What about the people scrambling to pay the bill?

A few months ago, a male fellow villager of BFF came to our school to play with another girl, saying it was a long time no see, and it was almost time to eat when she came back from the game, so the three of them chose a restaurant near the school for dinner. The three people on the table were talking and laughing, during which the boy kept talking about how many part-time jobs he had done and how much money he earned during his college years, and the study room and her friends also admired him. In fact, the boy said it was his treat before looking for them, but after dinner, the boy said nothing. When the waiter put their bill on the table, he casually took out his pocket and said, "I don't have any cash with me!" " "When the waiter told him that he could pay online, he slowly put his hand with his mobile phone down from the table ... His girlfriend thought that although he said it was a treat, he was equivalent to a" host "after all, just to ease the embarrassment, so he took out his mobile phone and paid the bill. Afterwards, the three of them left the restaurant. The boy also said, "I said it's my treat. How did you pay so quickly? My girlfriend pretended to be relaxed and said, "I should." . "

Last year, I joined a "Happy Running Group" at school and often went to other places to participate in marathons with my running partners. Every time I take a taxi from the school gate to the railway station, I have to go back and forth several times. There is always a boy sitting in the passenger seat for the first time and will pay the fare for us when he gets there. Every time we want to give him money, he will say, "I sit alone with so much money anyway, why give me money!" " ".Of course, every time we are moved, we will still transfer a part of ourselves to him.

These remind me of a sentence I read in an article in WeChat official account before. "Have you found that most people who take a taxi next to the driver, people who eat together and grab the order, and people who go out to buy water and snacks for everyone will make a difference, because such people are big and willing." On the contrary, people who hide when they should spend money can't achieve much even if they have two pennies. Wow! Isn't this the two kinds of people I described above!

People who rush to pay the bill will not have too bad interpersonal relationships in their daily lives, even in their later years. At that time, I told this view to a friend in a small talk, and he couldn't help agreeing with continuous shooting's thigh. He talked about the fact that the senior student who is starting a business now is young, because he is in the early stage of starting a business and is short of manpower and material resources. When Xiao was at a loss, a group of his roommates stepped forward. There is no air conditioning in the small studio, and several big boys have been insisting no matter how hot and tired they are. It has been more than a month since the summer vacation began in early July. I heard that I have received several big orders. In this summer, most people use "life is given by air conditioning" to decorate. It is precisely because Xiao often delivers meals to his roommate that his roommate is so "willing to give up their lives".

Indeed, this mentality of "rushing to pay the bill" will make us lose a little at that time, but it is not worth the candle.

The mentality of "rushing to pay the bill" allows us to harvest good interpersonal relationships, and good interpersonal relationships will allow us to harvest wealth after wealth.

Although a cigarette is worthless, this heart of waiting to take advantage of others at any time is easy to be seen through by others. If you have such people around you, I advise you not to be intimate with them, or even "make a clean break" with them as soon as possible! Remember: hacking a "bad friend" in time is sometimes more valuable than making ten new friends! So on a certain level, it also belongs to the income category.

Some people may question: "Do you need to pay for everyone first? Those who don't take the initiative to pay the bill are stingy, petty and even immoral. This is obviously a moral kidnapping! " You have such doubts, which means that you have not established correct values.

Although paying the bill can't fully prove a person's pattern, you can still understand most of it. What is worth paying should be people similar to us. These people are generally kind and grateful. If you "pay the bill first" for them, they will definitely "repay" you in another way.

Uncle, I can only say that you are too kind. His house is so crowded, you still consider whether he spends money or not. Has he considered your family situation? The satisfaction of "paying the bill first" is far beyond your ability, and it will only get more and more tired slowly.

Two people with different patterns will have completely opposite directions in life. People with small patterns are like frogs at the bottom of a well. Their eyes were fixed on that petty profit, and they were confined to their own land in Xiaotian all their lives. People with large patterns will have a broader life, encounter more "God's assists", and have higher acceleration than others on the road to growth and success.

Don't be smart enough to think that those who often "scramble to pay the bill" are fools. On the contrary, they are the smartest people, because they know how to deal with people, and their horizons and patterns are broader than others.