My mother is very bad to me and partial to my sister. She always tells herself that she doesn't have a mother, but she is used to it. But I still hope to get my mother's concern in my heart. I

Mom thinks you are older than your sister, so you should let her go. Usually always praise her and buy her things. She may bring it to you by the way, but she never asks you what you really want, no matter what you really need. She just gave you a back, but she felt that she had done her duty. In this part of my experience, I personally feel that this kind of love is not true love, but my mother's behavior of moving herself because she doesn't want her inner condemnation. She may also know that she is trying to balance herself, but the spilled water can't be collected, and the damage can never be really covered up. Even if she balances her heart again, she will still feel different! Although younger sisters are more likely to be spoiled, the premise for them to choose to give birth to younger sisters is to know that they will have a good impression on their children. What's the difference between this and son preference? I think it's better to be independent early, which will really become a psychological shadow and become particularly inferior!

Those downstairs who think that mom loves you as much as her sister, treat it as a joke. They haven't experienced it, so they can't feel it. They can only try their best to comfort you, but they don't want to think why someone asks such a question, and they don't really put themselves in your shoes.