In which moments do you feel particularly sorry for yourself?

What are the moments? I often feel like this, especially when I was giving birth to a baby. My husband was not around and was on a business trip. When he came back, I was already in pain in the delivery room of the hospital. After 18 hours, I had already opened it to five fingers, but the baby wouldn't come out. The pain was so painful that I was dying. At that moment, I felt very wronged. My husband wanted to be next to me, so I had to pinch him well to let him know that I was like this. How uncomfortable it is. Thinking about it, I really feel sorry for myself. Women at that time were particularly fragile, and during the confinement period, women's emotions would be unstable. Some children were well-behaved, but some were noisy in the middle of the night. Adults didn't care at all. Can't sleep well.

If my husband is not around, or he is careless or inconsiderate, I will really feel that it is not easy for me at that time. Faced with the troublesome housework, the noise of the children, the look on my mother-in-law’s face, I just feel that it is not easy for me. All the discomforts of being a mother. At that moment, I felt very sorry for myself and wanted to hug myself at that moment.

Because of my stomachache, I feel very uncomfortable. I can’t sleep well at night. I have to get up at five in the morning to make breakfast and send my children to school. My husband said that he is busy with work and comes home very late every day. I can't expect him to do anything for me. He always sleeps until 8 o'clock and gets up at 8 o'clock. The children and housework are all my responsibility. My husband always thinks that he is too busy at work. It is natural for him to open his mouth for food and stretch out his hands for clothes. I am like I am serving an older child and a younger child. I am responsible for taking care of them, but there is no one to take good care of them. Who can understand my tiredness, my pain, and my mood!

That is, when you are most helpless and sad, when you are helpless, it is when you feel most distressed for yourself.