Time is gentle because of you.

Last year, during the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, I traveled all the way back to my hometown to attend Beckham's wedding.

The wedding was held in an inconspicuous hotel, with no luxurious stage, dazzling lights and youthful bridesmaids and groomsmen. There are only five or six tables of guests, revealing a simple atmosphere everywhere, slightly deserted and even a little shabby. The red happy characters posted on the wall supported the audience's celebration alone and struggling.

It was not until the host appeared and the announcement ceremony began that the atmosphere gradually warmed up. In the festive and warm music, Beckham in a white wedding dress took the handsome Dong Ge onto the stage. Less than 1.6 meters, she snuggled up to her 1.84-meter-old East Brother, smiling as sweetly and shyly as an innocent girl. Their eyes full of happiness and love dispelled all the shabby and cold, so that someone in the place could not help applauding and blessing them.

East elder brother under the gaze of all the guests, made an oath to Beckham:

The luckiest thing in this life is to have you by my side every day in the future. I will make you the happiest woman, and please rest assured that I will take the responsibility of being a man and take good care of this family.

Maybe he was too excited. His words trembled and even choked, and he could vaguely see the tears hidden in his eyes. He solemnly put a ring on Beckham's ring finger, and the two embraced each other sweetly, as if holding their whole world in their arms.

Sitting under the stage, we were deeply moved, and we all knew what difficulties and obstacles the couple had experienced along the way, which led to today's happy ending.

Beckham is my college classmate, petite and independent, and is the "big sister" in the group of girlfriends. The last semester of senior three may be the darkest and most difficult period for Beckham in more than 20 years. After talking about the affair of her first boyfriend for three years, she always believed that eternity is so fragile. The emotional world collapsed and Beckham was in pain. Under the pressure of survival, he had to endure the pain of lovelorn, and went around the job fair to interview for a job.

On a rainy night, the house leaks. At this time, my father was hospitalized due to an accident. The situation is very critical. My mother is old and my sister is studying in the far south. Her thin shoulders shoulder the heavy responsibility of family, comforting her mother and taking care of her father. A person is as busy as a top in the hospital, and all the sufferings can only be swallowed silently. It seems that all the misfortunes suddenly come together and make her breathless.

It was raining heavily that day, and Beckham rushed to the bus to deliver food to his father with carefully boiled bone soup. After waiting for a long time, the bus didn't come, and many people waiting for the bus gradually gathered on the platform, holding umbrellas. Finally, a fully loaded bus arrived, and impatient people rushed forward. The petite Beckham was pushed forward by the crowd, but he finally got close to the door and was pushed away by a big man next to him. When the big man got on the bus, Beckham spilled all the soup that had not stood firm in his arms on the ground, shoes and clothes. He panicked like a frightened rabbit, afraid to look up and was at a loss.

She doesn't know how so many people got on the bus at last and when the bus left. She only remembers the crisp sound of lunch boxes falling to the ground and the complaints of people around her, as if the whole world was blaming her and laughing at her. She squatted in the same place, letting the rain hit her, and the tears mixed with the rain, giving vent to the pressure and sadness for so many days.

Beckham really felt that he couldn't hold on any longer.

It was at that time that Dong Ge appeared in Beckham's life. It was a coincidence that the two met. From listening and comforting as a friend at the beginning to accompanying and encouraging later, Beckham gradually felt that the man in front of him was like a ray of warm sunshine, illuminating his dark and broken world. He is always around in all the sad moments, giving himself a shoulder, a hug and a peace of mind in the most difficult time.

Fortunately, my father was finally safely discharged from the hospital. Beckham finally put down his mind and began to look for a job wholeheartedly. Standing at the fork in the road of life, facing the future, I am helpless and confused. Brother Dong will accompany her to the job fair whenever he is free, help her rent a house, cook for her and take her to relieve stress. Happiness is shared, and troubles are shared. With the company of Dong Ge, Beckham feels warm and down-to-earth, as if his life is much easier.

Such a beautiful relationship is not valued by the world. Brother Dong's parents divorced, his family was poor, and he had no house, no car, no deposit and no stable job. When David Beckham brought Dong Ge home, he was unanimously opposed by the whole family.

My father was determined not to talk to Beckham, not to call her, and even threatened to sever the relationship between father and daughter. Mother frowned and advised Beckham, hoping that she could find a baby girl with the same conditions as herself. They didn't have the heart to marry a poor boy with nothing and no future, for fear that Beckham would suffer in the future.

Beckham firmly believes that Dong Ge is the one who will go all his life. As long as he can be with Dong Ge, Beckham is not afraid of hardship, and helping each other is the greatest happiness. She can't accept the life without Dong Ge, but she can't bear to watch her parents feel anxious and sad for herself, feel unfilial, and hope that her marriage can be blessed by her parents. Although Beckham is heartbroken and sad, he can only be cruel and stand firm, standing on the opposite side of his parents for the first time.

Brother Dong understands Beckham's parents. He wants them to trust him. He wants to make Beckham happy and give him a home. So they made up their minds to make money and build a love nest.

After the anxious graduation season, Beckham finally found a satisfactory job, but the salary was not high, but he could learn a lot, which Beckham cherished. Brother Dong resigned, started a business with friends, and often went out early and returned late. In those days, they sometimes didn't see each other for days on end. Brother Dong was usually busy until Beckham fell asleep, so he slept quietly in the small bedroom, afraid of disturbing him, and went out early the next morning. How many mornings, when David woke up, he could only see the delicious and nutritious breakfast prepared on the table, but he could not see the shadow of Brother Dong. Once again, they finally made an appointment to watch a movie on the sofa together, but Dong Ge fell asleep from the beginning. Looking at the sleeping East Brother, Beckham was very distressed and strengthened his belief in staying with this person until he was old.

When they scrimped and saved, Beckham was reluctant to buy beautiful clothes. She is more willing to use the money saved to add a chicken leg to Brother Dong's dinner. Brother Dong is very hard on himself, but he always buys Beckham fruit nutrition and never forgets to give him a surprise every anniversary. During the New Year holiday in China, he generously prepared gifts for Beckham's parents, although they still didn't accept him. Although the days are bitter, as long as the other party is happy, a look and a smile between them is enough to support them to go further.

Sisters in the dormitory are getting married one after another. The third child married a bachelor, quit his job and became a rich idle person in the family. The husband of the old five is a civil servant, and her husband's family has prepared a 100 square meter wedding room, and her parents also bought a car for the young couple. Lao Liu found a husband who is also a teacher. He has a stable life and a good salary. He often travels around the world in winter and summer vacations ... Beckham doesn't envy their luxurious and romantic weddings, as long as the people around him are Dong Ge, but when Beckham sees the parents of the bride and groom laughing happily at the wedding, she really envies them. It seems that everyone's future is very stable and clear, and only the future of himself and Dong Ge has nowhere to be placed.

Brother Dong has to work harder, and Beckham has to work harder with him.

Brother Dong's efforts are in the eyes of Beckham's parents. Beckham's sister comes home every winter and summer vacation, and Dong Ge and Beckham will pick her up and take her to eat and play. After several contacts, my sister found that Dong Ge loved her deeply and was willing to suffer. She felt that Dong Ge was a trustworthy person, so she gradually changed her front and stood on her side, often mentioning Dong Ge's goodness in front of her parents intentionally or unintentionally. The two daughters fought side by side, and gradually Beckham's parents softened their attitude.

Two years later, they paid the down payment with all their savings and bought a small house. I continued to save money for several months and borrowed a little from my friends before I started decorating. Because of limited funds during the renovation, I want to save money and ensure the quality of my small home. When buying materials, my brother usually runs around the building materials market in the scorching sun and chooses the most cost-effective one. In order to save unnecessary labor costs, Dong Ge often has to do it himself, assemble furniture, install lights and glass, and so on. Brother Dong likes to take Beckham with him when he works, but he never lets him get started. He just asked her to sit and play with her mobile phone or read a book to accompany him. He said that as long as Beckham is around, he will be practical and energetic in his work.

After several years of accumulation, Dongge's business has finally improved. The house is also decorated. Although Beckham's parents were still worried, they couldn't beat their daughter and finally accepted Dong Ge. When he took Dong Ge home for dinner that day, Beckham finally saw his parents' long-lost smiling faces. In the evening, Beckham slept in his mother's room with his sister, hugging his mother left and right, and mother and daughter were whispering in the middle of the night. At that moment, Beckham felt that he was the happiest person in the world.

They finally got married. Brother Dong has not been able to give Beckham a luxurious and romantic wedding. But whether it is luxury or simplicity, whether it is lively or cold, as long as the person standing next to me is you and the whole world is blessing us, I am the happiest bride, Beckham said.

After the ceremony, Dong Ge took her arm to propose a toast to the guests. Brother Hou Dong was drunk by his brothers, but he was very happy.

Life after marriage is warm and stable. Although it is not rich or expensive, you can occasionally be romantic with petty bourgeoisie after a well-off life. I often watch two people sunbathe in the circle of friends, sunbathe gifts, sunbathe happiness, and abuse a lot of single dog.

Last time I went back to my hometown, I saw Beckham. His makeup is exquisite and he has a smile. Except for being a little fat, his facial expression and color have hardly changed since he was a student, and his long black hair still shines in the crowd. It can be seen that the daily necessities and trivial troubles in marriage life have not dimmed her life, and she is still a treasure in her hand.

Now that their baby is about to be born, Brother Dong is working harder. Beckham is in labor at home, and the two are full of expectations for the future family of three.

I have attended all kinds of weddings, luxurious, fresh, romantic and dreamy, but what moved me most was this small and simple wedding. Beckham in a wedding dress is particularly beautiful, and they are very sweet.

After all the sufferings in front of me, I have today's dependence. In the years to come, I promise you that I will talk to you sooner or later.

Time is tender and the years are long. Take your hand and spend your life slowly. In Wan Li in the future, no matter whether it is sunny in Wan Li or raging in the wind, because of you, the world will be cloudless in Wan Li, the wind will be light and the clouds will be light, and spring will bloom.

# No Ring 365 Challenge Camp Day 2 #