What is a mature person like?

Human life begins with the embryo in the womb, which is mature and separated from the mother. This is birth. People bring their own factory settings, and under the stimulation of mother-infant interaction and environment, they learn the rules of the human world, eat with spoons and chopsticks, and say thank you and sorry. Good morning. Learn to pee in the bathroom.

Later, I went to school to learn knowledge and skills and develop eighteen martial arts.

If you want to know the exam, you will also eat, drink and be merry. Your jokes will make everyone laugh, and you will be a good student in front of the teacher. Generally speaking, maturity is probably such a process, a process of constantly letting immaturity fade, constantly adapting to society and becoming more and more adaptable. It is also a process of growing up physically and constantly improving social roles.

However, physical maturity does not mean psychological maturity.

Psychological maturity mainly includes the following three aspects: conceptual maturity, emotional maturity and behavioral maturity.

A mature idea is to constantly adjust and precipitate one's own ideas in the experience of life, and form one's own philosophy of life, and no longer shake doubts because of one person's words or 10 thousand articles.

Emotional maturity refers to having a clear consciousness and adjustment of one's own emotions, knowing how to express them properly, and neither belittling oneself nor hurting others maliciously.

Mature behavior means doing things with goals, principles, persistence and giving up. It is important to understand why you did it, how you did it, what the result was, and be able to take responsibility.

Finally, these three aspects are all adapted to the current social culture, and there is neither vulgarity that goes with the flow nor the edge that is out of place.