Being derailed, I resolutely divorced and didn't want children. Ex-husband: Your heart is too cruel!

When a husband and wife divorce, the first consideration is always the children. Women, on the other hand, have a natural maternal love for their children, and usually they are particularly reluctant to give up their children and insist on taking them with them. But there are also some women who don't want children after divorce. Are these women trying to understand or being cruel?

Xu Zhe knew for the first time that it was so troublesome for a person to take a baby to see a doctor.

Unfortunately, he brought two.

The son is 5 years old and the daughter is 2 years old. First, my daughter has a cold, fever and cough. The adults didn't care much, didn't do a good job of isolation, or let them play together and sleep together. As a result, my brother was infected two days later.

Hospitals on weekends can be described as crowded. Xu Zhe spent nearly two hours waiting in line to sign a contract with the doctor.

As a result, Xu Zhe just sat down with her daughter and son in her arms. The old doctor with white beard and eyebrows asked a few questions, listened to them on the chest and back of the stethoscope, and arranged the next step without looking up: "Just take a blood test first, prick your fingers, and then show me the test sheet. Next, liu ... "

Xu Zhe finally lined up to pay the fee, and then lined up to draw blood. I finally waited for them, but my son was extremely afraid of drawing blood. Before the nurse put down the needle, he cried, and his daughter cried when she cried. At that moment, Xu Zhe felt that these two guys were going to tear down the hospital.

Finally, with the help of two people next to him, the blood was successfully drawn.

However, by the time the test report came out, the doctor had already left work and had to wait for the afternoon.

After seeing the doctor, I took the medicine, about five o'clock in the afternoon Adults and children were tortured to listlessness.

At this time, Xu Zhe especially missed Xiao Mei, remembering that every time the children got sick, most of them were handled by herself.

It turned out that her complaints and outbursts were not made out of nothing.

As for him, a few years ago, because of his busy work, his company was in a neighboring city and he only went home once a week, so things at home could not help at all.

In the past year, although he was transferred back and the company was not far from home, he still took care of his family because he had to try his best to find time to date and hang out with Wang Fang.

He didn't want to pester Wang Fang for too long, but when he was still eating bone marrow, he was discovered by Xiao Mei.

For his excuse-just made a mistake that men all over the world will make, Xiao Mei didn't hesitate much after hearing it, but started fighting and gave a "judgment"-divorce.

Xiao Mei's divorce is determined, and no one can convince her. Besides, she keeps the house clean, including the children, and she doesn't want any of them.

On the day of leaving, the two children cried miserably beside her! She stopped looking back, crying and looking at the children.

Until that moment, Xu Zhe discovered that in Xiaomei's soft body, there lived a soul as hard as a stone.

Even this time, when the child was ill, Xu Zhe asked her to take care of it for a few days, but she refused.

This woman's heart is not generally vicious.

Xu Zhe thought bitterly.

Then I thought that I had destroyed this family myself.

This layer of cognition finally came down like a boulder, crushing his last pride and covering his face painfully.

02、

Xiao Mei and Xu Zhe were high school classmates, but they didn't get together until their junior year.

Two years after graduating from college, they got married without a car or a house. But Xiao Mei doesn't care. In her opinion, they won't always be so poor.

Indeed, Xu Zhe works very hard. In order to earn more money, he did two jobs.

After his son was born, he worked harder, thinking of saving another two years to make up the down payment on the house. By then, the three of them can finally have a real home in this city.

As it happens, his company will send people to a neighboring city to form a team to open up new markets. Once successful, promotion, salary increase and generous bonus are all in the air.

Xu Zhe was very moved and went home to discuss with Xiao Mei. Without much thought, Xiao Mei agreed.

But it also means that almost everything in the family depends on Xiao Mei. It can be said that she is both a father and a mother, and she has to be a good wife. Xu Zhe's mother is in her sixties, weak and has three highs. She has to go to the hospital from time to time.

Xiao Mei gritted her teeth and persisted, but hard work and pressure often made her lose control of her emotions and even broke down and cried when she called him.

She is not without complaints and grievances, especially when she needs him, she is always away.

In this regard, Xu Zhe felt guilty and sad, and vowed to let NianLia live a good life.

However, things are unpredictable. When her son was three years old, Xiao Mei was unexpectedly pregnant with a second child. Facing the new-born family, Xiao Mei knows what another one means to her and them.

She didn't want to go through the pain of childbirth again and decided to have an abortion. But Xu Zhe and her mother-in-law don't want to. They always wanted a second child, and they all advised Xiao Mei to keep this child.

Xiaomei was soft-hearted and couldn't stand persuasion, so she agreed.

After giving birth to her daughter, Xiaomei took two children by herself, and her mother-in-law occasionally helped, and invited a day-shift nanny to cook and do housework, so that it would not be too hard, and Xiao Mei's second child life was not as terrible as expected.

But Xiao Mei never dreamed that he would succeed, but Xu Zhe had an accident.

When his daughter was half a year old, Xu Zhe was transferred back to this city. Because of his good grades, he got a promotion and a raise. In addition, I have earned a little money from investment and financial management in the past two years, and gradually, it is a bit floating.

At that time, Xu Zhe was entangled with her colleague Wang Fang. Wang Fang is the backbone of the company's business She is 36 years old and still single. However, she is a little beautiful, well managed and surrounded by male companions.

Xu Zhe and Wang Fang often overlap in their work. They often travel together, attend dinners, drink and entertain. In this way, when they look up, they are even more ambiguous about their fair-weather friends, and they all have a small moth in their hearts.

Xu Zhe was sober at first, knowing that he had a family status. But I can't help all kinds of ambiguous temptations. Plus, between him and Xiao Mei, after several years in different places, I have experienced a chicken feather in my life, and my passion has long since disappeared, and more is a touch of affection.

In this way, step by step, the little thing between two people finally broke through the last line of defense on business trip.

After the incident, Xu Zhe, like many men who made mistakes, felt remorse, guilt, remorse and guilt ... I couldn't wait to be nice to my wife ten times and eight times.

But on the other hand, he and Wang Fang are getting deeper and deeper. Because derailment itself has fatal attraction, it is also an escape from a stagnant life.

Soon, there were rumors about them in the company. Xu Zhe was guilty because he knew that if Xiao Mei knew about them, it would be like throwing a bomb at her.

But Xiao Mei was skeptical. Ironically, Xu Zhe took precautions, but I didn't expect the answer to lie in their married life.

According to the past, whenever Xu Zhe went on a business trip for more than a week and the couple didn't meet for a long time, Xu Zhe would be anxious.

It happened that Xiao Mei found that in the past six months, Xu Zhe had traveled four or five times, and every time he came back, he was not anxious or slow, and it was longer than before.

Difference is too big, and then a little bit associated with the last two Xu Zhe company dinner, colleagues look at her eyes have a kind of indescribable meaning, all kinds of, chaumet didn't think much.

Her brain is buzzing with confusion. Does this mean that someone has satisfied him?

Since then, Xiao Mei has paid more attention to her husband's actions, chat records, phone records and transfer payments. ...

It is said that women are born detectives.

Soon, Wang Fang and most of the information about her were presented to Xiao Mei.

Like most women who don't believe that their husbands will cheat, Xiao Mei is like chewing a stone, trying to swallow and digest all this.

In fact, for Xiao Mei, the real pain is not infidelity itself, but when she tried her best to sacrifice her health and career prospects to maintain this family, he chose betrayal.

In five years, he is getting better and better, and his future is bright, but she is only accompanied by shit?

She thought of five years of child-rearing life, took Chinese medicine for nearly five years to treat her headache, but her waist still couldn't straighten up, and she often leaked urine, so that she had to put adult diapers in her bag, and suddenly she felt a surge of hatred.

Those who are betrayed should remember this shame and hatred!

Xiao Mei came to Xu Zhe Company, pulled Wang Fang out of the crowd and slapped her in the face: "It's no exaggeration to sleep with my man and slap you in the face!"

As for Xu Zhe, she gave him everything, everything, and then filed for divorce.

Some people are very sensitive to feelings, and they don't have 100% delivery and sincerity. They would rather not.

Xiao Mei is such a person.

Xiao Mei is inseparable from this marriage. No matter how much Xu Zhe repents and curses, relatives and friends take turns to persuade him, but they all turn a deaf ear. There is only one appeal: divorce.

03、

The conditions for divorce are simple and cruel: Xiao Mei doesn't want children and gets along for two days a week; Don't want property, but ask yourself and Xu Zhe to save a sum of money for their two children every year until 18 years old.

Because she has no children, Xiao Mei has been attacked like never before-how can a mother have no children?

People ignore the fact that the initiator of the whole thing is Xu Zhe's derailment and betrayal.

Xu Zhe took two children and hired a nanny to take care of him at home, busy with work and family. Besides, he has to take care of his sick mother from time to time, and he can get a lot of sympathy. It is not easy to sigh at him.

Xiao Mei made fun of him for this: "Yes, it's not easy. It is certainly not easy to have no time to date the woman you love. "

Xu Zhe become angry from embarrassment, divorce, which have time to tube wang fang? As for Wang Fang, instead of taking advantage of him, she was humiliated in public, which led her colleagues to point fingers and see jokes. The most embarrassing thing is that she was called by the leader and gave a long and hard lecture.

To this end, Wang Fang was very angry. She kicked Xu Zhe away and vowed never to mess around with married men again.

When I came back from the hospital, Xiao Mei ignored the children and couldn't help worrying. She took two children to live for a few days, although she kept saying that it was not time to visit.

Don't have to work hard for the family, Xiao Mei Yan Ming a lot, full of energy, looking at Xu Zhe's eyes full of ridicule.

Xu Zhe, tortured to death, finally breathed a sigh of relief. "Hey, I thought you were so cruel that you didn't even care about your children!"

"Cruel?" Xiao Mei felt harsh and sneered: "I am cruel to let you take the children to see a doctor alone? There are several medical records at home. Are you interested in hearing me count? How many times have I traveled to and from the hospital alone in recent years? "

Xu Zhe immediately silent.

Xiao Mei won't let him go. "Just say that at the end of last year, my son was infected with pneumonia and was hospitalized for two weeks. I stayed in the hospital, and my sister was brought by my grandmother at home. I didn't pay attention. My sister knocked over the cup that had just been filled with boiling water. I rushed back, and her whole arm was red, blistered and swollen. Where were you at that moment? "

Xiao Mei continue to sneer, "you tell me, on a business trip. But then I checked the timeline. You were on a business trip, but you were with your lover. You call it your honeymoon in the chat. "

The more Xu Zhe listened, the more he wanted to plug his ears with cotton. How embarrassing!

"A mother who doesn't want children is called cruel, but how many times has she been treated cruelly before that?" Xiao Mei snapped: "Anyone can call me cruel, but you Xu Zhe are not qualified."

Xiao Mei said that he would never look at Xu Zhe again and left with two children.

Conclusion:

Children are meat from their mothers! Loving children seems to be a mother's innate instinct.

However, for the whole family, after giving everything, it may not be warm and rewarding!

On the contrary, it may be betrayal and more disgust.

When I get divorced, I don't want my child's mother, maybe I want to understand, maybe I don't want to be stupid, I don't want to be a dedicated mother and wife, and I don't want to sacrifice my life for my family and children!

Such a woman will always understand that only by living a good life can she be good to her children and her family.