"I slept with the dog"! After the wedding, the bride was forgotten by the groom in the hotel. What kind of operation is this?

The bride’s words are really not meant to be insulting. She really slept with a dog in her arms during the wedding night. It was so miserable. We usually tease dogs, but this time the dog was really happy. For a moment, the groom’s behavior on the wedding night also made countless netizens scold him for being nothing. Have you considered the feelings of us singles? Haha, okay, okay, no more insulting dogs.

However, when everyone learned the details of the incident, they found out that it was just the groom's unintentional mistake. The bride was angry and finally forgave him. Everyone thought it was another case of a good girl meeting a scumbag. In an exciting scene, just as we are gearing up to condemn the male protagonist, the plot takes a turn, and the good guys disperse. Some people are still thinking silently: What a pity, this night? Hey, can you not get out?

Then again, there are real differences in the attitudes of men and women towards marriage, especially the man's attitude towards his girlfriend before marriage and his wife after marriage. It depends on the attributes of the man. Marriage, love and family relationships have different cognitions. I will explain them slowly.

1. The groom was so brash that the bride couldn’t laugh or cry

This just happened in the cold Bozhou, Anhui Province. After a wedding banquet, the bride, Ms. Gao, was forgotten in the hotel by the groom. , I took a video and posted it on the Internet and it became popular (I was in a good mood to take a video, I was so heart-warming). In the video, he asked: Why spend money to marry a wife? The money was spent, the wife was married, and then she was left in a hotel?

According to custom after the banquet, the bride and groom should go out together to see off the guests. But because the temperature was low that day and the bride was wearing a formal dress, the groom was the only one to see off the guests. But after waiting for several hours, the bride did not see the groom and was so angry that she went home alone.

It wasn’t until 10 o’clock in the evening that her husband belatedly called her and asked where she was. After telling the reason, the bride laughed angrily. It turned out that the groom was a little drunk. After seeing off the guests, he thought he was just here for the banquet. Because he was too drunk, he went directly to the best man's room. After a long sleep, he woke up and found that it was already dark.

But when she thought of what the groom did, the bride still got angry and let the groom sleep in the living room. And he hugged his dog and slept all night. It was originally a wedding night, but who would have thought that he would end up sleeping with a dog?

Fortunately, the groom knew that he had made a big mistake this time, and he took the initiative to admit his mistake as soon as he walked in. He even held two cute bears in his arms to ask for his wife's forgiveness.

Hey, let’s not blame the groom. He has no experience in getting married for the first time. There are still many days to come, and I think the groom will have a miserable life in the future. Are you laughing?

2. Men and women have different views on marriage

If you think about it seriously, this is really not funny at all. Marriage is such a big event, and the bride can be forgotten after drinking some wine, but it involves a sense of responsibility. There is a certain reason for netizens to elevate this matter to a sense of responsibility and even a level of character.

But after all, they are all bystanders, and only the parties involved know the true feelings. As the saying goes, you know yourself whether you are warm or cold, but it is a fact that men and women have completely different attitudes towards marriage.

In fact, men need marriage more than women. Men are definitely no less enthusiastic about marriage than women, because a good partner will provide them with the best rear protection.

Because of this, men are very nice to their girlfriends before they get married, but they start to slack off on their wives after they get married.

After getting married, because the man believes that the marriage is already stable, he will draw energy from the marriage instead of sending power to the marriage. Men will shift more attention to career or more important aspects.

In their eyes, the responsibility of making money and supporting the family after marriage is more important than maintaining an intimate relationship with their wives. Women must not mistakenly think that this is a change of heart by a man. The difference in understanding of marriage between the two parties is the source of conflicts in marriage.

However, for women, they will value their partnership more after marriage. Even a large number of women are willing to give up their careers for their partners and children after getting married.

Because in the eyes of women, marriage is the source of their security and happiness. Marriage is far more important than career and many things. This is also the reason why many women cannot understand why men slack off in their relationship after marriage.

There are many reasons why men and women have different attitudes towards marriage.

The traditional Chinese thinking is dominant, men are responsible for the outside world and women are the domestic ones. This idea is firmly engraved in our minds.

3. If both parties view conflicts differently, the outcome will be different

How to manage a marriage to make it happy? Marriage is different from love. It is not just a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. Marriage is nothing but trivial matters, and marriage is nothing but firewood, rice, oil and salt. It is these days full of fireworks that make up each family.

And how many marriages have turned from love to hatred? As the saying goes, the longer they get along, the deeper they understand each other and the deeper the conflicts. Some couples are also unable to adapt to the changes in the way they get along with each other, their status, etc. in the marriage, so they become strangers to marriage.

In just a few decades, it is fate that we can meet each other, and it is even more rare to know and love each other. We are not afraid of life, old age, sickness and death in our marriage vows, and we are not afraid of considering problems from the other person's perspective. We have been in the same boat for a hundred years. , Thousands of years of practice to achieve perfect pillow sleep.