Only when you are old do you realize that after brothers and sisters break up, they will leave behind three regrets.

Text/Taozi Shuo

Everyone comes from a family. Father, mother, brothers and sisters form a close family with blood relationship. Therefore, for us, family members should be the closest, most trustworthy people in the world, and the ones who can best bring us dependence and security.

When we were children, we often had the strongest relationship with our brothers and sisters, with innocent hearts. We would eat, play, go to school, and sleep together every day. Although we would also fight and make noise, that was all. You can forget all about it in a blink of an eye, and then you will continue to hug each other.

When we grew up, we each had their own life circle, got to know their own classmates, colleagues, and friends, and formed new small groups one after another. Gradually, we began to have friendships with our brothers and sisters. Overcome the gap.

There are even brothers and sisters who have developed a deep hatred for each other because of some things. They simply give up the bond of becoming family members that they cultivated in their previous lives by simply saying that they will never interact with each other until they die.

When elderly parents see their children noisy and noisy, and the whole family cannot live in peace, without the harmony and warmth of the past, they are the most helpless and saddened.

Therefore, some people will slowly understand when they grow old that after brothers and sisters break up, they will leave some regrets in their lives.

From ancient times to the present, we have always said that we should be filial to our parents, but many people do not really understand the meaning of filial piety.

The so-called "filial piety" means to serve your parents wholeheartedly, obey your parents' will, and love each other with your brothers and sisters. If there is no harmony between you and your parents are worried, that would be unfilial.

With the continuous development of society, the intimate state of many years ago that the family held together for warmth has disappeared. What is replaced is the inevitable trend of alienating each other for the sake of their own interests in an increasingly materialistic age.

Aunt Zhang is 75 years old and has two sons and one daughter. The two sons both started families in other places due to work reasons. After the daughter got divorced, she moved in with her mother and took care of her mother's daily life.

A few days ago, Aunt Zhang accidentally fell down the stairs and broke her bones. After hearing about it, the two sons rushed back. Aunt Zhang always felt that her time was short after this fall, so she began to make a will and distribute the inheritance.

Unexpectedly, a quarrel started between the three children. The daughter said: "I have been taking care of my mother for so many years, so she should have more real estate." But the eldest son said: "You have been divorced for so many years and you have been living in your parents' house. Our mother has not asked you for rent, and we don't care about you. ."

As you can imagine, the three brothers and sisters started their own reasonable arguments. The noise was heard by my mother, who was very angry and heartbroken. He scolded his three children and recalled the closeness they had when they were young.

Our parents gave us life and worked hard to raise us. What they most want to see is that every child is healthy, harmonious and caring for each other, and then they can rest assured.

If it is for your own benefit to make your parents sad, this is the greatest disobedience to the elderly.

Family is always our safe haven. Brothers and sisters are the first people who will lend a helping hand to help us when we encounter difficulties.

So, no matter what grievances or sadness you have outside, as long as you get home, you can talk to your family as much as you want. They are your strongest support and also your escape route if you can't endure it.

Zhao Liang has a younger brother. Because his parents left early, the two brothers can be said to have grown up eating a lot of food. The two brothers, who were supposed to rely on each other, had a misunderstanding when they were young. Zhao Liang left the country to work in anger and never returned.

Moreover, I have never called my brother in my hometown and have completely lost contact with him. Recently, Zhao Liang felt unwell. When he went to the hospital for a check-up, he discovered that he was seriously ill and needed to match his blood type. The doctor said that as long as they were close relatives, it would be fine. If he asked, his children could come for a blood test. However, he had been busy with work for so many years and had put aside the matter of marriage.

Now, he suddenly thought of his younger brother, but he was too embarrassed to open his mouth. After all, he had not contacted him for many years, and when he opened his mouth, he was asking for help. But the doctor kept urging him, so he had no choice but to call his brother shamelessly.

My younger brother came to the hospital all the way. When he saw him, he burst into tears. The two hugged each other tightly. This is family. They will be there for you whenever you need them. around.

There was a general in the Song Dynasty, Cui Yanjin. He died of illness, but Mr. Cui’s bones were still cold, and his dandy sons were fighting to the death because of the separation.

The brothers each came up with their own ideas, but when they sat down to make a decision, either the eldest son disagreed, or the second or third son was dissatisfied. In short, they got into trouble and even got into fights.

Later, I found a middleman to mediate, but to no avail. In the end, they actually went to the Yamen, and several brothers went to court. But the government office was afraid of offending one of them, so he handed it to the court directly.

At this time, the embarrassing story of the three Cui brothers fighting over the family property became known to everyone. Everyone pointed at it and became a joke after dinner.

Yes, becoming brothers and sisters by fate in this life is a blessing cultivated in previous lives. This close relationship cannot be replaced by anyone.

Young and energetic people are prone to quarrels, conflicts, and resentments. When time goes by and the age starts to get older, you will find that in this life, people need to let go of their grudges, especially the grudges with their loved ones.

Therefore, many old people will realize in their old age that after brothers and sisters break off their friendship, they will leave regrets in their lives.