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How do parents persuade them not to wear Hanfu?

On the issue of loving Hanfu, many young people easily disagree with their parents. So what are the reasons for the dispute between the two generations and the common phenomenon that "parents don't agree with you to wear Hanfu"?

First of all, it must be clear that rejecting Hanfu does not mean really rejecting Chinese culture or the Chinese nation. Your parents forbid you to wear Hanfu, which is completely different from the Han people in the Qing Dynasty.

Even if parents object again, they will never order you to "keep your hair, keep your hair, keep your hair" like Manchu. Parents' opposition to wearing Hanfu is not to destroy Hanfu culture. After all, parents don't hate China culture, they are just strangers. In their eyes, Hanfu is equivalent to ancient costume, which has long been abandoned by the times.

I often see that when my parents don't let me wear Hanfu, some extremely politically incorrect words used to describe Hanfu are "strange clothes", "alien, freak" and so on. In a word, the problem that Hanfu is incompatible with modern society and life is extremely prominent.

In fact, when colleagues hear these words, they don't have to understand that they have risen to reject Chinese culture so quickly, because after all, we have to remember that it is not surprising that people of their parents' age will cause some resentment if they see something they have never touched in the growing environment.

One thing to understand is that only parents in the world may scold you for wearing Hanfu, because you are too important to your parents, and they are willing to consider your long-term interests at the expense of their temporary harmonious relationship with you. Others and you are not stakeholders, that is, people often say "neither friends nor relatives". If they don't like Hanfu, they will only laugh at you behind your back as "that stupid costume X" and treat it as a conversation after dinner. They will never stop you from wearing Hanfu like your parents, even though they know there will be a strong conflict with you. You will be scolded for wearing Hanfu, which shows that you are concerned and liked. There is a saying that caring is chaotic, and everything happens for a reason.

Therefore, in this case, don't conflict with your parents. This is an insoluble conflict, and it is really not worth the loss. I also hope that one day, there will be no such communication and ideological gap between parents and us (not just on the issue of Hanfu).