During the Chinese New Year, if children have a dispute over New Year's money, should parents intervene?

During the Chinese New Year, children are the happiest. In addition to being able to reunite with relatives and friends and eat all kinds of delicious food, red envelopes are indispensable. Every year during the Spring Festival When children are young, their red envelopes are their "capital" to show off. However, in some families, children will have disputes over New Year's money. Many people can't help but ask, should parents interfere with their children's New Year's money? In fact, different situations require different responses:

1. Make small fuss. Many times, children may cry and make a fuss over some jokes and have disputes. At this time, parents cannot go up and reprimand the children. Instead, they should calm the children's emotions respectively, ask about the causes and consequences, and then analyze the specific situation in detail. , children often forget about small quarrels after a few minutes, but if not handled well, it may leave a bad impression on the children that the parents are partial.

2. "Real guns and real swords." Older children are likely to have varying degrees of psychological distortion due to some disputes involving personal interests, which will lead to the child's own mood being relatively low. If the family continues to complain indiscriminately at this time, they will start to complain. Then the child is likely to lose the desire to share, and the gap will become deeper and deeper. If older children have a dispute, parents should pay more attention to it, because many times the older children already have some ability to restrain themselves. At this time, they should consider the cause and effect of what happened. If it is a child's personal personality problem, then parents can intervene appropriately, but they cannot act as full powers.

3. The children have a close relationship. If there is a dispute between their own children over New Year's money, then parents need to consider whether their distribution is unfair. If there is a dispute between their own children and children from relatives, then parents need to consider whose fault it is. If there is a problem with their own education methods, then It needs to be corrected in time. If there is a problem with the education of a relative's child, then it is better to make an insinuation and give a reminder.