How to treat the privacy that smart women don't tell outsiders?

Everyone has a little "secret" in his heart that everyone can't tell.

Smart women can keep the secrets between husband and wife in marriage, stand on the same front with their husbands and know how to deal with the privacy between husband and wife.

No matter before or after people, smart women will not do what they can't do because they are out of control or proud to say what they can't say.

Such a woman is not only smart, but also has higher emotional intelligence. When dealing with problems, she will always weigh the consequences and not do anything that will get her into trouble. To put it bluntly, you don't do things that are bad for you, but say things that are bad for you.

But some women just can't hold their breath, just like a powder keg, they get angry with men, and then they can tell strangers the privacy between husband and wife, and they can't tell who is the enemy, who is the friend and who is the stranger. Spitting or showing off for a while is a greater curse for their later life.

Whether happy or angry, smart women know how to protect their own people, don't give others a chance to see jokes, and don't get into trouble for themselves.

Smart women don't talk about "privacy" to outsiders, but stupid women like to talk about it everywhere.

Husband dotes on himself and cares for himself.

Very calm after marriage, very happy life. She thinks that happiness can be shared, and she didn't know she was wrong until after the divorce.

My husband has always liked her. When he came home from work, he cooked for her, washed her hair, bought her extravagant gifts and gave her more money to keep. He dotes on her so much that he just feels that life is really happy.

My best friend envies her for marrying a good man every time she comes, and she can't help but praise her husband in her words. She smiled and said thank you.

Until she ran into them together, she couldn't believe that the two closest people had betrayed her. The best friend bluntly said that she wanted her husband and wanted what she had, and then her husband became her ex-husband.

Many women have girlfriends, thinking that girlfriends and themselves are lifelong friendships. But human nature can't withstand temptation. When you share the happiness your husband gives you, there are really few people who really want you to be happy.

When happiness is shared too much, it will inevitably attract the attention of others, and people with ulterior motives will take away your happiness and hide your beautiful life.

If you marry a good man, don't share your happiness with others at will. Not as good as your people will envy and hate, maybe the boat of friendship will turn over. It is a wise man's practice to enjoy the happiness that men give you alone. Besides, you don't need to show off some happiness, you can see it in you. There is no need to gild the lily.

Husband's ability to make money is strong and weak.

Many times, a man's ability to make money doesn't mean anything, but some people just like to associate money with happiness.

If you show off that your husband has made a lot of money, they will think that you are happy and rich, and they will ask you for money to do anything. Do you want to borrow it or not?

Everyone knows that it is easier to borrow money than to pay it back. If you don't borrow it, you used to show off that men make more money. If you refuse, others will say that you deliberately "self-destructed" and ruined your reputation. If you borrow it, you will be in trouble. Be prepared to get your money back. Because you have money, some people think that your money is blown by the wind and will not be returned to you on time.

Telling outsiders that her husband's ability to make money is not good is actually a disguised dislike, but some women don't understand this feeling of men.

Xiaomi bought three suites before marriage and paid off the mortgage after marriage. The expenses at home are still hers. Her husband is only over 3000 a month. She never told her husband that he made less money, nor did she mention anything about making money, for fear of hurting his self-esteem.

She has money, and she should protect this marriage with care. She is really happy. Men take the initiative to do housework, take care of children and let her work hard outside. It's clear to be apart, and such a day is also happy.

Happiness may be related to money, but money can't measure happiness. Happiness is a matter for both husband and wife, and outsiders don't need to know how much a man earns. Income and assets are not capital.

If you have more money, all kinds of borrowers will come to you, which is also the beginning of trouble. Less money will not only be looked down upon, but also make others laugh at you for finding a useless husband, which will hurt a man's self-esteem and marriage feelings by mistake.

Private affairs between husband and wife.

Every couple has their own way of getting along, and there is no need to tell others what they have done in private.

Some women naturally like to show off, thinking that they have the ability to control their husbands, and like to tell their friends about the private affairs between husband and wife. If the speaker is unintentional and the listener is interested, it will be in trouble.

Men pay more attention to the protection of privacy and don't like being talked about. If the woman violates this, many men can't accept it, which may lead to divorce.

Men will think that such a woman has no brains, and no matter how beautiful she is, she is not the best candidate to be a wife. When he has a better choice, he will destroy that woman.

Marriage belongs to two people. From the beginning of marriage, it means that all glory, all losses, there is no such thing as being immune.

Smart women know this truth well and will not share the privacy between husband and wife at will, because what they say is doomed to be no longer a secret from the moment they say it, which will inevitably bring unnecessary trouble to themselves.