How to eat and drink with your boss while being comfortable without offending him?

In the workplace, many people don’t like to participate in social events. The reason is simply because they feel that there is a leader in the dinner party, and they can’t do whatever they want, which makes them feel awkward and uncomfortable. In fact, this phenomenon is normal, but there are also some people who can cope with it well. Not only can they feel comfortable, but they can also avoid offending their leaders and even be appreciated by them. So, how do they do it? Today, I’ll teach you some tips on how to deal with it!

Tip 1: Behave appropriately and speak in a moderate manner

Many times the boss does not care whether you have a good time drinking with the guests at the dinner table, but cares about what you say at the dinner table. Yi Xing, is he the kind of person who gets carried away with himself or is too overwhelmed? Generally speaking, leaders do not like such employees because such people appear immature and stable at work. I once had a friend like this. His ability was undoubted, his personality was also very forthright, and he was very popular among leaders. But after having dinner with the leader, he became a marginalized person and was never trusted or reused again. He got the answer when he resigned. It was because he was too arrogant at that dinner, so he was abandoned by the leader.

Tip 2: Learn to take care of others and do things with perfection

After a big dish is served, the waiter may not be able to divide the dishes or arrange them immediately. At this time, people at the table need to come. Once done, if you can arrange it properly, not only can you taste delicious food, but you can also let your boss feel your ability and intelligence. Therefore, doing things does not necessarily mean that you will be a coolie. You must learn to do things. This is not only your own growth, but also a kind of social experience and social skills.

Tip 3: It will liven up the atmosphere and relieve the embarrassment

Many times the atmosphere in the place where the leader is present will be very awkward. Everyone talks in an official manner and eats and drinks reservedly. If you are in this You can act a little more casually to ease the awkward atmosphere at the scene. I think this will not only prevent others from thinking you are immature, but will also make the leader think you are very good at enlivening the atmosphere and being a good person. Therefore, if one thing is done at different times, it will have different effects. Learning to do the right thing at the right time is the real maturity and growth.

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