Is there any good way to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with Because the daughter-in-law grew up in another family, her temper and methods of dealing with problems are different from those of her mother-in-law, especially when it comes to her parents' side, and she pays more attention to her parents' interests, so it is easy to have conflicts. Once conflicts arise, they are not easy to solve. My mother-in-law always thinks that she is an elder, and her wife should respect herself when she speaks and does things, especially when it comes to her mother-in-law. A wife should protect her parents' interests, not let her parents suffer, and her mother-in-law should not let herself suffer, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. If the mother-in-law's son, that is, the husband, does not adjust the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will further deepen the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but if the two are serious, there will be quarrels and fights between the two families, leading to the divorce of the son and daughter-in-law. Therefore, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband is the bridge. If the bridge is built, the relationship between the two families can be maintained. If the bridge is not built, it means that the husband can't speak and can't adjust contradictions. Then the consequences can be imagined.

If we want to manage the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, first of all, the two sides should respect each other, understand each other, care about each other and tolerate each other, treat each other as a family, and don't ask each other to live according to their daily habits, even if they sometimes haggle over every ounce, say something wrong or do something wrong, they should loudly accuse them. Please adopt it.