Real girlfriends or plastic girls, how to distinguish?

Real girlfriends or plastic girls can actually be seen in some small problems in life, especially in love, friendship and personal achievements. The following four aspects are common and effective ways to distinguish.

First, will you be jealous of your achievements. Under normal circumstances, it is completely normal for people to be a little jealous. A mentally healthy person, although sometimes jealous of others, can restrain this emotion and gradually eliminate it. To test whether your friend is a best friend or a plastic sister, it depends on whether she really wishes or pretends to compliment you when you achieve something. Real girlfriends will not only be happy for you in person, but also proud of you in front of others, while those fake girls will only recognize you in person and belittle you in front of others behind your back.

Second, whether I really helped you when you needed it. In life, we all deeply feel that when we need help, the first thing that comes to mind is good friends. If you are really good friends, you will definitely overcome all difficulties and try your best to help you. But if Sister Su always speaks well, they will try their best to avoid you when you need substantive help. Once or twice may just be the wrong time, but if it happens many times, you really have to think about how different those who help you with their actions are from those who help you with their mouths. Personally, I think the former is the real best friend, and the latter is the so-called plastic sister flower.

Third, whether to hit people in trouble. Everyone is unhappy sometimes, and a true friend will not leave you because you are in trouble, nor will he be jealous of you because you have a good situation. If you are in trouble, don't doubt those who are willing to help you wholeheartedly and unconditionally. Such people are good friends who deserve lifelong contacts and sincere treatment. And when you encounter difficulties, or the current situation is not good, not only do you not lend a helping hand, but some people fall down in times of difficulty. They can be considered superficial friends, but they must not be good girlfriends worthy of long-term contacts. Prove an old saying? A friend in need is a true friend? .

Fourth, whether you are too close to your boyfriend. I don't know when the words "best friend" and "sister" are always associated. Boyfriend? Female friends who are caught in an affair but can keep a certain distance from your boyfriend and know how to communicate properly are not necessarily good girlfriends, but at least they are not plastic sisters. And those friends who are close to your boyfriend, euphemistically speaking, are already uncomfortable because of your face. I prefer to call them not very good friends. So the relationship with your boyfriend also tests your friend's loyalty to you to some extent.