Can older women be married?

1. Don't worry about getting married. After all, leftover women are still women, not tigers, no different from ordinary people, and older leftover women have their own characteristics, and many of them are excellent.

2. In fact, the older leftover women are still top-notch women's middle schools, or they have been delayed unconsciously because of their emotional failure, too high psychological price, or because they are too excellent and beautiful ..... and they have never been able to choose a suitable boy.

3. Older women have the same characteristics. Most of them have experienced tortuous emotional experiences and ups and downs in mate selection, and their outlook on life is very mature. They are more worry-free and "nurturing" than those girls who have just entered the world. After they get married, they are also men's best assistants, which will get twice the result with half the effort.

4. Don't exclude and treat older women differently. Since they have experienced it, they also want to change their previous thoughts, just for some steps that they can't get down. However, everything has a process. Be patient and give them time, and you will find that many of them are really "gold for nothing".

5. Birds of a feather flock together. Older women still need men who appreciate them to dig and cultivate, and they also need people who are qualified to enjoy them.

Post-editing remarks: If you know how to appreciate, you will be regarded as the same way, and you can accept it. Older women are still the "missing" in the boutique.

There is a joke that men are actually single-minded. They always like 18-year-old girls from the age of 18 to 8. When men choose their partners, especially their marriage partners, they seldom consider the older women. Why? Why do men have prejudice against older women?

Excellent older leftover women make men feel inferior and become arrogant and unwilling to give in

In fact, a considerable number of leftover women become leftover women, not because they can't get married, but because their own conditions are really excellent, such as high academic qualifications, high income, beautiful skin and long legs. More importantly, they are quite confident about their own conditions, so their requirements for men are harsh, even perfect, and they are disdainful of men who are slightly inferior.

Therefore, they are in such a process of choice. If they are high or low, they will leave themselves behind. The end result is that when men who don't meet her requirements fall in love with them, they often show a haughty look, domineering, as if you are inferior to her. When you associate with them and fall in love, you always feel suffocated and feel that you owe him something. This is just a love affair. If you really marry a man who goes home, you must not be wronged to death.

Some leftover women are too realistic, and the result of being eager to get married is to ask about the economic conditions on a blind date.

Women all know that their flowering period is very short, especially the older leftover women. In fact, they are not willing to leave what they have left. Fate, reality and other factors have led to today's situation. The left-behind people are always anxious, and they are unwilling to find a partner for themselves casually, and they don't want the poor economic conditions after marriage, that is: no love, at least have bread?

So, many leftover women are horribly realistic. Just after blind date, they start asking you directly about your house, car, income, savings, education, who is in your family, what do you do, and how is your health? Will your parents bear the burden in the future? Will you live with us ... In short, I don't talk about anything else. It seems that I'm not in love, but talking about contracts and transactions. I don't know you. Why should I tell you which houses, cars, how high my income is, what kind of work I do, what company I run, and some even ask you to give her the income and pay it in full just after meeting.

Many leftover women are left behind, which will easily make people think that she has experienced too many men and rich love history before.

Some people say that every leftover woman has an unforgettable past, which leads her to lose her expectation of love and marriage, and finally she is forced to find another object by her family's forced marriage. In other words, it's the age of leftover women, who will go there every time? Men are not afraid of this. What they are afraid of is that all men are love rat in their eyes because they have lost their expectation of love. Therefore, when you fall in love with leftover women, you are like a prisoner. She always feels that you have done something wrong to her, and all actions should be reported to her ... < P > If the above behavior of leftover women is due to the sequela of being hurt in love earlier, then the other reason why leftover women deter men is that they are too rich in love history and men are unwilling to become a catcher. Because many girls have always thought that they are young and haven't had enough fun, they think that it's enough to be young now and marry an honest man. Therefore, there are a large number of such women among the leftover women.

They either find an honest man in anger because their previous love was not smooth; Either you feel that you really should get married, or you can't get married unless you get married, and some just take you as a spare tire. After the outstanding man in her heart leaves her, she has no choice but to come to you ... Marry such a leftover woman, and you are actually the so-called platter man. Is it worth it? Don't honest men owe you in previous lives, and it's your next meal and fig leaf to vent?

Older women should also be looked at separately. Some women are really excellent, but they always pass by the fate of marriage. Marrying such a woman is really a treasure for men. And some of them are mentioned in the article. Men should keep their eyes open when they marry!

can older women be married?

a: you can't marry!

why not marry?

a: the older woman is a national, and if you can't afford it, she can't marry you.

what is a national person?

A: Tens of millions of billionaires, those who master national resources, are national people.

our country is divided into three classes: national, social and civilian. More than 1 million assets are state-level people, millions of assets are social-level people, and more than 1, yuan are people.

how can an older woman marry a civilian? People with millions and millions of assets look down on older women, and they choose flower girls in their twenties.

Let the older women die alone! They also like to die alone.

Some people say that it is better to get married twice than to have leftover women. This is life experience.

why do you say that? it's not prejudice.

First, the reason why older women are left behind is by no means a probability problem, but an inevitable result. Because some people in the crowd are born with "love incompetence", just like suffering from anorexia. They have no experience of love in their hearts, are cold to people, lack passion and are full of self-protection. Especially wary of strange men, hostile and difficult to get along with.

Since no man has been able to handle them for more than 3 years, there is always a reason. Are you sure to win their hearts?

Second, older women have a certain degree of psychological barrier, which is not conducive to the establishment of intimate relationship between the two sexes. For example, women with perfect personality are critical, critical and mean, and will refuse to develop if they are slightly imperfect. The leftover women with borderline personality disorder are generally suspicious of others, emotionally unstable and have a feeling of being abandoned. They are suspicious, emotionally volatile and difficult to get along with. Women with anxiety disorder are restless, have a strong sense of crisis, have negative thinking and are difficult to get along with.

In addition, family of origin problem (domestic violence, parents' disharmony, single parent), traumatic stress (being raped) and emotional collapse after emotional frustration (being hurt by love rat) are also major causes of leftover women. If the above psychological problems are not solved, it is impossible to enter normal marriage life.

Third, the three views of older women are solidified and difficult to change. They have established stable values and have a whole set of lifestyles, and external value exchange is difficult to shake their thinking. So don't try to change their cognition and reshape them. The more you change, the more alienated you become.

Unlike the second-married women, they have been verified. At least they are not as "incapable of love" as the leftover women. They have the ability of normal love and are generally more mature mentally than the leftover women. When they are frustrated, they will cherish their married life more. They can also find reasons from failure and improve in their next marriage.

therefore, I would rather have a divorced woman than an old woman, but also! Dear male friends who want to live a good life, don't abandon second-hand, abandon prejudice and accept divorced women, maybe you can find happiness!

of course not.

whatever the reason, the "remaining" women have to bear more social pressure: men are too good to pursue, or there are a lot of people with ulterior motives. It is also easy to lead to all kinds of inexplicable misunderstandings: is the personality bad? Is there something wrong with your body? Is family a drag? People will look at them with colored glasses, which is unfair.

With the society becoming more and more open and tolerant, some "older women" read books, drink tea, exercise, travel ..... develop various hobbies and lead a full life, which is the benchmark and gospel of "older women". They have stepped out of another road of "older women", led a colorful single life and made their own life.

Of course, some "older women" are really withdrawn and difficult to get along with, which really makes people flinch. However, only by understanding a person deeply can we get our own conclusions, instead of labeling a person easily.

Older women can be married, but you must have the ability to subdue her! Like leftovers, can you eat them? Can eat! But after re-processing, it may be more delicious than the new one! The same is true for leftover women. They may have had several broken relationships, and they already have resistance to the opposite sex. Although they are eager to get true love, their inner defense will make them lose many good opportunities! Many older women have basically lived together with their ex-boyfriends for several years. This kind of cohabitation is not much different from the de facto marriage, except that there is no paper. When you get along with this older woman, ask yourself if you can accept her past experience, even if you can accept it at first, then after that? Marriage is plain, daily necessities, family chores, these older women are eccentric, if she wants to change your living habits, can you accept it? The reason why women are left behind is that there are reasons left behind!

Older unmarried women, like older unmarried men, have their own reasons, not the so-called "leftover women" picked by young men. Older unmarried women mainly live in cities, especially big cities. They missed the most marriageable age (24-11-26 years old), and some of them were not liked by young men; Some were dumped by young men (including some bad young men); Have a plenty of self-possession of a beautiful face and a lovely figure, and they can't choose their favorite "handsome guy"; Some people lose their confidence in marriage and love because they see many marriage tragedies in the society now, or their girlfriends regret their married life; There is also a lack of understanding due to parents' intervention in her marriage and love. What's more, because these unmarried young women have high academic qualifications and work late, they have good conditions and high standards of mate selection; I am full of "three views" and positive energy, but I don't want to take the first step in love with young men who have no "eye contact" or have a bad impression when they meet for the first time. They "would rather not get married than have a sweetheart". Therefore, outstanding talents account for the majority of older unmarried women. If they can really become the "Prince Charming" in their minds and tie the knot, it is likely to be their own blessing! In short, in a happy marriage, age is not a problem. It is more important than anything to feel for each other, really love each other and really understand.

I will look for:

1. My favorite object has nothing to do with age

2. Older women also have many advantages

3. Older women are mature

4. Older women cherish their families more.