In love, how many unpleasant but reasonable truths do you understand?

In love, some words sound unpleasant and unreasonable, especially for some young people who have just come into contact with love. But you can gradually understand it in later love.

0 1, love is looking for someone to shelter you from the wind and rain, only to find out in the end that the wind and rain are brought to you by the other party.

There is a line in "Big Fish Begonia": "I would like to be the storm of the world and be with you." At that time, I was thinking, why should it become a storm? Can't it turn into sunshine? Of course, it does sound very classy.

However, in reality, girls want to find someone to shelter from the wind and rain, but they didn't expect that all the storms later were brought by each other. Some people don't want to believe that the storm will pass. However, how can a person who really loves you and is really suitable make you suffer a little wind and rain?

02. There is no cold person, but it is not you who is warm.

Boys are cold to themselves, and girls make excuses, because he is naturally cold, and so are other girls. However, when one day you see that he is kind to a man, almost licking the dog, you will find that he just doesn't want to warm you.

Similarly, there are other constellations. Many girls believe this. There is no natural hot and cold constellation. A constellation that doesn't really love you will be hot and cold.

Although I can't say that I love you if I am willing to spend money for you, I don't love you if I don't want to spend money for you.

No matter how much a boy loves you and cares about you at ordinary times, but he is never willing to spend money for you, then this boy just doesn't love you, without exception. A boy who loves you must want you to eat, drink and dress well. He can't wait to eat steamed bread for half a month and buy you a beautiful dress.

One boy only has 10 yuan, so he can spend 9 yuan for you, and another boy has 100 yuan, so he can spend 10 yuan for you. Naturally the former loves you more. Although money is not the only criterion to measure love, you can also see a lot.

04. The first time I hit you, and the next time, I cheated only 0 times, countless times.

In love, there are two things that can never be forgiven, that is, domestic violence and infidelity, which can never be forgiven, because they will have a second time, only 0 times and countless times, and it is difficult to stop from the beginning.

As long as the other party has such behavior, they will be separated immediately. Don't hesitate, no matter how much you like each other.

05. Never test the other half with a trumpet.

How many girls want to test the loyalty of their boyfriends, and the result is that they are asking for trouble. I just saw a post on the Internet today. A woman used a trumpet to ask her husband if he was married. As a result, the husband directly said no, and even teased his own woman.

The consequences can be imagined. Never use a trumpet to test your partner. Human nature will never stand the test.

06. All jokes and slips of the tongue are true thoughts.

All the slips of the tongue are subconsciously trying to tell us, so if he inadvertently slips of the tongue, says he doesn't like you, or compares you with others, that's what he really thinks.

In fact, from another angle, we can feel this feeling ourselves. Therefore, in normal times, it is the real idea to pay more attention to those seemingly casual words.

07. When it comes to love, if you still consider self-esteem, it only means that you love yourself the most.

In love, do you want self-esteem? This problem has been bothering people. There is a joke circulating on the Internet. The prince waited downstairs for the princess 100 days, but after waiting for 99 days, he left on the last day, because the first 99 days were because he liked it, and the last 1 day was because of his dignity.

Such a story is just to illustrate a truth. It has been waiting for 99 days. Can't it wait 1 day? So in my opinion, if you meet true love in love, you can't consider self-esteem. But this love can only happen once.

The most terrible thing in love is that he treats you well not because he really loves you, but because you are his other half.

This is a terrible thing. If his partner is someone else, he will be kind to others. For him, you are never the only and irreplaceable person.

And now this phenomenon is more common. Because of blind date, they just want to find an object and don't care much about what this object is like. But what's the point of such feelings?

People will meet many people who have a secret crush in their life, and they may mistakenly think that they like it, but it is just a temporary favor. After all, the heartbeat is not the answer, but the brain is.