Relax with money.

1, eat whatever you want, and waste money if you can't finish it. You have already spent it. Waste or not waste money. Because I don't want to waste it, I really waste money. After all, you spend money to make yourself happy.

2. If the distance is too far, take a taxi by subway 1.5h, and take a taxi for only 0.5h, the whole person will really reduce consumption, which is the real happiness!

Because the time cost is reduced, I will be more willing to do what I want to do! For example, every time I go dancing, I will be delayed for fear of taking the 1.5h subway, and finally lie on the sofa for a day. Besides saving money, what else do I have? The money saved didn't make me feel happy at all.

The amount of savings really can't make me feel really happy in my daily life.

Once there is no stable cash flow, even if you hold deposits, you are still anxious and afraid to spend money.

Pick and choose, sometimes I really don't know what's the point of living.

What is saved is only numbers, but what is spent is life.

Don't take your parents as a frame of reference for spending money.

Although the money I earn from working is enough for me to eat what I want, buy clothes I want to wear and enroll in my favorite interest classes, as long as I think that it is a waste of money in the eyes of my parents, or that they are frugal, I feel guilty and worthless. This concept is simply poisonous.

First of all, I earned the money hard, and I can spend it how I want.

Secondly, the prices in big cities are all here. If you want to satisfy your desires in a big city, it is more expensive than a small county, and you can't afford to buy a house or a car. Then you don't know what you want in life. Just a money-making machine?