At what moment did you suddenly feel that parents preferred sons to daughters?

I was born in the 1990s. When I was a child, I didn't feel patriarchal. I always thought it was fair. Actually, if you think about it, there are still boys who prefer girls to boys. In my parents' view, housework should be done by girls. When I grow up, it is more obvious that I prefer boys to girls. I always thought I was a girl who was going to get married. My parents always wanted me to subsidize my family, including the person I married. They all hope to help my brother.

But I can understand that, after all, in the eyes of parents' generation, sons are like their facade, as if their sons can make them proud if they mix well.

As long as it's not too much, we should understand our parents, don't just see their shortcomings, think more about their kindness to us, and think about the kindness of our brothers and sisters.