After returning to the countryside from a big city and being rejected by my family, this is how I fought back

Life passes by in a blink of an eye, like a fleeting moment, and it has been a hundred years since we looked back. Some people are resigned to life, some are unruly, some are always on the road to pursuing their dreams, and some are always on the road to pursuing their dreams. People are willing to be mediocre, and I am like the grass in the cracks of the bricks. Although I am weak, I always want to work hard to straighten my back.

If it weren’t for my husband’s love for “working”, I would have stayed in Shenzhen all my life, because I really like the high-intensity and fast-paced work and life. Whenever a day’s work is over, I Everyone will have a full sense of accomplishment and feel that they are a person who has created value.

After years of hard work, when work and family have returned to peace and everything can move forward smoothly, my husband has started to do all kinds of "work" and is so dissatisfied every day. It was so unpleasant, and when I wanted to communicate with him properly, he would either yell or hit me, and his hysterical appearance scared the children to the point where they dared not speak. Therefore, even though I am not superstitious, I also suspected that he was evil.

I have been struggling with this kind of life for several months. I wanted to give him more, but he became more and more serious. I work hard every day, and I don’t want to earn more. I used some money to reduce the burden on my family. Since he was so ungrateful, why should I feel so wronged? So, I gritted my teeth and resolutely resigned from the job I loved, and then took the children back to my hometown.

From the moment I returned home, I felt that the world had changed.

1. It is better to start over than to spend time feeling sad

After returning home, I was not idle, but went to find a job nearby. Although the salary was relatively low, I went out early and came back late every day, and my life was quite fulfilling. However, the good times did not last long. The company was demolished due to illegal construction.

It was easy for me to find another job after I lost my job, but I was far away from home and couldn’t accompany my children every day, so I had to give up. After seeing that I had no job, my mother-in-law, who had always treated me like a daughter, began to I was dissatisfied with my words, "I don't even want to talk about you. You are working so well outside. What are you doing when you come home? You are screwed."

In fact, the gap in my heart has been felt since I came back. It's very big, but I have been holding back and forcing myself to adapt to all this. When my mother-in-law said this, I felt very sad. I really wanted to tell her that all this was thanks to her son, but I didn't say anything. .

I have worked for many years and have a fixed income every month. Now that I can’t go out to work, it means I have no money. This makes me very uncomfortable and insecure. I feel like I am floating in mid-air. , will fall at any time, and the whole person is restless.

I leaned on the railing of the roof and looked into the distance. A breeze blew by, brushing away my sorrow. A voice thought in my mind, "Now that it has become like this, time cannot be reversed. Instead of worrying and worrying, it is better to accept it, sort out your mood, clear your thoughts, and start everything over again in the coming days." So, I started thinking seriously and wanted to find it. A way out.

2. Do what you want to do, regardless of what others say

Our place is a tourist attraction that has been open for many years. There are usually many tourists here. Every household is doing business and is very busy, but we have been working outside. The old man has sold out all the land at home. Apart from playing cards and playing every day, he has never done any work. Under such circumstances, I Really don't know what to do.

But I subconsciously knew that I could only target tourists and must find some ways. Suddenly, I remembered that there were still a few empty houses in my house. They had been there since they were built. Since they have not been used, these rooms should be put to use and opened as a B&B.

When I told the elderly about this idea, their first reaction was to shake their heads, "No, no, don't think about it. Those restaurants in the village have been in business for many years, and you don't have anything to do." Yes, stop wondering.”

“Then what should we do?” I asked them.

"What can you do at home? I'm not talking about you. If you don't work well outside, what kind of things can you do at home?" The mother-in-law began to nag again.

They were so angry that I really wanted to run away from home, find a good job, and live a happy life by myself. But when I thought about bringing my children back to school, I felt so angry. I couldn't leave them alone, so I had to endure it and return to the room silently.

After calming down, I decided to do what I wanted, because as long as I have hope in my heart, any difficulty is not that terrible. No matter how difficult it is, I will not give up my ideals and goals easily. , in order to get out of the trough of life, I must strive towards my goal. No one can stop me from moving forward.

3. Be confident and never give up halfway no matter what difficulties you encounter

When I started to clean up the room, it happened to be late autumn, the weather was already chilly, and it was also a good time to travel. It's the off-season, so I want to take advantage of this time to do all the work that needs to be done. When the flowers bloom next spring and everything is ready, I can open the business.

But the fact is that there are really too many things to do. The house was built for three years and has not been cleaned since the renovation. There is dust everywhere, and dried mortar has solidified on the floor; from curtains to electrical appliances. The clothes and bedding must be fully equipped. In order to save money, when purchasing items, I braved the cold to go to each house to compare and bargain. But my family said that I was wasting money and should save some money. I was speechless. Every penny invested is earned by oneself.

I never hire anyone to do anything that I can do myself. When I was putting up the murals, it was too cold and my fingers were frozen and stiff. I could only grit my teeth and move a little bit hard, and while I was doing all this, my family stayed in the heated room drinking tea and playing cards, and no one paid attention.

When I was repairing the flower pond, I shoveled the soil with shovel after shovel. Although the cold wind was howling, the clothes on my body were already soaked. I didn’t dare to stop and rest. I just wanted to finish the work. As night fell and the lanterns came on, lights came out from the windows of every house. When I dragged my exhausted body back to the room, the children came up to me and said, "Mom, we are hungry. Please hurry up and cook. Grandma and aunt." I've finished making dumplings and finished eating."

Hearing this, all the grievances came to my heart, and I burst into tears. "I am also my parents' daughter and their darling. If they It will definitely make you feel bad to see me working like this, and I am doing it for the good of this family. As a family member, their indifference really makes me feel so cold."

As I thought about it, my heart felt. Burning with anger, he threw the shovel away and said, "It's too much bullying, I won't do it anymore."

I sat on the sofa angrily. Slowly, I calmed down. At this time, I remembered The story of "a drop of water penetrates a stone": A drop of water, because of persistence, day after day, year after year, dropped drop by drop on the stone, finally, a hole was punched through the stone. Water is so weak, but it can break the hard stone. of stones dripping through.

As for me, if I only encounter such a few things, I have to give up my goals. How can I achieve great things? Where have my perseverance determination and tireless fighting spirit gone? If I give up, won’t I be laughed at by them even more?

Thinking of this, I stood up and went to the kitchen, because I knew that if I persisted in doing something, I might succeed, but if I gave up halfway, I would gain nothing. Therefore, I couldn’t give up. I had to do it. Stay the course.

4. Take success lightly and be sincere to others

Through my efforts, in the coming spring season, the warm and comfortable B&B will be built as scheduled. There is an endless stream of guests coming to visit, and everyone praises, "When you come here, you feel like you are at home, making people feel friendly and relaxed." This is exactly the theme I want to create.

Although I am a small boss now, I have never thought highly of myself. I do everything myself, from cleaning the room to cooking for the guests, every place is clean, every leaf of vegetables, I take everything seriously and don't dare to slack off at all. Only in this way can I rest assured. Otherwise, I will feel uneasy.

When customers spend money, I don’t think of ways to make them spend more money. Instead, I ask them not to waste money and just eat enough. Therefore, customers feel that I am very down-to-earth and are willing to come over to support them. I understand that we must be sincere as human beings. Treat others how you would like others to treat you.

Treating people with sincerity is the foundation of life. Only by treating people with sincerity can you win the recognition and respect of others, and your career can continue smoothly.

Now, seeing that my business is doing well, my family members have also changed their attitude. From time to time, they will come over to care about me and ask if they need help. Seeing their sincerity, I can't help but feel deeply moved.

When we encounter a low point in life, we should not stop crying. We should try to keep ourselves calm, encourage ourselves to stand up bravely, and continue to move forward. Please believe that life is not insurmountable. No matter how bad the days are, they will eventually pass one day.