As you get older, you should keep your mouth shut when you go out. What topics should you not talk about when meeting people?

As you get older, you should keep your mouth shut when you go out. What topics should you not talk about when meeting people?

1. The recent troubles at home

The troubles at home are not a family scandal, but they are better than a family scandal. Even if it is not a family scandal, there may be many outsiders who have come up with unfounded information, so others will follow their opinions. It will be self-defeating. Most outsiders would like to base their happiness on your family's suffering, and praise your family's troubles. They want to hear about it and also want to praise it, so they will spread it to ten people and hundreds of people, so that bad things will spread thousands of miles. When a large number of outsiders hear that you feel troubled at home, they will either be sarcastic or sarcastic. They will at most comfort you with a word or two. Enthusiastic outsiders will sympathize with you or sympathize with you, while outsiders with evil intentions will show up. The inquisitiveness added fuel to the fire. After all, the outsiders who joined in the fun were not afraid of the big deal.

2. Don’t talk about how good your life is at home

No matter how good your family is, it doesn’t matter to outsiders. On the contrary, if outsiders live better than your family, they will look down on you. Family, if other people’s families live lower than your family, they will feel unbalanced. When it comes to the minutiae of daily life, no matter how much savings your family has or how much your retirement pension is, you must avoid it. Even if outsiders ask about it, you need to change the topic. If you talk nonsense, it is likely to cause safety hazards such as large trees attracting wind, because there is a saying that wealth should not be revealed. In addition, don't talk about how good your children are, especially when it comes to their work. Otherwise, outsiders will think that you are always showing off, and in serious cases, they will try their best to use your children to make them perform within the scope of their responsibilities. If you do all kinds of things at home, you will not only create trouble for yourself, but also create obstacles for your children. You and your children will be in a dilemma at the same time.

3. Prevent telling others about the way to make money at home

The way to make money at home is to make money while lying down. It is not spread everywhere, not to mention that the way to make money at home may not necessarily be true. Suitable for outsiders. If you talk to people when you meet them, and if outsiders follow what others say and copy the gourd, as long as you lose money, outsiders will inevitably complain about you; even if outsiders make money by mistake, they will not thank you for revealing it. The way to make money is to blame you for not expressing it earlier. It would be easy to say if outsiders can cooperate with each other, but I am afraid that outsiders may engage in vicious price competition, and the family's way of making money will either be harmed or easily suffer a setback.