How can I find a girlfriend?

Many boys told me that being single looks cool, but when it comes to holidays, I feel particularly lonely when I look at others in pairs. So I really want to find a girlfriend.

There is a way to find a girlfriend, so I started to talk about it without saying anything.

1: Take part in more social activities and expand your circle of friends.

If you want to find a girlfriend, the first thing is to expand your circle of friends. Otherwise, how can girls get a girlfriend if they don't know much? There are many ways to expand your circle of friends. I will talk about social activities today.

Of course, there are bars, cafes, bookstores, libraries, art exhibitions, elevators in company canteens and so on.

If you are still at school, just take part in club activities directly. When you buy a drink or something in a club activity, you can politely ask the girl if she wants to bring it for you. You can establish contact.

But according to my observation, many people are not afraid to go because of their small social circle. They want a partner to accompany them to a new place and show them around. They are a little anxious about activities in strange places.

All this is normal. You are lucky if you can find such a familiar buddy. But I know many people don't have such luck. Then you should sit down now and think rationally with the logical thinking that men are good at, and measure: Is your desire to know more girls greater than your anxiety about participating in these social activities alone? If so, you go; If your desire is less than your anxiety about participating in social activities, then don't go.

Step 2 know girls

All right. You finally took the first step. Go to a social place where there are many girls. The next step is to really get to know the girl you want to know. If you have been there, I believe you will feel different now. When you stay at home, you will think, "Why is it so difficult to meet a new woman?"

Now you find a new girl around you. As long as you say "hello" or "hi" in a friendly way (under normal circumstances, you don't need any special skills), you will find that almost all women will be friendly to you and you will feel easy to talk to.

In your opinion, here are some ways to build your attraction with women. If you like to use convention, use a little convention. If you like to chat with women naturally, just chat casually.

There are all kinds of attractive techniques and methods, and I believe you are tired of them. Including the love and marriage articles I write in my circle of friends every day, I believe you are about to vomit, and it is estimated that you can write many articles much better than me.

Well, the following words are especially for you. If you have read a lot about attraction skills and conventions, and you know everything in theory, but not much in practice, then after chatting with women from "Hello", you should remember the following three points:

1. Never bomb with skills and conventions.

Remember Lamian Noodles's principle of beef: Attracting skills is seasoning (salt, pepper, etc. ) In beef Lamian Noodles, you only need to put a little. Normal speech is the noodles in beef Lamian Noodles, accounting for the vast majority. Beef is a bit like love words.

Simply put, it is to chat with women normally and occasionally interrupt a joke. If you insist on an index to measure the number of words, you can refer to the first five sentences, insert a joke, then insert a sentence in the following 10 sentence and a sentence in the following 20 sentences.

This is for those who are familiar with the theory but lack of practice, because they are most likely to make a mistake, that is, they think that everything they say to women will be brilliant, and they will recite many established things and throw them to women one by one.

You are bound to be rejected, and it is impossible to succeed just by talking about a girl.

Especially at the beginning. Let you go out to socialize and get to know more women. The whole purpose is to improve your ability to attract women faster. The best way to improve your ability to attract women is to come out and practice. You may know this theory like the back of your hand, but it doesn't work that way.

It's time for you to practice these skills. And failure and rejection are the best teachers. On the contrary, if you really talk about success once, then you won't learn anything at all and you won't make any progress.

The most important thing is that when you start talking to a woman, you must never say "I want you to be my girlfriend" or "I want to marry a girl like you".

Once exposed, 99.99% of the cases are to scare away women. Even if that woman's parents are urging her to get married quickly every day, she will disappear from your eyes like a mouse as soon as you say it at the beginning. The same is true of blind date in a matchmaking agency. In fact, you know that the purpose of blind date is also to get married, but when you come up, you say that you want that girl to be your girlfriend, which will scare her! Everyone knows it, but they can't say it! Try to give girls a natural feeling of love!

On the contrary, the right feeling you want to give a woman is: I just came out today to meet some new friends (not necessarily women, but also men, for example, for career needs). If there is wine, for example, at a cocktail party, I personally used to say it.