When people become poor, why don’t even their relatives and friends look down on themselves?

This is what happens when birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. Of course, it’s not just that as long as a person becomes poor, his relatives and friends will look down on him or her, it also depends on why he became poor. If it is due to bad luck or a change in the family, then relatives and friends may not look down on you, they may even lend a helping hand to help you, or they may express sympathy and pity. However, if a person becomes poor because of squandering or not working hard, then not only relatives and friends, but also others will look down on him.

Nowadays, people interact within a certain circle. When people are rich, they will hang out with richer people. If people become poor, they will have fewer resources and their relatives and friends will not fawn over them. You, instead want to stay away from you. On the one hand, they don't have time to spend time with people who have no money and resources. On the other hand, they have to deal with people who are better than them.

People nowadays are more utilitarian and purposeful. Dealing with poor people will not bring you any benefits, and it will even drag you down. There is no benefit to people interacting with you, so of course they will stay away from you? This is not necessarily looking down upon you, it’s just that I’m not willing to invest time and energy in you.

Actually, there is no need to feel sad if this happens, it is human nature. When you become rich and developed, you will gradually stay away from those who are much less developed than you. You will understand how natural this is. This is the truth and cruelty of life.

So, people should not walk too slowly, but should walk faster, otherwise they will be left behind by those who run fast. It's not that people look down on you, it's that they have no time to see you.