In the communication between men and women, these minefields must not be touched.

A girl in Weibo said that she went on a blind date a few days ago, and she was pregnant and bald. She kept bragging about how good her job was and how good her prospects were, and she didn't feel the girl's displeasure at all.

After returning home, the man continued to boast on WeChat that the girl was beautiful and had a good job, indicating that he wanted to continue his contacts. The girl said that the two were not suitable and politely refused.

Unexpectedly, 180 the man's attitude changed, and he immediately scolded the girl: she was too picky and had to stay, and said that she would never meet such a good person again.

He felt that he had died in an unknown way and had to try to maintain his remaining face.

But there's nothing wrong with it. Girls' minefields are everywhere, and girls have always been very polite and have a lot of face, and they have not poked him.

There are many similar situations in life. Obviously, the conditions are quite good. Why don't girls like it? Obviously, the first impression of each other is not bad, why did it disappear? Obviously she is beautiful, but why doesn't she have a boyfriend?

The answer we get is often "inappropriate", but in fact, these three words are purely a man with a back pot. The essence is: You stepped on my minefield and I don't want to play with you.

See the minefield in front of you

Articles by male students

1, the invitation is inappropriate.

Asking girls out temporarily, meeting at 7: 00 or 9: 00 in the evening, meeting without eating, and dating in a noisy fast food restaurant like KFC will make girls feel disrespected and disgusted.

2, do not pay attention to appearance

It is unbearable for girls not to wash greasy hair for a week, wrinkled clothes, non-mainstream rural dress, being young and paunchy, and not seeing hairline before they are 30 years old. Don't say that a man's appearance is not important. A refreshing little brother is much more popular than a middle-aged greasy uncle.

3. I feel good about myself and have no self-cultivation.

Self-care bragging, showing off wealth, showing off past experiences and friends, saying humorous jokes, embarrassing yellow jokes, swearing mantras, smoking in public places, and having a bad attitude towards waiters will also make girls press the elimination button quickly.

4. disrespect for women

Feel free to comment on girls' makeup, just order what you like, and don't ask each other's opinions when traveling. Many men think that women like to be shown their love in public. In fact, most girls don't like it, and no one likes being forced to agree.

5, inconsiderate

Girls obviously wear high heels, but boys have to go for a walk in the park; She obviously hates the taste of hot pot, but the boy insists on eating hot pot ... all the obvious mistakes she can't help but make will not be forgiven.

Female students' articles

1 carrying

The queen should get along with her subjects in a condescending manner. No man likes kneeling, likes the goddess again, and likes the goddess who smiles at himself.

2, the appearance is too out of line

Colorful hair, many earrings, many tattoos, although tattoos can't represent anything, but many boys just can't accept it.

3, it will cost boys money.

Appropriate reciprocity is reasonable, but everything is waiting for men to pay, and girls who want to spend boys' money basically have no next date. After all, few girls are so beautiful that men completely ignore money.

4. vanity worships money

If you make them think that you only eat buy buy, they will definitely plan how to leave.

In the hit TV series "Picture Book of Women in Beijing", Juck Zhang appeared beside the heroine like a perfect object. She is tall, handsome, well managed and capable, and is valued by the company. More importantly, she loves her wholeheartedly, is considerate and gentle, gives her birthdays and buys her gifts. But I finally left Juck Zhang. The barrage is full of regrets, which Chen Can doesn't cherish.

But have you ever wondered what kind of future you want when Juck Zhang was planning the future?

He didn't.

He just wants to impose his will on her, let her go back to that small town with himself, get married and have children at the age of 25, and then be a woman behind him at home, stable and ordinary. But Chen is not such a person. She wants more. She wants to live here and be a different woman.

In the play, Juck Zhang thinks that a stable future, even a bright future for most people, is the kind of life that can be seen at a glance, which is terrible for me. So she ran away without saying a word.

Love minefield

Articles by male students

1, premature sexual requirements

After two days of dating, I want to kiss, and after a week, I want to have sex. Isn't it a little too soon? Travel invitation is also a sexual suggestion. After all, lonely men and few women are burning coal.

2, prematurely proposed to see parents.

It's not too early to meet her parents or your parents. Some girls enjoy the love of two people and don't want to get involved in two families too early. And getting along with their mother-in-law is very skilled and tiring.

3. Male chauvinism does not respect women.

Everything can be discussed. If I ask you to go to cram school, you must go. If I let you go home and have a baby, you have to resign; I am a human being and I am a god, so you should listen to me; I did it for your own good. No one can stand life being controlled by others.

4, no sense of responsibility, no responsibility

Girlfriend dare not come forward to solve anything; Hide when your girlfriend needs help; Do not wear condoms at critical moments; If you are pregnant, disappear immediately ...

Female students' articles

1, "Whatever", "Guess", "You should be a boy"

Never say demand directly or "casually", but nothing can please you or make the other person guess. You are a boy, you have to be nice to me, you are a boy, you have to pay the bill, you are a boy, you have to let me go ... You know no one deserves to be nice to anyone.

2. What do men hate most?

300 times a day, various sets of ex-messages: "Do you love your ex or love me", "Who did you save when your mother and I fell into the water at the same time" and "Do you love me or not" ... Can you maintain your IQ?

3, eating ugly

It's not eating, it's taking advantage, it's greedy. Boys have to pay for food and shopping, give gifts once every three days, and write her name when buying a car or a house a few months later. If you are not satisfied, you don't love me.

4360 degrees to control him.

Under the banner of "I love you", no man wants to have another mother.

* * * Inspiring articles

1, "It's all for your own good"

Ask the other party to change according to their own wishes and want to "cultivate" the other party better. A lover is not a "life teacher". If you love him, you should love him now, not the perfect lover you imagined.

Step 2 compare

How much money did so-and-so earn, what did so-and-so buy, how capable so-and-so's boyfriend/girlfriend is, and how good his predecessor is ... even if you are not comparing, the other person's self-esteem may be unbearable. Moreover, it is worrying to mention anything about my predecessor.

3, flower heart

Dry elder sister, dry elder sister, blue face, all go away and help the opposite sex without a bottom line. Whoever comes will often provoke the Third World War.

4, distrust, suspicious

I have a strong desire for control. I can't stand checking my mobile phone, looking through information, tracking and testing at every turn.

Having said that, in fact, the most important thing is the performance before and after the intimate relationship.

Some boys like to tell their best friends about their ex's sexual skills after breaking up ... Girls unanimously said that even if men all over the world are dead, they should not have anything to do with such men.

A minefield of intimate relationships

Articles by male students

1, not paying attention to girls' feelings in bed

Frequently trying to think that they are emotional but ignoring women's feelings. Most of the props in AV are to please men, which girls don't like and are not practical in reality.

2. Take photos and videos of Luo

If you respect her, don't take photos and videos of Luo. There is no real impenetrability in the Internet age.

Step 3 make public the details of your private life

A man who doesn't respect the privacy of his girlfriend (even his ex-girlfriend) is so tasteless.

Female students' articles

1, strike

Although not every man is very powerful, but be careful to maintain self-esteem.

Talk to your best friend about his ability in this field.

Girlfriend often talks about everything, but he doesn't want your girlfriend to know his size and time. In addition, it is everyone's obligation to respect each other's privacy after breaking up, regardless of gender.

In love, there must be a reason for repeated defeats and wars.

Being humble and easy to get along with is the basic principle. Touching a minefield will not only put you at a disadvantage, but also bring unpredictable harm to the other side.

Falling in love is a matter of always respecting each other's bottom line.

Love that doesn't stand in the other side's position is hooliganism. People who know that they want to step on minefields are lonely. Only by knowing themselves and being kind to each other can they win every battle.

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