind, nor is it so hard to forget, but the process of struggling whether to confess or not.

However, when you are too entangled to face your own thoughts, the ending of love may change.

Like Rosie and Alex in Love, Rosie, they grew up together and have a crush on each other. In this case, they could have been together once, but they missed 12 years because they were afraid to face each other.

When they attended the dance, Alex had no confidence in himself and jokingly asked Rosie, "Sometimes I wonder if you are in love with me ..."

Rosie should have reacted when she heard such a joke, but she was not confident and even more afraid that this was not the result in her heart, so she responded to each other in a joking way.

In this misunderstanding, the two people went further and further, and it took more than ten years to sort out their own and each other's thoughts.

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When they finally got together, Rossi said, "Better late than never."

Maybe in love, it's not too late as long as that person starts, but sometimes if you dare to be brave once, love can have a different ending.

Especially when the person you secretly love suspects that you like her, this is the best time for your relationship to enter the next stage, because you don't have to hide your mind anymore, and recognition is the best way to deal with it.

People with high emotional intelligence will only admit this answer when they are asked "Do you like me" by someone who has a secret crush. The reason is very simple.

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Dare to take the initiative to admit unrequited love, can better reflect a person's confidence.

Keigo Higashino wrote in Listening Alone: "Unrequited love is something that you know is meaningless, but you can't help clinging to it-everyone has it. In fact, I occasionally peek at you between conversations. I really want you to know that the casual joke at that moment is about liking you. "

When you have a crush on someone, you always like to test them. Maybe you say you like them in a joke, maybe you reach out and touch their hair, maybe you pay fair and square.

The purpose of these temptations is only one-to know each other's thoughts and whether it is possible for two people.

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However, in feelings, it is actually a better way to use it than temptation, that is, to say what you want, especially when the other party has discovered it, because your self-confidence that you dare to admit it is easier for you to get love.

Just like a girlfriend and her boyfriend, her boyfriend had a crush on her for three years before they got together. She can feel her boyfriend's efforts, but she doesn't know his intentions. At that time, she was not sure whether the other person really liked her.

So when they were chatting, they asked him, "Do you like me?" .

After listening to this sentence, the boy paused for a few seconds and said, "I like you for so long. Do you think I have hidden it too well?" Then he asked Yo-Yo if he wanted to be with him.

At first, Youyou was really just testing each other. Hearing this, she really moved to that person, because she felt a boy's concern and a boy's confidence from such an answer.

There is a saying in The Secret Buried by Time: "I have a crush on him for a long time. If I don't go to him, he will never see me. "

Maybe you don't know how to get close to that person, but when the other person finds you, it is the best way to admit your mind directly, because the way you dare to admit it on your own initiative at least proves that you are responsible for your feelings and represents your confidence. Only if you can believe in yourself will others believe in you.

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No matter what kind of ending, you must give an answer to unrequited love.

Every time I meet someone who has a secret crush but dare not express it, I will ask them a few questions:

If that person misses it, will you regret it? If you later know that she liked you, will you regret it? If something happens to you tomorrow, will you regret it?

These situations will really happen, just like watching a Japanese variety show-"hilarious! Sanma Akashiya Royal Longevity Grand Prix 20 16.

Grandpa Xiufu in the variety show told a love story he had experienced.

At the age of 24, Grandpa Xiufu met a lovely girl. He has always secretly loved each other, but he has never dared to confess.

In grandpa Xiufu's eyes, the girl seems to be the most beautiful person, so in this hesitation, he lost the girl forever, because the other party died unexpectedly two years later.

Grandpa Xiufu, who participated in the variety show, is 76 years old, but he hasn't been married since he missed that girl, and he hasn't met anyone who will make him move again.

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Feelings are often like this. You think there is still time in the future. If you don't confess in the future, you can talk about it later, but there really isn't that much in the future.

When your secret love has been discovered, it is the best time to express yourself. Since you can't hide your feelings, you might as well admit it directly.

As Zhang Xiaoxian once said:

"I was a person, why want to go to unrequited love and unrequited love? Even if it is love, you should give yourself a deadline. Time is up, bite your teeth and let go. Who knows that there will be no more beautiful scenery ahead? That man doesn't love me no matter how good he is, and the story ends here. "

After admitting that you like it, there are only two results, either accept it or refuse it.

Being accepted, you have a partner in two of a kind. It's worthwhile to have such a secret love for so long and have such an ending. But rejection is not a good result. At least you can know what to do after the relationship. At least you can know if you should let go.

So, when the person you secretly love suspects that you like her, just admit it generously. Your confidence is the help of your feelings. No matter what the result is, facing is the best result.

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