How to be a really good man and lover?

Unfortunately, a good man missed it. What is a good man? Everyone's standards are different, but there is still a universal law. If you can send a "gem appraisal certificate" to a good man who deserves to be together, then a modern good man should meet the following eight criteria: ※ He loves you more than his requirements. Men who always stop you from developing your expertise don't know how to respect you. If you have something to say, you can't pull your face down easily, give you a violent look, get angry or angry about a little thing, and abuse yourself. No bad habits. ※. Women should not think that they can change their habit of eating, drinking, whoring and gambling just by giving love. ※. You can clearly grasp the boundaries between lovers and friends of the opposite sex without asking for advice. Be opinionated about yourself, but don't be too opinionated about yourself. ※. The bad man, however, has no definite view on his future, but is full of definite view on his girlfriend's life choice. ※. Be kind to small animals. I always emphasize repeatedly that a man who can kick stray cats and dogs on the road is tyrannical by nature and will never be kind to women. ※. He has the habit of exercising. He doesn't have to be a muscular man, but according to my statistics, men with certain sports hobbies are more likely to find an outlet to vent their emotions and won't make trouble to torture you. ※. So please don't force him to ask, "Am I more important or is basketball more important?" His family relationship is generally harmonious and will not be influenced by his family's opinions. ※. A man who "listens to his family" or is in a state of "tension" with his family for a long time will make the other half physically and mentally exhausted. Such people are like good wine. The longer the time, the more mellow the taste. Taking the above conditions as mate selection conditions can ensure a woman's happiness. However, it is not without reason that good men are often ignored by women when they are young. The main reason is that young good men are not very good at flattering women and most young women can't recognize "harmony". Because he is not dazzling, because he is not "bad" (being with him is not exciting or interesting), because being with him is not fun, because he is not rich enough, because he can't make her love her to death. In the face of women's difficulties, good men will not entangle, and most will choose to leave gracefully and with dignity. No matter how much they love you, they won't treat themselves as a pool of mud for you to trample on. On the contrary, a bad man can't catch up, but will try his best to turn him into a rogue and return to his angry woman like a puffer fish. Therefore, the economic principle of "bad money drives out good money" is also applicable in love. It was not until a woman was no longer a girl in her dream and found that love was full of all kinds of unromantic details that she discovered that the stone she missed turned out to be a jewel man looking at a woman, with not only an angel's face and a devil's figure, but also a gentle and considerate heart. Women are more and more strict with men. Not only are they handsome, but they can also afford cars and houses. They are also willing to wear aprons and cook well. What are the ten prerequisites for a good man in modern times: 1. Can cook and do housework: Being able to cook is a necessary condition for a good modern man. A woman can proudly say to her friend, "My husband is very considerate and will cook for me! 2. Willing to take care of children: A good man always does more than he says. A good man won't think a child stinks when he urinates, so he will help the child change diapers without saying anything. 3.3 Height: A good man is not only tall, but also has a high education and a high position. However, the matter of appearance is a matter of different opinions, and it is a good man condition for women under 30. 4. Romance: A good man will never forget your birthday and anniversary, and even occasionally surprise you and make you cry. 5. Love: A good man only loves you. In his eyes, super beauties like Lin Chi-ling and Patty Hou are the most beautiful? Even if it is true, he should know how to say in front of you, "in my heart, no one can replace you." 6. Honest and steady: Even if a good man can't speak sweet words, it doesn't matter, as long as he has a reliable shoulder that a woman can rely on. 7. Filial piety: A good man is not only filial to his parents, but also to yours. He may think his parents are picky, but he will never speak ill of your parents. 8. Good temper: Whether you are right or he is right, a good man is always the first to say "sorry"; When women are hysterical, he can always ignore them. 9. loyal audience: always when you are unhappy, a good man will listen to your complaints quietly by your side and always know how to laugh when you tell jokes. 10. Humor: A good man doesn't need to be a joke book, but I don't know why a good man just has the ability to make you laugh when you are bored or unhappy.