What words do men with a "violent mentality" like to say in their lives?

Domestic violence? This topic always appears frequently in people's sight, and it arouses people's sensitive nerves every time.

"Don't Talk to Strangers" is China's first TV series that directly addresses the issue of domestic violence. An Jiahe, played by Feng Yuanzheng, became a nightmare for countless people at the time. The domestic violence man he portrayed was completely real.

Every time he beats his wife, his face is ferocious, and his eyes reveal indifference and ruthlessness. From the verbal slander at the beginning, to the beatings in the later stage, to the confinement of the other party's freedom, his personality is active on the edge of light and darkness every time.

As the victim’s wife, Mei Xiangnan, every time she was beaten, her helplessness and despair made people suffocate. Domestic violence causes not only physical damage to the victim, but also mental ravage and abuse.

An Jiahe is a suspicious person by nature, even extremely insecure. Later, as his uncontrollable emotions deepened, his split personality was exposed.

This is also one of the characteristics of all domestic violence men, impulsive personality disorder, irritable and irritable, so they attack their partners.

At the beginning, An Jiahe also tried to correct himself and admit his mistakes to his wife, but he was still induced by emotions again and again, and finally cast the devil's hand. The final result of domestic violence is to harm others and yourself, and the family will eventually break up.

The dangers of domestic violence and how to judge it? Domestic violence? Domestic violence generally refers to the abuse that occurs between family members by beating, binding, confining, mutilating or other means to harm family members. Physical, psychological, and sexual destructive behavior.

This kind of domestic violence is most common between husband and wife within the marriage relationship. As a vulnerable group, women are often victims of domestic violence.

Instead of being trapped in the quagmire of domestic violence in the end, it is better to recognize the true colors of domestic violence men from the beginning.

Anyone who engages in domestic violence will have certain personality traits, but they are not noticed by women. Freud mentioned in "Psychoanalysis": "Any joke is a monologue in people's subconscious mind." ?

There is no such thing as a slip of the tongue. In fact, it all comes from the inner thoughts of the individual.

Most of the men who often say the following three things on their lips are hiding a violent mentality, and women should stay away from them.

1. Insecure words, such as: Are you lying to me again? ?

If some men often talk about "Did you lie to me again?" etc., it means that the man is sensitive and suspicious and lacks a sense of security in his heart.

These types of men are affected by innate environmental factors, so their personality characteristics are suspicious. It is difficult for them to trust others, so once they are not sure whether the other person is honest, their character will be exposed. The twisted side.

They will pay special attention to personal interests. Once their self-defense psychology is broken, all anger will follow. If the verbal pressure does not receive a timely response, behavioral attacks will follow.

When a man often asks women in this questioning tone, it often shows that he has a narrow heart, so it is easier for him to put himself into a "dead end".

2. Extremely controlling words, such as: "You must listen to me!" ? You have to listen to me! ?I have the final say at home. ?You are not allowed to talk to other men. ?If words like this are said repeatedly in a man's mouth, it means that this man has a strong desire to control.

Domestic violent men often have a strong desire to control. He will take the woman as his own, treat her as an inherent private property, and will not give her freedom, let alone respect.

If a man shows a strong possessiveness and has a commanding tone in his language, then such men often have the hidden characteristics of domestic violence.

They do not think about problems from a fair and rational perspective, nor do they seriously think about the relationship between husband and wife. Instead, they regard women as their own accessories, so there is no caring or not. All you want is compliance.

3. Extreme mood swings and contrasts, such as: "Go away?"

Some victims often recall that for a long period of time, the man talked to them All very rude.

For example? Get out of here! ?You want to die? ?Or it has a threatening tone, etc.

This kind of man is irritable, restless, and unable to control his emotions, which is often the beginning of hitting women later.

They will throw all their accumulated negative emotions at women, so they vent them through verbal and behavioral violence.

Impulsivity and irritability are one of the biggest characteristics of domestic violence men, so their mood changes greatly.

In short, if a man often talks to a woman in this way, and the woman reminds her many times to no avail, she should stay away appropriately. Men with domestic violence tendencies often have personality problems, and it is difficult for women to influence them with love or tolerance.

The best way is to find out in time and leave in time. If we suffer from domestic violence, we should not face the conflict directly, do not try to cover it up, and do not be afraid. Instead, choose to use legal means and other protections. own rights.