What should I do to slowly change my petty personality?

First of all, please read it patiently and respect the fruits of my labor. I typed it by hand. If you think I am wrong, just treat it as a joke. If you think I am right, then give me points.

The following text begins:

It is best to know that you are wrong. If you have done something wrong and want to make it right, then apologize! A word of sorry can be exchanged for a life-long best friend - it's worth it!

If he still plays tricks on you, then give up on this person, because he is not worth fighting for. Unless you've really gone too far, try to save more.

It’s hard to change if you are small-minded. I am, but I’m not that impulsive.

I think if something like this happens again in the future, you should first find fault with yourself for anything. Don’t let your emotions control you. Think about other people’s words. When they finish speaking, you are expressing your own point of view. If The two of them are talking together again, so let him speak first. If you think what he said is too unpleasant, then you can say: "Old Zhang (Old Li) belongs to so and so, stop talking, let's drink!" (Then) (drinking), don’t talk about the previous topic again, change the topic to something that no one will argue about, such as recalling the scene when the two met, the happy time between the two, and then we can call it quits after we have had enough wine and food!

Also, don’t say those hurtful words. Don’t take the hurtful words he says to you. Although it is difficult, if the feelings are there, what can you do if you endure it? We can't kill people. If it doesn't work, don't say what we say. Let's listen, right?

This way there will be no conflict and it will make people feel that they are good friends worth dating.

There are no friends you can’t make, only enemies you can’t make.

You only have one lifetime, just don’t regret anything you do!