The correct way to accidentally open an ex-boyfriend

For a woman, meeting an ex-boyfriend is nothing to be afraid of. The terrible thing is that when we meet again, we are miserable, unkempt and bloated. Anyway, I must appear glamorous in front of you. This is not the vanity of women, but the dignity of women.

If I am abandoned, I want you to see that without you, I live more chic and happier, and make your grandson regret it;

If I break up voluntarily and want you to see my happiness now, I don't regret my original decision.

No matter how frightened I am at home and how frustrated I am in life, I want you to see the most beautiful side of me at this moment.

Maybe I will be laughed at for "saving face", but this is my dignity and bottom line. In order to appear in front of you again, I must be fully prepared. How hurt I was and how strongly I wanted to turn over. Ten years off stage, three minutes on stage. When I met you again, I worked hard, worked hard and struggled for these three minutes.

At the classmate's wedding, I met my "ex-boyfriend", who was never in touch with each other. When we parted, we took French leave. I was inexplicably "broken up". I was so sad that I couldn't eat or sleep for days. I can't go out for a long time. That painful emotional history is buried deep in my heart and I dare not touch it. Later, I met the right person, got married and had children, but I was still grateful for the kindness of not getting married in those years, which made me have a happier family.

When we meet again, I just ignore it and pretend that we have never met. After all, it is my classmate's home, which is not the right time for me to "tear B". And more importantly, I was beautiful and generous that day, confident and calm, talking and laughing with people. When I saw you in the crowd, I felt happy, comfortable and happy, and the air was filled with the smell of happiness. Will I lose proper limit because of unimportant people and things? Ignore it directly, and my heart is calm, which also shows that I have put down my past obsession and started my own happy life, and I will not bless you with tolerance and compassion. Time will change everything, as long as I am happy, whether you are happy or not!

We can't change the misfortune we encountered when we were young and ignorant, but when we meet again, we want you to see your best self, without red-faced quarrels and hysterical crying. I just need to be my best self, shine in the crowd and let you "hit your face". This is the highest form of revenge.