How to refuse a girl you don't like?

Your problem is complicated, and it can't be solved by simple methods.

Generally speaking, however, there are two aspects:

First of all, apply a joke "What do you like about me? ! Can't I change it? ! ! "。 To tell the truth, you may not succeed in making her hate you by snubbing her, scolding her and ignoring her. A girl likes you, and her condescension and patience are beyond your imagination.

Then, this is more important, that is, "sparse but not blocked." Completely isolating her, rejecting her, and isolating her from your world will only make her beautify your world, want to be closer to you, and want to break into your world. Therefore, it is the right way to accept her properly, let her know your world and let her lose her fantasy. Talking too much is to let her know that your world and you are not as good as she imagined, and you are not as infatuated with her as she imagined.

In fact, it is very difficult to reach the second point. If you can't accept it, you can only make do with it and let time cool everything down, or you can study hard, get into a good university and stay away from her, so that she will be farther away from your life.