Nobody likes to play with fat boys? I am really helpless! !

I was fat when I was a child. The main reason why I don't play with you is that I suggest you find something from yourself:

First of all, do you feel inferior? Many fat friends have a very low self-esteem, and always feel that others are laughing at themselves for being fat. Actually, it doesn't have to be like this. It doesn't matter if someone makes fun of you occasionally and gives you a nickname. Treat with a self-deprecating attitude. People laugh at you for being fat, but you are really fat. People with inferiority often care too much about other people's attitudes, so that you can't get close to others.

Secondly, don't be too arrogant. Fat friends can't feel inferior, but don't go to the arrogant side, that is, they feel that they are not fat, others are very angry when they say they are fat, and they feel that they are in good shape when they look in the mirror all day. In fact, behind this arrogance is a sense of inferiority.

Third, do a good job in study. You are still a student, so you should know who you are and what you want to do. Everyone envies the best, and the person who laughs last is a successful person. If you can become a leader in your studies, I believe your popularity will gradually increase.

Fourth, cultivate a wide range of interests. A wide range of hobbies can allow you to participate in various activities. Please pay attention to my words, that is, to let you participate in the activity. Why do I say that? Because at first, you may be rejected by your classmates. For example, there is a basketball game now. Maybe your classmates won't arrange you when they arrange the players to play. Maybe even if you want to participate, they will refuse you. At this time, it is necessary to straighten your mind. Rome wasn't built in a day. It will take some time to change your classmates' views on you. But if you have a high level of basketball and show it at an appropriate time, won't you be invited to their activities? Isn't this turning passive into active?

Fifth, we should cultivate our good self-cultivation. Put yourself in others' shoes. Who likes to be with a fat, short, stingy and fierce person? It is natural to look good or not, but cultivation is acquired. The charm of a boy is not whether he is fat or thin. If you are full of humor, outgoing and cheerful, and you are always full of happiness, there will be laughter where you appear, so that everyone will avoid you.

Finally, we should strengthen physical exercise. After all, obesity will bring many hidden dangers to health, but don't spend a lot of time on losing weight. Exercise is long-term. Eat less junk food, do more housework, watch less TV and take part in more physical exercise. You will be a most popular friend.