How to make your Cancer boyfriend happy?

I don’t know what kind of Cancer you have met. In terms of appearance, they are basically divided into two categories: one is gentle and friendly, and does not feel oppressive at all; One kind is awkward and picky, making people feel very "difficult". But no matter which category he belongs to, when you really get in touch with each other, you will feel that his personality is unpredictable and unpredictable. Sometimes he is gentle and considerate, sometimes indifferent, sometimes kind and kind, and sometimes harsh and inhumane. However, as long as he is a Cancer man, he must have a gentle and sensitive heart. His changeability is not due to his personality, but because his emotions are too easily affected by external things. It is not easy to really understand him. It is Cancer's instinct to protect themselves. He rarely lets you know too much about him at once, and he rarely expresses his emotions or feelings nakedly. He instinctively protects his fragile and passionate heart, so you have to give him a lot of security. Most Cancer men are shy and afraid of rejection. Even when he is pursuing you, he will try his best to act as if he is not pursuing you. When he calls you to make an appointment, he rarely gets to the point right away. He always chats with you for a long time and goes around in circles before saying, "I heard there's a new Italian restaurant that's good." "Shall we go have a meal together?" Cancer's pursuit method is not aggressive, and his attitude is always gentle. However, if you really have something to do and can't go, or you don't want to go out that day. The way you reject him must be very tactful, otherwise, you may hurt him. When he is upset, he may have two reactions. One is to hide in the shell like a hermit crab, and the other is to bite people with his pincers like a big crab. A Cancer man cares about the respect others have for him. If you are a careless girl, you may often not understand why he suddenly changes his face. He is too sensitive. A contemptuous look or a joke from you may make that girl finally muster up the courage. Cancer lovers, hide in your shell immediately. If you want him to come out bravely again, I'm afraid it will take a lot of effort. If you are an impatient girl, Cancer's pursuit methods may make you a little impatient. He may call you several times a day, have dinner with you in the evening, take a walk with you after dinner, and then take you to his house and bring out all his awards, photos, and collections from childhood to adulthood for you to see, and read them all. After that, it's time for you to go home. If you are also a shy and reserved person, then you may have to repeat this program countless times. I sincerely suggest you that if you really like him, you might as well be a little more proactive and give him some "obvious" hints (it really needs to be "obvious", otherwise the shy Cancer man will still feel unsure). Your relationship will develop quickly. You will soon see his passionate and lingering side. When dealing with a sensitive and emotional Cancer man, being gentle to him is the only way. When your relationship reaches a certain stage and his feelings for you become deeper and deeper, he will feel uneasy. He will test you again and again, and he likes you to constantly prove your feelings for him. Don't be impatient, it all means he really cares about you. When he feels safe, he is the most attentive and considerate man. When you are at odds with each other, "crying" and "acting like a baby" are better methods. It is rare for a Cancer man to lose his temper in front of a pair of tearful eyes. You can reconcile instantly, often without a fight. Never yell at him with a fierce face, as the damage caused by this is often more serious than the original disagreement. He will feel that you do not respect him and no longer love him. It may often happen that you change from the plaintiff to the defendant. It's hard to please a Cancer man when he's angry, so don't ask for trouble. Marrying a Cancer husband is an easy and pleasant thing. First, he is a family man who likes to do housework, but don't cross your legs and watch TV in the living room while he is doing housework. It will hurt him too much. If your heart is broken, please look at him with gentle and grateful eyes next to him, and he will do his best. He has a strong sense of money. Most Cancer men are much more interested in making money than spending money, because money often gives him a sense of security. He is not stingy, but he will not like you spending money to buy something of no value. "something. If you spend a lot of money on trendy accessories, he will feel it is a bit of a waste. He would rather help you buy a diamond, because diamonds can at least "preserve their value."

For him, "sense of value" is very important, and you'd better develop your own correct concept of spending money. That’s right! Don't throw away his old things casually. For the nostalgic Cancer, an old book or a broken alarm clock may be his priceless treasure. I know many Cancer men who have a hobby of collecting. Some collect antiques, and some collect matchboxes. It is a great pleasure for him to tell people about the origins of his collections. It is best for you to share his hobbies. If you are really not interested, at least not when he repeatedly takes out those "old things" to appreciate them. At that time, I kept nagging. Remembering the people, things and things in the past is a kind of enjoyment for him, and it is also a habit that he will never change in his life. In fact, you should be happy. To him who is nostalgic, you may become more valuable as you get older! Many Cancer men are emotionally attached to their mothers. His gentle mother may be his biggest reliance as he grows up. During your relationship, you may hear him mention: "My mother..." from time to time. Don't be unreasonably jealous or deliberately play devil's advocate. If you are smart, you'd better not create problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You should respect your mother-in-law and let her teach you how to take care of your crab. Isn't that turning resistance into help? Occasionally you may feel a lack of accomplishment because Cancer men usually take such good care of themselves. Almost every Crab man I know has his leather shoes polished, and the lines on his shirts and trousers are neatly ironed. Their ability to do housework is often better than that of their wives. If you enthusiastically help him do these things, he may think that you are not doing it fast enough or well enough. Don't be angry, you should be happy and relaxed! However, you still need to remember to always praise his abilities and always show your willingness to serve him. You will have a relaxed and happy life. Always remember that "gentleness" is your most powerful weapon.