Personally, I think the most embarrassing thing is that my wife and I often praise each other, and the other party is embarrassed to find each other's advantages. In fact, two people live together, and these embarrassing things can make our life more interesting. ? 1, don't forget to praise each other no matter how long you get married. Because many couples spend too long together, they always ignore the bright spots on their partners, see each other's shortcomings more, and even enlarge them infinitely. However, this has affected the relationship between husband and wife. No matter how long you have been married, don't forget to find each other's advantages and praise them. Even if it is a small matter, you need to give them affirmation and let them feel your love and care, which will be more valuable than small surprises and small gifts. ? 2. Don't doubt each other easily? The most unattainable thing in marriage is trust, which is the foundation of marriage. Even if an extramarital affair occurs in a marriage, the first thing that is destroyed is not the marriage, but the trust relationship between two people. Suspicion and doubt are the chief culprits that eventually lead to the dissolution of marriage. Paranoid personality is a morbid personality. This kind of person's marriage often fails, because he always doubts whether his lover is having an affair, murdering himself and so on. And doubt that all love will be defeated in the end. Since two people are together because they love each other, they should firmly believe in each other's love for themselves. There is no evidence to suspect that the other party can only show that he no longer loves ta. ? 3. Learn to communicate? Mutual communication is the key factor in managing marriage. If you have something to say, don't hold it in your stomach, communicate with each other more, let each other know more about themselves and avoid many unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions. Communication is also very important to marriage, and the quality of marriage is directly proportional to the quality of communication. In our real life, we may often see that the emotional foundation of husband and wife relationship is good, but there are some problems in mutual communication, which affect their relationship. This shows that a happy marriage needs good communication. ? 4. Learn to create romance? Many introverts complain that they don't understand romance. In fact, personality does not determine whether you are romantic or not. Anyone can find romance with a little heart. Learn to create romance, you can ask each other what romance is, and then create something like this. Sometimes we don't lack romance, but lack romantic courage. No matter after seven years, ten years or twenty years old, the partner comes home, stops what he is doing, turns his attention to the other person, gives his lover a big hug, and pays love in details, which can make the other person more intimate and warm; In normal times, physical contact, such as patting the shoulder and touching the face, can promote intimacy more than husband and wife life. ? 5. Learn to empathize? Egocentricity is always the biggest obstacle in the relationship between husband and wife, including all other interpersonal relationships. It can be said that everyone lives in a world dominated by himself, and it is very convenient for us to give each other what he thinks he wants instead of what he really wants. But saving trouble does not mean being effective, and the result of saving trouble is often doing bad things and running errands with good intentions. Running a marriage requires both parties in the marriage to jump out of their own world, think about what the other party really wants, and then give the other party what he wants, not what he thinks. Don't impose your ideas on others in everything. When you encounter a problem, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about it. In this way, you will get along better.
When you get along with the people you love, sometimes it is inevitable to do some embarrassing things in front of the people you love. Some people may feel ashamed, but sometimes they feel cute in front of the people they love. There is an embarrassment called embarrassing others. There is also an embarrassment, calling yourself embarrassed. However, doing embarrassing things in front of your lover is unexpected, not your own intention. Some of them were meant to make everyone laugh, but they turned into cold jokes, which made the atmosphere very embarrassing. So, in real life, what embarrassing things have you done in front of your lover? First: I accidentally put my foot in my mouth and said something childish. In a relationship between men and women, it is inevitable that two people will put their foot in their mouth when they get along for a long time. Such behavior is sometimes embarrassing in front of the lover. For example, as we said just now, we tell some jokes that make people feel funny and say something particularly childish. This kind of situation that people can't get your meaning and show reluctance makes people feel particularly embarrassed and embarrassed. Sometimes, others laugh or nod their heads to cater to them, not to really understand them. Second: behavior mistakes, wonderful behavior in the relationship between men and women, sometimes because of brain short circuit, often some embarrassing things happen in front of lovers. For example, when we meet, we find that our clothes are on backwards. When we had dinner together, we found that the chopsticks were taken upside down. I fell in front of my lover when I was walking, and it was still ugly. Once these behavioral mistakes, wonderful behaviors or unexpected situations happen in front of your lover, you will feel particularly embarrassed. At this time, in fact, I hope I can get into the cracks, and I feel very ashamed. However, it is worth mentioning that if the other person loves you, he is embarrassed, but in his eyes, he will not care too much, and even think you are very interesting and cute. If your lover doesn't love you very much and doesn't love you enough, maybe some of your actions will make the other person feel disgusted and even think that you have lost his person.