Did Feng Xiaogang's irresistible charm and Xu Fan's long-lasting marriage get what he wanted?

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In the entertainment industry, there is such a type of person.

Just like Chen Ting is to Zhang Yimou, Jiang Wenli is to Gu Changwei, Chen Hong is to Chen Kaige - the wives of directors.

The wives are now enjoying great fame and fortune.

As time goes by, people gradually forget what kind of beautiful and angry horses they once had behind the scenes.

When mentioned again, a prefix is ??always added, the wife of a certain great director.

This is the so-called Xiao He who succeeds and Xiao He who fails.

However, there are exceptions to everything, and Xu Fan is one of these exceptions.

Today Xu Fan is half hidden in the world.

But when her name is mentioned, people always feel the spring breeze blowing on their faces and full of intimacy.

Whether it is talking and laughing about "chariotery" in "The Venus Show".

Still singing "The Drunken Concubine" in "Sound on the Scene".

They all give people a non-offensive aesthetic feeling.

Although the spring breeze is gentle, looking at the entertainment industry, who can beat Xu Fan?

In terms of career, although Xu Fan has appeared in few works, they are all classics.

In his early years, he was rated as a "national first-class actor" and enjoyed special national allowances.

In terms of relationships, Xu Fan married Feng Xiaogang at the age of 32. The two have been in love as ever for 22 years and have known each other sincerely.

It can be said that Xu Fan is one of the few sober and thoughtful beings in the entertainment industry.

Even though Feng Xiaogang was so famous, she, Xu Fan, stood aside and did not feel dim at all.

But Xu Fan himself doesn’t seem to think so.

She once said publicly, "Feng Xiaogang is my benefactor and once adopted my heart."

Perhaps it is out of appreciation for the other half.

But the words "benefactor" and "adoption" have to make netizens think.

Did Xu Fan, who had both career and love, really get what he wanted?

If you want to answer this question, you have to talk about the two most important men in Xu Fan's life, Wang Zhiwen and Feng Xiaogang.

What Xu Fan doesn’t get is the bright moonlight, but the love that has never been treated tenderly.

Xu Fan’s life trajectory is as smooth as her name implies. .

Born in a literary and artistic family, he applied to the Art Institute and went to Beijing People's Art School to further his studies.

Directly and accurately complete the KPI for half a lifetime, commonly known as the "key performance indicator".

What is such a good girl afraid of the most?

Afraid of setbacks?

Everything that needs to be done is done step by step. Is there any key turning point that could cause her to go wrong?

Afraid of competitors?

Xu Fan’s parents are emotionally stable and healthy. Xu Fan, who lives in such an environment, should be confident and calm.

Besides, Xu Fan was so pretty when she was young. Such a girl would not be a competitor.

Then what else can be scary about Xu Fan?

What such a good girl fears most is falling in love.

After Xu Fan was admitted to the Chinese Theater Academy, he should have successfully started the stage of breaking through levels and fighting bosses in the second half of his life.

I am surrounded by ambitious young people like Hu Jun, Chen Xiaoyi and He Bing.

Even if he can't make a big name, Xu Fan won't be far behind.

The sudden arrival of a mentor completely broke the tranquility of Xu Fan's original life.

This mentor is called Wang Zhiwen.

At that time, Wang Zhiwen was like the leading actor in an idol drama.

Handsome in appearance, cool in temperament, and successful in career.

She was directly conferred the title of "Bai Yueguang" by a female student in Chinese opera.

Xu Fan is one of his thousands of fans.

It is said that arriving early is worse than arriving late.

Wang Zhiwen just broke up with his model girlfriend Pan Jie, and Xu Fan came to ask for help.

After this back and forth, Xu Fan got his wish and made the male god Wang Zhiwen drunk in her gentle land.

After confirming the relationship, Xu Fan moved to Wang Zhiwen's home, and the two lived together lovingly.

Maybe Bai Yueguang is too beautiful, or maybe his ex-girlfriend has too much influence on Wang Zhiwen.

Xu Fan's self-identification seamlessly jumped from girlfriend to old mother, and he began to be a virtuous person at home.

How virtuous is Xu Fan?

And that girl is Xu Fan.

I don’t know whether the cooking tastes good or not.

But it can be seen from this detail alone that Xu Fan took good care of Wang Zhiwen very properly.

This is not to say that being virtuous is bad.

It’s just the beginning, but if the other person feels the triviality of daily necessities, wouldn’t the little spark of love be almost extinguished?

What's more, Wang Zhiwen is still in his youth at this time, how can his heart be so easy to settle down.

Therefore, Xu Fan's virtuousness did not make Wang Zhiwen feel what love was, but it made him develop a rebellious character.

Wang Zhiwen’s temper is cold at best and eccentric at worst.

This is not difficult to understand. Who told Wang Zhiwen to become famous too early, how could he consider the consequences of losing his temper?

Wang Zhiwen is "proud" at work, and so is love.

Coupled with Xu Fan's gentle treatment, Xu Fan has always been in a weak position emotionally.

This also planted a crisis for the relationship between the two.

Time flies to 1991. This year, Xu Fan had just graduated from the Central Academy of Drama and was assigned to work in the arts.

Wang Zhiwen won the Best Actor at the 2nd Sichuan TV Festival "Golden Panda Award" for filming "Southbound Journey".

Seeing that everyone around him was slowly getting on the right track, Xu Fan, who couldn't keep up, began to worry.

Why not ask Wang Zhiwen to introduce some resources to her?

However, Wang Zhiwen was young and energetic, and was unwilling to bend down and beg for help in a low voice.

Xu Fan’s idea failed and he had to look for opportunities on his own.

Later, Xu Fan got the role of Concubine Zhen in "The Great Eunuch Li Lianying".

Through this, I got to know Tian Zhuangzhuang, a director who is more famous than Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige.

Who is Tian Zhuangzhuang?

I believe most of my friends are unfamiliar with this name.

But in the director circle, Tian Zhuangzhuang’s name is known to everyone.

Tian Zhuangzhuang is a true believer in idealism.

He only makes movies that he thinks are meaningful and never bows to capital.

Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige have already surrendered to reality.

Facing such peers, I feel somewhat ashamed and respectful.

Xu Fan is also a loyal idealist, but what she admires is love.

Troubled by Wang Zhiwen's long-term indifference and bad temper, Xu Fan's "ideal" has long been cracked.

At this moment, another "idealist" Tian Zhuangzhuang appeared.

Just like rain on dry land for a long time, Xu Fan's "ideal" came to life again.

After they hit it off, "scandal rumors" spread on the set.

In the entertainment industry, it is not big or small.

The "scandal" between Tian Zhuangzhuang and Xu Fan reached Wang Zhiwen's ears.

Based on Wang Zhiwen’s violent temper at that time, one can imagine the depth of his anger.

When Xu Fan returned from filming the movie, it was the day the two parted ways.

Because of this incident, Wang Zhiwen and Xu Fan had a big quarrel, which even attracted the attention of neighbors.

This farce ended with Wang Zhiwen driving Xu Fan out of the house.

In this way, Wang Zhiwen and Xu Fan were completely separated.

It is never clear who is right and who is wrong in emotional matters.

It can only be said that they were all too young at that time, one was in the prime of life, and the other was just starting out.

The little boy is destined to be unable to take care of the little girl's emotions, and the little girl is destined to be unable to teach the little boy how to take responsibility.

The rain in my heart and the cream under my eyes finally turned into softness around my fingers - because I know, I care for you; because I understand, I accompany you.

Nothing happened between Xu Fan and Tian Zhuangzhuang.

Because after the filming, the two had no contact again.

Only they themselves know the reason, but it is a joke to others.

At this time, Xu Fan finally felt the pain of breaking up.

She doesn’t know what she did wrong, or she doesn’t understand why loving someone too much is wrong.

In short, since the breakup, Xu Fan has had deep doubts about himself.

But life must go on.

Xu Fan picked up his broken heart and returned to Renyi's dormitory, where he and his roommate Chen Xiaoyi quickly became close friends.

It doesn’t matter who Chen Xiaoyi is. What matters is that Chen Xiaoyi brought Feng Xiaogang into Xu Fan’s life.

There are many best ways to get over a broken relationship, such as changing circles, or changing men.

When Feng Xiaogang met Xu Fan, it was at a film viewing party.

He wrote the script, and the director asked him to look at the samples.

After reading it, Feng Xiaogang objectively commented: "It's all very good, but I can't find the heroine."

The hero Ge You laughed, "The heroine Xu Fan is sitting there. Behind you."

Feng Xiaogang was still a married man at the time, but this did not prevent him from falling in love with Xu Fan at first sight.

Later, with the help of his friend Chen Xiaoyi, Feng Xiaogang successfully chased the goddess Xu Fan in his heart.

Let’s talk about Feng Xiaogang. This person is also an exception in the director circle.

Compared with professional players like Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige, Feng Xiaogang took a completely wild path and was a proper hero in troubled times.

Not only is Feng Xiaogang different from traditional directors, but he and Wang Zhiwen are on completely different sides of the scale.

But things like feelings are so delicate.

In the first half of his life, Xu Fan met three types of men.

One is the arrogant and arrogant Wang Zhiwen.

One is Tian Zhuangzhuang, who thinks he is a close friend.

The last one is Feng Xiaogang, the type who beats his master to death with random punches.

They went to the Golden Rooster Awards ceremony together. Feng Xiaogang pointed at Xu Fan and said, "This is my girlfriend."

Later Feng Xiaogang also wrote in one of his autobiographies Said, "The flowers were finally inserted into the cow dung."

In Feng Xiaogang's heart, he felt that he was cow dung.

The reason for pursuing Xu Fan was not his ability, but his own forceful buying and selling.

Faced with Feng Xiaogang's "unreasonableness", Xu Fan has never refused.

But Feng Xiaogang’s punches were not only hard, but also fast.

Before I knew it, it was already a matter of course.

Did Feng Xiaogang's appearance really make Xu Fan forget his previous pain?

I probably haven’t given up yet.

That's why Xu Fan said, "Feng Xiaogang is my lifelong benefactor. He adopted my heart at a critical moment."

Feng Xiaogang naturally knew Xu Fan’s past.

So when Feng Xiaogang saw Xu Fan's virtuousness, he would praise:

"I really admire Teacher Xu's ability to do housework. After each piece of clothing is washed, it will be ironed. I will never let you wear socks until the next day."

"From Teacher Xu, I can find some dignity in you as a human being."

I learned about Xu Fan from Feng Xiaogang. When his career was hindered, he decided that Xu Fan would be included in every movie he made.

When Feng Xiaogang found that Xu Fan needed encouragement, he would express generously:

"Teacher Xu is not only good at acting, but also good at management."

"I like to be submissive under the rule of a strong man, so that I don't have to painstakingly pursue the truth."

Later, Xu Fan talked about the art of chauffeuring in a program.

She said, "Anyway, we have men in our family, so we don't suffer."

So countless netizens began to speculate, and even added a tragic color to this relationship.

A husband who is entangled in temptation, and a wife who compromises.

Is the truth really what the people think?

You can answer it with something Xu Fan himself said:

"Marriage requires two people to care for each other."

"Once the other party If you don’t take care of me, then leave quickly. This includes me. Stay well and leave quickly.”

Did Xu Fan get what he wanted in the end?

The answer may be no.

The regrets that people have when they are young will never be forgotten until they grow old.

But it is hard to calm down with Xu Fan, and Feng Xiaogang will continue to use his "chaotic punches".

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