A freshman with depression wants to drop out of school and ask for comments.

What can I say after reading what you wrote? I was deeply moved. I think you look a lot like me before. I once thought I had depression and went to see a psychiatrist many times. I took medicine, but it didn't work. Let me tell you my story. I am not very handsome or attractive. In my student career, I also experienced emotional problems. To tell the truth, I may be a little worse than you, and I have always had a secret crush. 10 years ago, when I looked back, it was really unbearable and I didn't want to do anything. After calming down, I thought about it and my academic performance was in a mess. After graduation, my work is also foggy, and my confidence in doing business has also been hit hard. My girlfriend introduced me countless times, but I didn't go to see any of them. But suddenly one day, my father fell ill and had a cerebral infarction. I suddenly panicked and didn't know what to do. I feel particularly guilty. I didn't make any contribution to my family and didn't repay my parents' kindness. In fact, I am very confused, because I am over 25 years old for reasons such as feelings. I have found almost all my relatives and friends, and the only requirement is to find a girlfriend, get married and have children, so that mom and dad can enjoy family happiness. According to this goal, the girl introduced to me for the first time, to be honest, I am very dissatisfied. There is a generation gap after 90, with bad personality, average appearance and average family situation. But I really want to marry such a lifelong language barrier. Just because of my previous regrets. It is also my luck to meet my present wife by chance. We are married and have a child, which is very cute. After having children, I don't have time to think about 7788, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea to support my family. I feel very tired every day and have no time to be depressed, but I feel very happy.

Having said so much nonsense, I want to tell you one thing, depression, or depressed people. There is no solution by drugs alone. You have to find yourself a goal and something to do. I saw in your message that you are worried about the daily medical expenses at home 10 yuan, so I think you are still very filial to your parents, knowing that this will bring a burden to your family, so you are under pressure. I think this is a good opportunity. Men's sense of responsibility is gradually formed under pressure.

As for emotional problems, I think you have experienced too few women. In ancient times, many large families, especially underage men in business, experienced many emotional and even sexual experiences very early, and this elder was not particularly opposed. Because I experienced a lot when I was young, things like you and me wouldn't happen. If I had more experience, I would open my eyes. In later life, emotional problems will not affect the judgment of major events. Many years later, when you look back, you will laugh it off.

As for research, I'm not encouraging you. In fact, learning really doesn't mean going to college, it can represent everything in the school. Society is also a university hall. Don't take the difference between uneducated people and educated people too seriously. I don't know if you have heard a joke before. It says that a reporter went to the mountains to interview a cowherd. The reporter said, "What are you doing?" Eva: "herding sheep. "The reporter asked again," Why are you herding sheep? " Eva: "Make money." "Why do you earn money?" "Take a wife." "Why do you want to marry a wife?" "Give birth to a doll." "What did he do when he gave birth to the doll?" "herding sheep" . . I remember that when the teacher talked about this, it was to educate our backward ideas in mountainous areas and make us ambitious. But now, isn't this a miniature life? Everyone, whether officials, bosses or ordinary people. Don't they live like this all their lives? The only difference is the complexity of each step. What I mean by this example is that it doesn't matter whether you go to school or not in the initial stage of your future. Undergraduate work for others in the unit, we (Xi 'an) about 3000-5000 a month. People set up stalls at the door to sell pancake fruit. 2 yuan 5 yuan. Selling 300 yuan a day, calculate how much it will cost for more than a month. . . We bought all the rooms downstairs that sell cold rice noodles. The truth. If your goal is just to live, it doesn't matter whether you read or not. But if you want to make progress, repay your parents and create a good foundation for future generations, then at some point in your future development, you will feel that your knowledge is not enough. If you study again at this time, with the increase of age and things, your brain is really not enough. So, if you have a living heart, a living sense of responsibility and a desire to change the status quo (what you wrote shows that you still have it), then I suggest you choose to go to school and try to make yourself less trouble in the future.

Finally, I want to give you a piece of advice, open your heart and make more friends. In fact, it is very simple for men to make friends. Just have a drink. I might as well talk to my friends about some of my concerns. Seriously, people really shouldn't think too highly of themselves. 2 1 1, 985 people who graduated from colleges and universities are often taught by friends with primary school culture, and they think what others say is very reasonable. Look at the problem from different angles. You said you were still worried about eating because of emotional problems.

Having said so much, I wonder if you are interested in reading it all. In a word, when the road is under your feet, people will live all their lives. Depression is a terminal disease, but if you face it bravely, you just had a dream and experienced a young Werther yourself.