What is happiness?

Busy and confused occupy this world, people often complain that they are happy with nothing, and there are only troubles in life.

Someone once asked me, what is happiness?

It reminds me of when I was young—

I may have been only five or six years old at that time, but I still remember it until now.

There is a little girl as old as me in the neighbor's house. She is ingenious and knows many origami techniques. At that time, in my opinion, this girl was a genius. God gave her extraordinary talent, and I envy her! One day, I want my little girl to teach me how to origami, but the little girl has one condition-she wants my crystal duckling. This crystal duckling is a birthday present from my uncle. It seems expensive to me, but I don't care about learning origami boats!

I readily agreed to the little girl's conditions, and the little girl kept her promise and taught me to make an origami boat. An hour passed and everything paid off. I finally learned how to fold an origami boat and did a lot. Looking at the results of my own efforts, I am extremely gratified, and a smile is tilted at the corner of my mouth, which is the truest smile from my heart! My little heart is full of great love and a sense of accomplishment.

When I got home, I put a lot of water in the basin and a lot of paper boats, white, blue and pink ... colorful, so beautiful in my eyes. I think it is the happiest thing to watch them floating on the pure water and being pushed forward slowly by the breeze. This little paper boat is entrusted with an innocent child's most sincere love for childhood. ...

Afterwards, my mother asked me where the crystal duckling was, and I told her the whole story. My mother asked me, "Tell my mother, are you happy?" I nodded hard. My mother stroked me, gently touched my face with her face and said, "Remember, this is the real happiness!" " "Mother smiled knowingly.

At that time, I didn't understand what my mother meant by this sentence. I think happiness is happiness. Why is there real happiness? But now I understand!

If you are still complaining that happiness has left you; If you are still complaining that happiness has abandoned you; If you are still complaining about not being happy. Then, you should calm down, put aside too many unnecessary luggage in your life, think about it and think about it seriously-what is happiness?

In fact, happiness is very close to you. It always follows you, but you don't realize it.

Perhaps happiness is a paper boat of childhood. ...

Happiness is an angle.

What is happiness? It has no uniform standard, just such an angle.

People who have been struggling and thirsty in the desert for a long time will feel happy as long as they see a trace of green; People who are struggling and scarred in adversity will feel happy as long as they hear half a word of encouragement.

The emperor has the happiness of the emperor and the people have the happiness of the people. For example, many people drink a jar of wine, and some people drink it in a golden cup; Some people drink with beautiful porcelain cups; Some people simply drink with a big bowl; "It smells good and mellow." The essence of happiness is the mellow "wine" you drank, not what kind of cup you held up.

The thorn cut his finger, but fortunately he didn't hurt his eyes; When climbing the mountain carelessly, the gold necklace fell off the cliff, but fortunately it was not life-threatening. The great fortune in these misfortunes, as long as you savor them carefully, will feel that they seem to touch the heartstrings of your happiness.

Happiness lies not only in which angle you appreciate it, but also in which angle you treat it well.

There is such a fable: One day, God took a priest to a room and saw many people sitting around a big pot cooking food. They are hungry and disappointed. Everyone has a spoon, but the handle of the spoon is too long to send food to his mouth. Then God took the priest to another room. There is also a large group of people sitting around a pot. The difference is that people here look full and happy. Their spoons are as long as those in the last room. The priest asked God strangely, "Why are people in this room so happy and those in that room so sad?" God smiled and said, "Don't you see that everyone in this room has learned to feed each other?"

This fable tells us that one cannot always be self-centered. People's spiritual life and material life depend on mutual benefit and mutual existence with others. Altruism is inherent in human nature, and altruism feeds back to me, thus forming a benign "interpersonal chain". The people in the second room and their scenes are the epitome of this society. If you give love, others will appreciate you, and you will appreciate others accepting your love, so that you will always live in happiness. Moreover, the more love you give, the more happiness you get.

Friend, if you want to ask me, since happiness is an angle, where is happiness? I will tell you frankly that happiness is in each of us!

Happiness is a kind of ability, and wisdom is needed to maintain a happy mood at any time. A western philosopher said that people have the nature of avoiding pain and seeking happiness. In real life, everyone pursues happiness, but the result is quite different. Why? Because happiness is an ability.

Whether a person is happy or not depends entirely on his subjective thoughts. It does not depend on external objective conditions, but on the internal psychological change process. The so-called life scenes are different, which is the truth. A happy person is always happy, not because his life is particularly smooth, but because he can look at everything in life with a calm and happy mood. Happy people take a scenic attitude towards life and are very comfortable. Sad people take a long-distance running attitude towards life and persist in their efforts.

If you treat everything in the world as a landscape, you will have the charm of forgetting yourself. Everything just blooms and falls. Sooner or later, the wind blows catkins and geese, so just let nature take its course. Doing nothing; In fact, happiness has nothing to do with luck "A person can only eat and drink and live in a broken alley. People's worries are unbearable, and they will not be happy when they go back. " What Yan Hui admires is his attitude towards life. Facing the difficult environment, he still enjoyed himself, without lamenting or complaining. If a person has a strong mind, he will be calm and happy in the face of the ups and downs of life, but without this power, everything may be unsatisfactory, and it is impossible to solve all spiritual problems simply by material satisfaction.

As long as you master the five "secrets" in life, you will be happy: give more, take less, release hatred, avoid anxiety and live simply. Positive happiness needs to be cultivated. As far as the five "secrets" are concerned, if you want to pay more, you must have physical strength, intelligence and the ability to struggle; Ask less and learn to understand; To release hatred, we must learn to be tolerant; To avoid anxiety, you must have self-control; To live a simple life, you must have the ability to "let go". When what you get is different from what you want, you should understand others and find the reason from yourself. People who are tolerant and great and have the ability to tolerate others are open-minded and happy people; Trouble is the result of indulgence and the parasite of lust. People who have no self-control are farthest from freedom. Without self-discipline, there is no freedom, and without freedom, there is no happiness. It's not easy to taste all kinds of life and feel really happy. Because true happiness requires a simple and clear heart. This is why children are easy to be happy. Having experienced the ups and downs of life, you need not only a clear head but also wisdom to stay happy. Mature mentality and healthy personality are particularly important. Whether you gain or lose, whether your career is successful or ordinary, whether it is smooth sailing or frustrated, you can remain happy, which is the real intelligence. Happiness is an ability.

The secret of happiness is to find inner peace. When you haggle over gains and losses, happiness slips through your fingers; When you are desperate to climb the peak, happiness is lost all the way without nostalgia. There is no ego in the heart, perfecting the ego, facing the ego directly, leaving a pure land and a little innocence is the source and motivation of happiness. Although not as carefree as the benevolent and wise, but also gained the ability to be happy. Unhappy things often happen in this world, which is an objective law and does not depend on human will. If you treat unpleasant things as your own novel or drama and play the leading role in that work, you will feel much better. Blindly indulging in unhappiness will only make unhappiness more unhappy. "I have no intention of staying and watching the flowers bloom before the court; Don't be ashamed, follow the clouds in the sky. " Since pessimism is useless, why don't we treat life with an optimistic attitude and keep an optimistic mood? If you look at life optimistically, you can see that "grass is everywhere in Chi Pan" and "birds sing spring mountains". If we treat life pessimistically, we can only look up to "it rains at home in Huangmei season" and overlook "the wind blows over the banana raindrops". For example, when you open the window and look at the night sky, some people see bright stars and a bright night sky; Some people see the darkness. A person with a normal state of mind can read the brilliance of starlight in the boundless night sky and enhance his confidence in life. To treat life with optimism is to treat life with a smile, which is the most favorable weapon for optimism to overcome pessimism. No matter where your life goes, don't forget to look at everything with your own smile. Smile, life can conquer the bad luck that comes one after another; Smile, life can open up a situation that is not conducive to yourself.

It is not easy to keep a happy mood. Pessimism can be seen everywhere in ordinary days, while happiness requires hard work and wisdom to maintain a vibrant mentality everywhere in life. Pessimism makes the road of life narrower and narrower, while optimism makes the road of life wider and wider. Choosing an optimistic attitude towards life is a kind of wisdom. In many helpless lives, look up at the night sky and see the twinkling stars; Looking down at the earth, the earth is green and yellow, yellow and green ... this optimism is a landscape supported by perseverance.

Where there is no scenery in life, the key depends on what kind of mentality to maintain and always maintain a happy attitude. We can see all the beautiful scenery in the sky and all the spring scenery in the world.

What is happiness?

Whenever people are asked this question, they will ponder for a while and finally answer: I can't say.

Yes! I don't know.

So, what is happiness? In fact, happiness is nothing but an angle. If you look at pain from another angle, it becomes happiness; Similarly, if you look at it from another angle, happiness may also become pain.

People in different situations have different levels and requirements for happiness.

For example, in a family with four walls and no enough food all the year round, isn't it great happiness that children can go to school, eat well and wear warm clothes? And this, for a middle-income family, may be nothing.

For another example, in a water-deficient country, as long as you can drink water and use it, it is also happiness; However, if you see the flood coming, people just want to escape.

When I was a child, happiness was being able to go out. I often hold my mother's hand, point to the door and shout, "Outside … outside!" " "Up to now, when I go out, I feel so happy when I see the sky far away. Other children, perhaps, just want to stay at home and play computer games, and they will pull a long face when they go out!

The angle of happiness depends on different ages, different moods and different requirements.

Let's start with age. Children aged five or six are happy as long as their mothers are around all day. And the 80-year-old man, full of children and grandchildren, is happy.

Let's talk about mood again. The mood depends on how happy you are. In a good mood, there will be more happiness, which is a virtuous circle; And in a bad mood, happiness becomes less and less-a vicious circle.

Finally, the requirements. With low requirements, there are more opportunities to enjoy happiness, but this kind of happiness is relatively cheap; If you ask more, you will be less happy, but the "quality" of happiness may be higher.

Age is beyond our control. We can only make up for the lack of age with appropriate actions. But emotions and demands are controllable. Only by finding your own standards will there be more and more happy angles. Until one day, when you look around, happiness always surrounds you. ...

Be a happy person.

What is happiness? When I was a child, I would probably say "happiness is happiness in my heart" without thinking! But when I grow up, I deeply realize that happiness has more than one meaning.

What is happiness? The doctors said, "Happiness is a kind of psychotropic drug, which can sober up people who are confused and cheer up people who are desperate. As long as the patient is happy, he will recover soon. " Oh, it turns out that happiness is still a medicine in the eyes of doctors, but is it just this kind of happiness?

What is happiness? The students said, "Happiness is the moment when I got full marks on the night when there was no homework." . I will be very happy when I overcome a difficult problem. "In the eyes of students, happiness is so simple, but if it is so simple, why are so many people unhappy?

What is happiness? The tramp said with a sad face, "Happiness means that if someone gives you a little money and food, you can eat your stomach, a few dollars a day." I can't help but sigh: why is such a simple request met by a tramp?

What is happiness? Zhou Wang replied with a frown: "Happiness means that I dominate the world and live forever! It is this feeling when all the beautiful things belong to me. " Ha, no wonder Zhou Wang is so sad every day. The original goal is too high. It seems that too much expectation will only bring too much disappointment.

What is happiness? The younger brother said, "Happiness is the joy after I won the championship in running, and it is the joy after my father bought me a good toy." Oh, my brother's expectations are really low. No wonder he is happy every day!

What is happiness? The peers who dropped out of school said, "Happiness is the moment when I put my schoolbag on my back". Alas, why can't such a low requirement be met?

What is happiness? I asked my grandfather, and he told me, "Happiness is the moment when you succeed, and the moment when you are satisfied". The moment I heard grandpa's words, I was suddenly enlightened. Yes, everyone has different life values and different positions, but isn't everyone's happiness an inner expression after success?