If you screw up, you will be severely scolded!

I don't know when the word "rotten" suddenly became popular on the Internet.

Work must be bad, study must be bad, life must be bad, and even some people fail to play games.

Personally, I scoffed at this attitude, but I didn't expect that when the semester ended, I became one of the losers myself.

No, that's right.

I should be unconscious and become a loser.

At the end of the term, in order not to fail the course, all the roommates started a trip to the library to brush the questions. And I am one of them. I get up early every day and stay in the library to study.

However, I didn't expect that after only a week, I began to slack off. At first, my slackness was manifested in the decline of learning efficiency. I am reading in the library, I can't concentrate, and I am always attracted by my mobile phone for no reason.

Bili Bili, Tik Tok, Weibo, Little Red Book, Zhihu.

It has become an insurmountable obstacle on my way to study.

Later, my condition deteriorated further. I can't get up in the morning and I can't sleep at night. My roommate went to the library, and I was still sleeping in bed.

My roommates laughed at me and said I was already ruining it.

But I know very well that I want to study hard, but I can't concentrate.

I seem to have two contradictory sides in my heart. On the one hand, I want to learn well actively, but on the other hand, I am full of laziness and slack. The two influence each other, but the lazy side often overcomes the positive side, which makes me unable to devote myself to my study and work.

Mobile phones are really fun, books are really hard to read, but the review time is getting less and less, and my anxiety is increasing day by day. On the one hand, there is pressure to fail the exam, on the other hand, there are mobile phones that are difficult to put down when picked up. I'm getting more and more upset, but I still can't really review well. I just don't feel at ease when I brush my mobile phone, from happiness to anxiety.

I looked up at the classmates who were reviewing around me. Some of them are very serious, and some are ordering mobile phones. But if you don't study hard, you are sure to fail this exam. What have you learned this semester? I will graduate in a few semesters. What should I do? Can you find a good job like this? Don't talk about work, is it difficult for me to graduate?

Thinking of this, the pressure of playing mobile phone again, that is, the end of my life, makes me unable to play mobile phone with others with peace of mind. People may be tired and relaxed after reviewing, or they may have almost reviewed, or they may even study on their mobile phones. What about me?

Feeling guilty, I immediately put down my mobile phone to prepare for a good review, but after ten minutes, my heart floated again, and I couldn't help glancing at whether anyone sent me a message on my mobile phone and whether there were any interesting pushes. After struggling for a long time, I picked up my mobile phone, but unfortunately the message bar was empty. Besides, it's the end of the term. Everyone is reviewing. Who has time to send me a message? Only I am still playing.

With this in mind, I turned on Tik Tok's finger, stopped and clicked on my WeChat subscription number instead. I paid attention to some official WeChat accounts and some of my own interest numbers. I think it is definitely better to brush this at this time than to brush an entertaining short video, and maybe I can brush some final review materials!

Just do it. Holding the official WeChat account is the mentality of learning, and my anxiety has been reduced a lot. Looking at the tweets, the anxiety and pressure of final review seem to have left me, happily immersed in my mobile phone ~

Suddenly, a tweet caught my attention: "Chili sauce, can you scold me?" ",what is this wild way? This naked and psychedelic title aroused my curiosity. I didn't want to choose any tweets about learning materials at that time, so I clicked in immediately.

02

The article is not a story, but a collection of several story outlines, but it accidentally poked my heart. The situation that my sisters are eager to admonish is very similar to what I want to learn now. After reading it, I also had the idea of being lectured. Spent precious review time on playing mobile phones. Isn't it worth being taught a lesson?

As soon as the idea appeared, I was caught in a battle between heaven and man. What I need is a sermon? Can you study hard after being lectured? In fact, I haven't really been admonished. Just read some stories and articles. Sometimes I feel that teachers and students have a special feeling. Teachers sincerely teach students, and I will be moved by the feeling of hating iron and not turning into steel.

But the reality is that I can't have such a teacher, and I can't expect the teacher to treat me as a treasure, for fear that I will fall. If a teacher really cares about me so much, I dare not slack off in my study, right?

While thinking, I slipped the article. The second half of the article is about the discussion and thinking of sermon. The teachers' earnest and responsible preaching attitude touched me and made people feel the whole-hearted attention. There are links at the bottom of the article. I went in excitedly, but hesitated when I confirmed the order.

Placing an order means that I have to tell another person or even a group of people my own strange ideas. Some people are suddenly afraid of this scene. I can't hold a word, can I? Do I really have to tell others that I'm going to be scolded? Do I really need someone to scold me? Just thinking about such a thing makes me feel so shy that my face burns.

I followed the article and found some lovely feedback that I had placed an order, and found it very safe. I only need to have a private chat with the customer service lady, and I can contact the teacher who suits me. The follow-up is one-on-one. After reading it for a long time, I wanted to end my bad heart and gained the upper hand, so I ordered the advice service directly.

The customer service lady quickly talked to me privately and helped me contact the teacher. We chatted on WeChat for a while. After learning my basic situation, the teacher quickly sent a message "Go find a convenient place to answer the phone." I was surprised and nervous. I dare not keep the teacher waiting. I quickly packed my things, walked out of the library and walked to the small pavilion in the school.

"Old, good teacher."

When I answered the phone, the strange feeling made me stutter, but the teacher's voice calmed me down. The teacher is very convincing, which makes me understand the reason why I want to study hard and what kind of person I want to be in the end. The teacher said very well, "Teachers can support you and help you, but in the end, what kind of person you want to be and what kind of goal you want to achieve depends on yourself." The teacher hopes to help you put subjectivity last. "

"I want to be a self-disciplined person and study hard, but I can't learn. I originally wanted to destroy it, but seeing that people around me are working hard gives me a sense of urgency: if this continues, I will be worse than others. "

"That's right. You can't let others mess with you. No one will wait for you in the same place. If you want to be better, you can't be surpassed by yourself. You don't want to be bad, your heart is not completely degraded, but you can't take any action. Can you gain knowledge and ability through thinking? "

"I know it's comfortable to fuck around and I'm happy to play with my mobile phone, but these pleasures are short-lived and empty. Is it helpful for you to play mobile phone all day and learn a lot of gossip? Can you put something in your head? "

"Your academic performance will plummet because of your laziness. You should know that you are a student and your main task is to study. If you screw up, you will get nothing. It will make you more and more degenerate. "

"I ask you first, what are your plans for your future? Are you satisfied with your present situation? "

"No, I'm not satisfied." I am ashamed to say, "but at the same time, I have never planned my future, and I have always taken it one step at a time."

"This is the root cause of your lack of motivation." The teacher said, "So, you need to plan and give yourself a future."

Only those who can see the future can move towards the future they want.

03

The teacher's words woke me up like a dream. I know what I lack most. What I lack most is not hard work, seriousness and patience, but a goal.

I lost my way in the muddled university life and became a rotten person.

After the teacher's exhortation, I began to plan my own goals, from three-day goals to one-year goals, and I strictly demanded that I must achieve them.

In order to avoid feeling slack, I also asked the teacher to supervise me from another dimension several times.

Actually,

Our circle is not necessarily all those colorful things. Think from another angle, use discipline and exhortation, and maybe you can find a way to make yourself better and better.

Come on, little sisters.

Let's go for a better self in the future!