Facts have proved that ordinary people need at least three to five generations to change the fate of their families.

Fate is like the sea. When you swim in it, you may gain a lot, but if you are not careful, you will be doomed.

Speaking of "fate", I believe that everyone will think of such a sentence, life and death have a life, and wealth is in the sky.

To tell the truth, the saying that fate is predestined is not absolute, but relative. Because "time" only accounts for one aspect.

If you want to change the fate of a person or a family, you need at least a combination of "time, place and harmony" to break through the shackles of reality.

The harmony between people is actually decided by people themselves. The right time, the right place and the right people, both of which depend on the opportunities of people and peace.

If people have better opportunities, I believe that we can go uphill soon and have a bright future. But if people's opportunities are not very good, then no matter how hard we try, it may be in vain.

Having said that, there is a certain relationship between the three.

That is "harmony between people". Although it can't directly affect the weather and geographical location, it can make people own the weather and geographical location to a certain extent, or increase the chances of obtaining it. But it depends on the time.

Because of the fate of people, or the fate of families, we want to change, in fact, it is not that simple, at least it takes several generations of struggle.

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Why does "harmony between people" affect weather and location?

Because human harmony can be said to be a collection of human efforts and diligence. The diligence of your generation, the diligence of your next generation and the "harmony between people" of many generations will accumulate in any case and form a strong cohesive force.

For example, your generation has a little money, but you have no chance, so you can only earn a little money. In the second generation, he developed on your basis, much faster.

If he is lucky, then he can directly change the fate of the family. If he is unlucky, he can only accumulate slowly like the first generation and lay a solid foundation for future generations.

When the third generation, and the next generation, encounter opportunities, the material, money and assets accumulated by your generations will be their full preparation for seizing the opportunities.

The so-called "thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi."

I believe that as long as a family accumulates for a certain period of time, even if the luck is worse, there will eventually be a generation, which can make a qualitative leap in the fate of the family.

This is the indirect influence of "harmony between people" on "harmony between people at the right time and place"

For us ordinary people, especially the people at the bottom, it is costly to change the fate of families in this era.

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I believe many people will ask, how many generations does it take in contemporary China society to completely change the fate of the family?

Some research institutions have studied that western society needs five to seven generations, while China society usually needs three to five generations.

The "three generations and five generations" families mentioned here are not middle-class families, but ordinary families.

As we all know, ordinary families do not have certain resources and rich assets, and perhaps their members' academic qualifications are still relatively low, so it is a bit difficult to be promoted to middle and high levels.

Many people will say, isn't it easy to buy a stock and win a prize or make a windfall to change the family's fate at once?

This statement should be viewed from two aspects.

First of all, there is the possibility of getting rich overnight in this society. However, this chance is extremely small, so small that you can be reborn as a billionaire's family at birth.

Secondly, although money can change the situation of life, it can't completely change the fate of the family.

The fate of a family needs to be composed of culture, family style, resources and ideas accumulated by many generations. This is not to say that money can change instantly, but needs to be accumulated continuously.

Especially now, with the decrease of resources and the increase of competition, the accumulation speed of ordinary people's resources is slow or even close to zero, which is a big problem facing ordinary people.

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I believe everyone has heard of the word "involution competition".

Undoubtedly, involution competition is an obstacle that restricts ordinary families from changing their destiny. And this kind of obstacle may make middle-class families degenerate, or it may make ordinary families stop.

When the involution is relatively slight, ordinary families need to lay a foundation with the first generation, the second generation develops and the third generation changes, so that the fate of the family can be reversed.

However, in today's fierce involution, it is possible that the first to third generations can only make a living, and there is no room for preparation. And change can only be pinned on the opportunities of future generations.

It can be said that it takes at least five to seven generations for a family with bad luck to change its fate.

Don't think that a generation studying hard at a cold window can turn Gankun around in a short time and achieve a great leap. This possibility is extremely small, almost one in a million.

Why? Because of the popularity of education now, academic qualifications have become worthless. Then, the so-called situation that a generation studies hard to change the fate of the family will no longer exist. You know, children in cities are exposed to more resources than children in rural areas, which doomed the latter to lose at the starting line.

However, it is still necessary to say that changing the fate of the family is not a problem of one generation, but a goal of many generations.

Text/There are deer in Shushan