What will you do if you meet someone who pretends to be poor in front of you but is actually rich?

Relatives and friends associate, whoever has money will mostly become the object of "borrowing money". But people who borrow money from you may not be able to pay it back on time, and some relatives have no intention of paying it back after borrowing money. As the saying goes, "borrow money to be a grandson and pay back money to be a grandfather." It is a true portrayal of some people.

Pretending to be poor is a low-key performance and a kind of self-protection. For those who borrow money and don't pay it back, the borrowed money is just spilled water, and they are also very upset if they can't get it back. Others turn against each other because they borrow money, which is even more uneconomical. I pretend to be poor, but I have money in my hand and money in the bank, so I live very quietly and confidently every day.

Of course, some people are rich, but they are stingy and have been pretending to be poor. My cousin's family is very rich When I was young, I bought two buses with an annual income of 200,000 to 300,000. Later, he invested in a bus company and made a lot of money. But when any relative asked him for money, he said, "Hey, everyone thought I had money, but I didn't know that I had borrowed hundreds of thousands. In recent years, my investment has failed and I don't know how to turn over. " In short, keep the borrower out of the door and make others feel embarrassed to borrow money.

Because many young people just eat this set, because these young people have little social experience, and their cognition of "longing for life" only stays in these three dimensions. As everyone knows, when they really borrow money to fill their desires, not to mention the pursuit of spiritual freedom, even material freedom has further fallen.

According to Confucius, the essence of freedom is that I can choose and control myself. I didn't go online, but bought a bunch of luxury goods that didn't match me. Living in fear every month, robbing Peter to pay Paul, and working hard just to pay back the platform money. There is a popular joke on the Internet, namely:

If the boss of a company doesn't want employees to jump ship, then encourage male colleagues to fall in love and buy a car and house; Encourage lesbians to be beautiful, buy luxury goods and pursue an elegant lifestyle. In this way, they will always have unpaid bills, so they dare not resign easily.

There is a saying: "Everything that successful people say is a myth, and everything that unsuccessful people say is nonsense." Regardless of family members or outsiders, society has low tolerance for those who fail, and even laughs at you when you are down and out, especially those who fail to start a business continuously. Don't pay too much attention to some people who are not good at your jokes. There is no rule that whoever does what will succeed. Success is a rare thing.

"Success is luck, and failure is death." If you fail, you can wait for the opportunity, or you can return to the workplace, work with peace of mind and not toss. How do you live? Life is an unpredictable journey and no one can guess the final result. It is too early to define failure. For example, my uncle was 46 years old when he started his business in a public institution. Unexpectedly, after 15, his company has grown to 500 people, and its value has exceeded 100 million.