My neighbor's eldest sister gave birth to four sons and laughed at my bad life when I gave birth to five daughters. What should I do?

In my day, not having a son was not looked down upon by my in-laws, but also laughed at by others. Like other peers, I gave birth to five daughters in a row in order to give my son an injustice. I was really exhausted until my fifth daughter was born. No son, no son. I resigned myself.

My neighbor's sister is about my age, and her life is much better than mine. She gave birth to four sons. Everyone in the village praised her for her fertility, and her in-laws were very kind to her. So she gradually developed a sense of pride, was very serious about flattery, and gradually, she also loved to brag. Everyone says he is doing well. He gave birth to four sons, and when he is old, he can have whichever son he wants. This son lived at home for a year and a half, and that son lived at home for a period of time. He was old and died without a son.

Just after giving birth to my little daughter, I was forced to do farm work after giving birth to my second month. When carrying water through my neighbor's elder sister's house, she was carrying a bowl of chicken soup and saw me sweating. She said sarcastically, alas, why did I carry water after giving birth? The work is hard, but I am lucky. After giving birth to a son, you don't have to work, and women still have to make up more. This is called a mother's child.

I was angry and ignored her. I gave birth to a son and a daughter, and my in-laws didn't like it. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, who is the most blessed person is still uncertain.

It's been 30 years, and I brought up my daughters. My in-laws passed away long ago, and I couldn't stand their rejection in my early years and lived independently. They didn't take care of my children for a day. As for the neighbor's eldest sister, her four sons are married and want to move out and live alone, but there is no money at home and the sons can't make any money. Elder sister can only go out to work. 60 years old, who wants you, the factory can't get in, and no one wants to sweep the floor? She can only go out to collect garbage and save money to buy a house for her son. I helped this son, but the other sons didn't want to, saying that my mother was partial and helped that son, and other daughters-in-law had opinions. The eldest sister doesn't eat her own food, and the daughters-in-law scramble to pick it, and no one will let anyone.

When the hot and cold seasons alternate, my neighbor's elder sister suddenly falls ill and coughs every day. Sister found Chinese herbal medicine to boil water, but it was useless. On the contrary, the cough is getting worse. None of the four sons and daughters-in-law visited her, let alone expected to be sent to hospital for treatment. At that moment, the neighbor's elder sister thought it was a blessing to have a son, which was simply nonsense. Everyone came to collect debts, and when they were old and ill, no one took care of them, and they really realized the desolation of their later years.

On a stormy night, my neighbor's elder sister's cough became weaker and weaker, and finally she died alone. Is this the so-called good life?

As for me, because children are brought up by themselves, I know that women's lives are not easy. I taught them to cherish themselves and appreciate their mother's upbringing. My daughters are very kind to me, and my son-in-law is also very filial. My daughters often come home to see me with gifts and give me money, and my son-in-law has no opinion. The daughters rushed to say that they would take me to their house for a while, and the youngest daughter's economy was not bad, and she also took me out to travel.

I was overworked in my early years and easily fell ill when I was old. This time, my daughters took me to the hospital, and my five daughters took turns to take care of me, bringing tea and porridge. The grandmother next door is envious, and even said that a good life is a blessing for a daughter. Unlike me, my son showed up the day he took me to the ward and hasn't shown up since. Today, he said he was busy with meetings, busy with business trips tomorrow, and busy with signing contracts the day after tomorrow. My daughter often comes to see me, but she also has her own family to take care of. It's hard to run at both ends of the hospital. After all, my daughter is very filial.

Chatting and chatting, it's getting late. My daughter has made hot water from the outside and is going to help me take a bath in the bathroom. The grandmother next door can only rely on the care worker to wipe her body. She hasn't taken a bath for half a month. It's embarrassing to think about it.