When I was a junior, I felt unprecedented loneliness. Unlike when I was a freshman and a sophomore, I participated in school club activities and didn't have a rich after-school life.

You can pass CET-4 and CET-6 and take the exam again. I heard from a friend that one of his brothers got an international translation certificate, which cost 20,000 yuan a month. . In addition to studying hard, it is also important to exercise your various abilities, such as student union and good clubs. The school is a small society, so come on! Here are some words I hope can help you:

First, don't think that you can get what you once wanted in the student union. Your enthusiasm for work is likely to change because of what you see and hear, but don't be afraid. You have 1 1 year to adapt or endure, and decide whether to continue or quit.

Second, there may be true love in college, but it is only possible to remember it. Many times they are together because others are in love and envy or other reasons. Therefore, any breakup does not need to be too hurt. Remember, too much hurt and true love are still worth pursuing.

Third, if your family is average, remember that you have many unexpected places to spend money in college. For example, in the second major or various classes in the future, don't spend money indiscriminately for your family and your own future. Remember, forever.

Friend, your college friend is likely to be a part of your future career. They will help you. But you should also give yourself the strength to help them, so you should work hard, and you and your friends will build a brilliant career together in the future. It's good. Really? But remember, you must all work hard.

Fifth, many things will be found to be nothing in retrospect. So, no matter how angry you are, tell yourself that you don't have to do this, and you will find that you really don't have to do this.

Study and never forget her. No matter what others say, universities are places to improve comprehensive ability. If you fail in your study, you are nothing-don't rule out accidents, but have you thought about it? Could it have been an accident?

Don't swear, know the power of habit. When you are looking for a job or in contact with others, your casual words or sentences will greatly reduce your image in the eyes of others.

Eight, make good use of the opportunity to speak, show or exercise in public, or.

It is extremely important not to judge yourself and others. What you have seen and heard may be only one side, and it is not worth it for this friend who has lost the possibility.

10. If you find yourself eating in the canteen for a long time or going to study alone, don't worry. It's normal to be alone in college. Do you feel lonely? Your friends are afraid that you think you have no free space, so don't think you have no friends.

Eleven, a lot of things have been notified to you, so say thank you, and don't blame you for not notifying you, because those things should actually be clarified by yourself.

12. Don't talk nonsense about "I invite you to dinner" because everyone will take it seriously. No matter what you think, it is very common to invite people to dinner in college, and it is almost normal to invite someone you don't know very well to dinner.

13. Dignity is the most important thing, but in college, you should know how to use this space to exercise yourself and let your dignity bear enough. You know, society is a place that likes to break human dignity most, and no one will keep it for you except yourself.

14. University is a sub-society. Right, so, in senior three, you have to look like an adult. When freshmen see you, you should make them think that you are their senior. You are very mature.

You have every reason to admire people who get up early every day. If you don't believe me, then do it. After doing it, you will find that many people admire you.

Call home often, even if they say they don't want you.

Seventeen, you can get drunk sometimes, which is acceptable to us, but you have to understand that getting drunk with real friends can stop sad things, otherwise, you will only become the talk and laughing stock of others.

18. If you seldom go to the library for four years, you will waste a lot of wealth. So, if you go for a long time, you will get something.

Nineteen, whether male or female, if you still pay too much attention to looks in college, you may not suffer, but you will suffer sooner or later. Maybe, maybe.

Twenty, many bosses will ask you during the interview-what would you do if you could meet the boss? Maybe you can actually remember this question now, so that you may answer it well in the future-especially for liberal arts students.

If you accept freshmen in the new semester, when asked about the school, you should remember that you are not only a member of this school, but also bring confidence to your brothers and sisters. You should know how much you trusted your seniors at that time.

Don't always complain about unfairness. Your unfairness is fair to others. Dialectical method-learned in senior three, remember?

Don't be obsessed with online games. Please don't.

24. I love you. Don't say that to many people. In college, I mean, I hope you can only talk to one person. This is to respect the people you love and to respect your own feelings.

Twenty-five, university, because the place you stay is a university, so you have room to bear failures and blows, so you should ... really should, find the difference ... self-confidence and pride, which can be used for a lifetime.

Twenty-six, if your character keeps many people away from you, then your character is a failure, and the success of your character lies in attraction, not exclusion.

Second, seventh, if you don't take sleeping in class as an exercise and you do it, then you are strong. Remember, you should be like this. No matter how bad teachers are, they are better than students, because they are teachers.

Twenty-eight, the president of the student union and other cadres, if you respect them, tell yourself that it is because they are your seniors, not because they are your superiors. Don't be afraid of shame. If you are really bad, don't be afraid of losing face. If you can, I suggest you-pursue shame, this is a successful attempt. As for those who laugh at you for this, you can exclude them from the list of your future opponents, so

Seek hope from despair and life will eventually be brilliant.

Don't fantasize about being the darling of job fairs. When you know that 70% of junior high school students can go to college, you should know that people will not worship the majority of a group.

You must learn English well, but English will never be the whole guarantee of your life, so learning more may sometimes save lives. You may not like something, but you have to learn to accept it-if you can't change it.

Treat strangers as a blank sheet of paper, or treat them as your friends. In short, don't treat them as enemies, even if you hear more bad rumors about them.

45. People who love you, whether you accept it or not, should thank each other, which is your respect.

Listening to the radio at night is also a kind of happiness and joy.

Forty-seven: Be sure to take time out to exercise every week. There are many benefits.

48. If someone around you is jealous of you, you can exclude him from the competition. It is difficult for jealous people to achieve great things.

Forty-nine, don't argue, you can think back, you will find that people can't win the argument, and it can be said that the topic raised in the argument is not worth arguing.

50. There are many ways to succeed. Don't refuse to accept methods you don't like.

Fifty-one, man, you may not be handsome, but you can be handsome, that is really handsome. (Of course, so do women. Therefore, you don't have to care too much about dressing up.

52. Only by learning to be chic can everything be chic. But it's only possible. Some people succeed because of their excellent social skills, but you must remember the value of strength.

53. Entering the university is a new environment and meeting new people. Your past is a blank sheet of paper to them. This is the best time for you to reshape your image, get rid of your previous shortcomings, and you should appear as a brand-new image before entering a new environment.

54. Those who insist on love, remember to insist, but don't be hurt by love.

Fifty-five, whether it's literature or martial arts, I mean you have to do something. Relaxation in everything is a taboo. Knowing a few things is the realm.

Fifty-six, QQ is a tool to contact friends, and it can also be a tool to make friends, but don't trust the friendship on QQ easily, let alone fantasize about the appearance of friends on QQ easily.

Fifty-seven, you can still be impulsive, which means that you still have a heart for life. You are always impulsive, which means that you still don't understand life.

Fifty-eight, if you can't have it, tell yourself not to forget it-if you can bear the pain.

59. Although the concept of class is not obvious in college, don't forget your classmates and friends.

60. Prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. Better early than late.

Sixty-one, don't complain about things like CET-4 and CET-6, it is a good thing to prove your ability.

Sixty-two, we must have elite consciousness. Think about it. It is meaningless for people in colleges to be infatuated with martial arts romance.

Sixty-three is nothing more than straight and smooth. It's in the outer ring.

665. Never aspire to be a person who doesn't offend anyone. Some people object to being supported and then making their own decisions is a wonderful life.

Courage, courage, even if you fail, don't let your life be mediocre.

If you like someone, tell him or her bravely. I said in Tianya that university is a place to study, but I understand the power of love. Pursuing the person you really love, as long as you think it is worthwhile, is worthwhile.

Sixty-eight, you have to believe one sentence: nothing is impossible! ! ! There really isn't. Do it. Now we are students. What about ten years later? Think about it in 20 years.

69. I don't think about whether I can succeed or not. Since I have chosen a distant place, I only care about bitterness and difficulty.

Regret is an emotion that enervates the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake. So don't regret.

Seventy-one, we really have a hard time. First, we have to bear all kinds of external pressures, but also face our own inner confusion. In the struggle, if someone gives you an understanding look, you will feel the warmth of life. Maybe just a brief glance is enough to make me feel excited.

Everyone has potential energy, but it is easy: covered by habit, blurred by time and consumed by inertia.

Seventy-three, among thousands of people, meet the person you met; In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, we happened to catch up, neither earlier nor later.

Seventy-four, you can choose to persist or give up. There is no right or wrong. I mean for love, but the important thing is to stick to your choice.

I believe that the power of time can dilute many things.

76. Doing the same thing every day in college can exercise us a lot. Give it a try.

Smile more, and you will slowly make yourself truly happy.

There are many ifs in life, but there are no buts.

When you don't know how to give up, you can tell yourself that you still know how to persist.

Eighty, whether the university's mobile phone should be used is the only answer.

81. Never look down on poor students in universities.

Eighty-two, look at the job fair in the university. You will feel a crisis in the future.

Eighty-three, everyone. Everyone. Everyone. I have to say three times that everyone can describe the number of people in the scene. A big brother in my dormitory described the job fair to me, and then I went to see it. Everyone. Everyone. Everyone.

The older you get, the less obvious right and wrong are. There is nothing wrong, this is a fact and cannot be changed, so remember to make every friend worth making.

Don't forget your friends when you are bored. When friends are bored, don't forget that you are their friend.

There is only one way to divide social classes, and that is competition. You must work hard, or you will be at the bottom of society.

Understand the characteristics of university learning and master the methods of university learning.

Learning from middle school to university is a major turning point in life. The important characteristics of university life are: self-care, independent management, ideological self-education and high self-consciousness in study. Especially in the content, methods and requirements of learning, great changes have taken place compared with middle school learning. If you really want to learn knowledge and skills, you should not only continue to carry forward the spirit of hard struggle, but also adapt to the teaching rules of universities, master the learning characteristics of universities and choose the learning methods that suit you. Learning in universities not only needs to master profound basic theories and professional knowledge, but also attaches importance to the cultivation of various abilities. College education has obvious career orientation, which requires college students not only to master book knowledge in a down-to-earth manner, but also to cultivate the ability to study and solve problems. Therefore, we should pay special attention to the cultivation of self-study ability, learn to control the study time independently, and study consciously, actively and vividly. We should also pay attention to the cultivation of thinking ability, creative ability, organizational management ability and expression ability, so as to lay a good foundation for adapting to social work in the future.

First, the initiative characteristics of university learning

The remarkable feature of university study and middle school study is that dependence is reduced and replaced by active and conscious study. The purpose of university teaching is to cultivate builders and successors of the socialist cause with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique. The content of education is to impart basic knowledge and professional knowledge. Education is very professional, and it is also necessary to introduce the latest cutting-edge knowledge and technical development of this major and industry. The depth and breadth of knowledge is greatly expanded than that of middle school. Classroom teaching is often an outline. The teacher only talks about the difficulties, doubts, key points or the most experienced parts of the teacher in class, and the rest depends on the students themselves to learn, understand and master. Most of the time is reserved for students to study by themselves. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate and improve the self-study ability of college students. University study can't be completely dependent on teachers' plans and arrangements like middle school. Students can't simply accept the teaching content in class, but must give full play to their subjective initiative and their potential in learning. This way of learning, which fully embodies autonomy, will run through the whole process of university study and be reflected in all aspects of university life. For example, self-arranged learning, self-selected learning content and learning methods, and so on.

The cultivation of self-study ability is an important aspect to adapt to the characteristics of university learning autonomy, and every college student should develop the habit of self-study. As Qian Weichang said, whether a person can develop the habit of self-study and learn the habit of self-study during his four years in college not only determines to a great extent whether he can learn college courses well and really learn knowledge, but also affects whether he can continuously absorb new knowledge, carry out creative work and make greater contributions to the country after graduation. In today's society, knowledge is updated faster and faster, and the amount of human knowledge will double in about three years. After graduating from college, it is impossible to teach yourself or cultivate your self-study ability, and it is impossible to update your knowledge. Therefore, it is an important task to cultivate and improve the self-study ability of college students, and it is also the basic condition of lifelong learning. In the choice of learning methods, college students should give full play to their autonomy. Generally speaking, there are four main forms of college students' learning activities: classroom learning activities according to the educational syllabus; Self-study activities to supplement classroom learning; Creative activities of independent research; Learning activities that discuss and inspire each other. In different learning forms, we should give full play to the autonomy of learning and choose the most effective learning method that suits us according to our own situation. University study is no longer about memorizing what teachers say, but about choosing and absorbing useful knowledge according to your own learning goals and professional requirements. We should choose our own methods and rely on ourselves to understand and digest what we have learned.

Second, the combination of professionalism and comprehensiveness.

The most obvious feature of university education is its specialty. From the moment you apply for a university, the choice of major direction is mentioned in front of the candidates. When you are admitted to the university, your major direction has been determined. The contents of the four-year university study are all arranged around this general direction. In fact, university study is a kind of high-level professional study. With the change and development of social requirements for this major, it is deepening, knowledge is constantly updated and knowledge is broader. In order to adapt to the highly differentiated and comprehensive characteristics of contemporary scientific and technological development, this major can usually only be a general direction, with more specific and detailed professional goals, which can only be finally determined during college imprisonment or after entering the society in the future. Therefore, while carrying out professional education, universities should also take into account the characteristics of adapting to the development of science and technology and the requirements of society for comprehensive knowledge of talents, and expand their comprehensiveness as much as possible to enhance their adaptability to social work after graduation. Generally speaking, professional counterparts are relative, and it is impossible to achieve complete professional counterparts. In this way, in addition to learning professional knowledge well during college, we should also choose or study other courses by ourselves according to our own abilities, interests and hobbies, expand our knowledge and lay a good foundation for better adapting to work after graduation.

Third, the characteristics of all-round development and ability training

All-round development of morality, intelligence and physical education is the basic requirement of China's educational policy for students. The requirement of all-round development is based on Marx's theory of all-round development of social talents in the future and combined with the demand for talents in China's socialist construction. Marx believes that the all-round development of individual labor ability requires not only good scientific and cultural quality, physical quality, ideological and moral quality, but also the ability to properly handle interpersonal relationships and adapt to social changes; Personal talents can be fully developed in many aspects, allowing people to give full play to their talents and show their abilities. Society should provide an environment for the full development of individual abilities. Education in China has always emphasized morality, intelligence and talent. Learning to develop sports in an all-round way is still simply having both ability and political integrity. The five elements of talents are a unified organism, and five aspects promote and restrict the growth of talents, which are indispensable. Ability training is an important task of university education in modern society. No amount of knowledge can be used, only knowledge base. Because some college students have high scores and low ability, the cultivation of college students' ability has become a very important issue in higher education. Acquiring knowledge and cultivating ability are two basic aspects of talent growth, and their relationship is complementary and unity of opposites. Extensive knowledge accumulation is the basis of cultivating and exerting ability, and good ability can promote the mastery of knowledge. The fundamental sign of talents is not how much knowledge they have accumulated, but whether they have the ability to create with knowledge. Creative ability embodies the comprehensive application of various elements in the intelligent structure such as knowledge, talent and learning. If college students want to succeed in their studies, make inventions and make contributions to the progress of human society in the future, they must pay attention to the cultivation of various abilities. Such as scientific research ability, invention and creation ability, information capture ability, organization and management ability, social activity ability, instrument and equipment operation ability, language expression ability and so on. In today's fierce competition in the world, the most fundamental thing is the high-tech competition, and the high-tech competition is mainly manifested in the cultivation of talents and the exertion of abilities. In a sense, university education is an important link to cultivate high-tech talents with knowledge and ability. This requires college students to strengthen the cultivation of professional skills and the development of intelligence on the basis of mastering professional knowledge and other related knowledge at school, and attach importance to the exercise and study of teaching practice in the process of learning book knowledge. We should conscientiously do a good job in professional practice and graduation design, actively participate in social investigation and production practice activities, strive to use modern scientific knowledge and scientific means to study and solve various practical problems in social development and production practice, and overcome the bad tendency of "high marks and low abilities" in learning. Dong Pan, a 86-year-old student in the Investment Department of Dongbei University of Finance and Economics, not only studies professional theoretical knowledge hard, but also goes deep into social practice. Actively engaged in scientific research related to this major, in just a few years, published more than 50 professional papers 150 in central and local newspapers and periodicals, including three editors, dictionaries and monographs, 1.6 thousand words. He took the lead in putting forward the idea of establishing eight disciplines in China, such as investment law, leasing economics, service leasing and enterprise leasing, some of which brought great economic benefits. Dong Pan's research achievements have been highly praised by famous economists at home and abroad. China Economic Research, a well-known American magazine, has written many times to ask for the English translation of its economic monograph.

Fourth, master the correct learning methods.

Learning method is a means to improve learning efficiency and achieve learning goals. Qian Weichang once told college students that a young man should not only study hard, but also have good scientific learning methods. Be diligent in thinking, think more about problems, and don't rely on rote learning. Correct learning methods can often get twice the result with half the effort. The main links to be grasped in university study are: preview, attending lectures, reviewing, summarizing, taking notes, doing homework, taking exams, etc. Grasping these links well can lay a good foundation for further knowledge acquisition.

Preview. This is the main way to master the initiative in class. In the preview, you should write down the questions you don't understand and increase the pertinence of seeking knowledge when attending classes. It not only saves study time, but also improves class efficiency, which is a very important link in learning. Take notes in class. In class, you should pay attention, concentrate on it, and take notes on the main points, difficulties and unique opinions emphasized by the teacher. Try to understand what the teacher said in class. After careful thinking, digestion and absorption, it becomes your own thing.

Review and summarize. Reviewing in time after class is an important part of consolidating what you have learned. In the review, we should carefully sort out the class notes, compare the teaching materials and reference books, summarize and supplement, delete the redundant parts, and write our own experiences and summaries after repeated thinking. Make a summary every month or every stage, so as to integrate the knowledge learned, review the old and learn new, form your own ideas, master the ins and outs of the knowledge learned, and make the knowledge learned more complete and systematic.

Do homework and take exams. Doing homework is to consolidate and digest knowledge, and exams are to test the mastery of what you have learned. It has played a role in finding weak links in time and making up for them. Do homework by analogy, develop good habits, have a correct attitude towards exams, do not cheat, do not simply pursue high marks, regard exams as a drill to test their learning effect and cultivate their ability to solve problems independently, grasp these basic links in learning, think and remember on the basis of understanding, and pay attention to timely digestion and absorption. Through continuous thinking, continuous digestion and deepening understanding, the knowledge and ability gained in this way are solid. In addition to grasping the above main links, university learning should also study the learning rules purposefully, choose learning methods suitable for its own characteristics, and improve its ability to acquire knowledge. Specifically, these methods mainly include:

1. Make a scientific study plan and scheme.

It is far from enough to rely on diligence and hard work in college. Only by mastering the learning rules and making learning plans and programs accordingly can we complete the predetermined learning goals step by step in a planned way. Alice once said: Learning without a plan is simply absurd. It can be seen that strict learning planning is the guarantee to complete the learning task. First of all, according to the school's teaching plan, from the personal reality, according to the requirements of the overall goal, make a basic plan from a strategic point of view. For example, imagine what you want to achieve in college, what kind of knowledge structure you want to achieve, what kind of subjects you have completed, and what kind of abilities you want to cultivate. It is difficult for freshmen to make an overall plan. It is best to consult the teachers of this major and the students of senior year. First, do a good job in the overall planning of Grade One. After a year's practice and familiarity with the characteristics of the university, the four-year overall plan is improved. Secondly, we should make specific plans in stages, such as one semester, one month or one week. This plan is mainly based on our own learning situation and adaptability after entering school, including the focus of study, the distribution of study time, how to adjust learning methods, and what teaching materials and reference books to choose and use. The plan should follow the principles of practicality, feasibility, continuous summarization and appropriate adjustment.

2。 Pay attention to the method and art of reading.

University study is not only to complete the task of classroom teaching, but more importantly, how to give full play to the ability of self-study and enrich yourself in a limited time. Choosing books related to your study and interests is the best way. Shakespeare said, "Books are the nourishment of the whole world", and Bacon also said, "Books are ships of ideas sailing in the waves of the times, and they carefully give precious goods to generation after generation." Learn to choose your own must-read books from the vast number of books, and the art of reading. The first is to determine what books to read, and the second is to classify the books to be read. Generally speaking, it can be divided into three categories: the first category is browsing, the second category is full-text reading and the third category is intensive reading. As Bacon, the proposer of "knowledge is power", said: "Some books can be enjoyed, some books can be swallowed, and a few books should be chewed and digested. Browsing can be rough, reading can be fast, and intensive reading can be precise. In this way, you can read a lot of books in a short time, not only get a broad understanding of the latest scientific and cultural information, but also learn important theoretical knowledge in depth. This is a better reading method. When reading, we should also do the following two things: first, reading and thinking should be combined, and reading should be thought deeply, and we should not be superficial and do not ask for very much. Second, reading is not just a book, not a dead book, so as to learn true knowledge.

3. Be the master of time and make full use of it.

During college, except for classes, sleeping and group activities, the rest of the time is very flexible, so scientific time arrangement is very important for academic performance. Wu Han said in "Learning Collection": "Grasp all the free time and make proper use of it. Even if you study for an hour every day, you will accumulate 365 hours a year. If divided into whole, time will be conquered/you want to be a career. You must cherish time. First of all, we should arrange the daily rest time, what to do at which time, what to do according to our body and brain habits, what to do when the brain is best used, and what to do when the brain is tired, so that we can not only adjust the brain rest, but also engage in some other activities, such as cultural and sports activities. Once the timetable is arranged, it should be strictly implemented, and it should not be delayed or changed at will, so as to form the habit of doing today's work well and never wait for tomorrow. I'll live until tomorrow, and everything will be fine. Secondly, we should cherish sporadic time. The richer the university life, the finer the time cut, and the more sporadic the time. Hua once said: "Time is accumulated by minutes. Only those who make good use of their spare time can achieve greater success. "? Quot British mathematician Cole, 1903, caused a sensation in the world because he solved a mathematical problem that had not been solved for 200 years. It took him nearly three years to finish it on Sunday.

4. Improve the knowledge structure and pay attention to ability training.

The so-called reasonable knowledge structure is the most reasonable and optimized knowledge system, which has both profound professional knowledge and extensive knowledge and the actual needs of career development. Dr. Li Zhengdao said: "I study physics, but I don't specialize in reading physics books." I also like reading miscellaneous books. " I think reading more miscellaneous books can be more flexible when I am young. "When building their own knowledge structure, college students must prevent one-sided prejudice that knowledge is too narrow. Of course, establishing a reasonable knowledge structure is a complicated and long-term process, and we must pay attention to the following principles: ① the principle of integrity, that is, combining expertise with knowledge, one expert with many experts, and one hundred people can use it. (2) Hierarchical principle, that is, the establishment of a reasonable knowledge structure must be from low to high. In vertical connection, basic level, intermediate level and highest level are divided. Without a basic level, no matter how high the level is, it will become a castle in the air. Without a high level, the level will not be displayed. Therefore, no level can be ignored. ③ Proportionality, that is, the reasonable proportion between the quantity and quality of all kinds of knowledge when considering the overall situation. The principle of proportion should be determined according to the training goal, and the composition of different knowledge structures in the direction of success is different. ④ Dynamic principle, that is, the knowledge structure pursued should never be in a rigid state, but should be a dynamic structure that can constantly adjust itself. This is to meet the needs of updating the knowledge of scientific and technological development, researching and exploring new topics and fields, and changing careers, otherwise it will not keep up with the rapid development of the times.

College students should cultivate various abilities, including self-study, operation, research, expression, organization, socialization, obtaining information, choosing reference books, creativity and so on. In short, these abilities are all for preparing for future career. As Einstein said: "Higher education must attach importance to cultivating students' ability to think and explore problems. People use their brain's thinking ability and wisdom to solve all the problems in the world, not to move books. "In short, we must attach great importance to all the abilities and qualities we need in our future work and cultivate them consciously and consciously in the process of learning.