It's not easy for you to live, and others live hard. Why complain about your troubles to others?

We often complain to our friends, girlfriends and buddies about things that make us feel painful, or complain about social injustice, bad luck and our natural talents. We often only know that our life is not easy, but we don't think that others live very hard.

Just bear the negative energy yourself, why share it with others? Others have no obligation to be your trash can, and they think it's true. In the eyes of others, your pain is just a joke.

I remember watching a video online. As soon as the girl in the video learned that she had depression, she found her best girlfriend and told her.

My best friend expressed sympathy and asked the girl to take medicine on time and think more happy things to keep her in a good mood.

The best friend turned around and told the girl's depression to her friends as a talk after drinking, to her colleagues as a joke and to her boyfriend as an after-dinner joke. I can't wait for everyone to say, "You know, I have a friend who suffers from depression, and his great youth is wasted like this. It's really pitiful. "

Girlfriend must not think that a girl with depression has not even told her parents, because she has long regarded her girlfriend as family in her heart. But the best friend just "sympathizes" and just tells everyone that she "sympathizes" with the girl's experience.

Everyone's life is already so hard, why complain about their pain to others.

This "others" refers to everyone except relatives.

Besides "others", we can talk to our husbands, wives, parents, brothers and sisters and relatives. They will be willing to be our "trash can" without complaint.