What kind of experience is it when asked whether to buy a house?

The word "hate" means that we are a naked married family. For me, what kind of house or car has nothing to do with getting married. Never thought about it online. I didn't get married until I had children, and then I bought a house after I got married. That's how I turned it upside down. Before I got married, I really never thought that I could get married if I had a house, a car and a deposit. I should say I didn't think about anything before giving birth. With him, I always feel that all material things are not important. I believe that if it rains, we can find a shelter from the wind and rain. As long as we don't get caught in the rain, we can have a shelter when it rains.

Whether having children or getting married, I will not associate marriage with the RV. I think these are two different things. But there are always good people who know that you are married and always like to ask you to buy a house on purpose? Maybe where did you buy the house? Someone talked about me behind my back, saying that someone gave birth to a child without getting married, and also gave birth to a child in the dormitory of the unit. Without a house or a car deposit, he gave himself to a poor man so cheaply, and he had given birth to a child at such a young age.

Because I don't care about what's going on outside and what others say behind my back, but people who often meet and ask if they want to buy a house are really a bit annoying. I mean, who stipulates that marriage must have a house? Who stipulates that you must have a house and a car to get married and have children? What does my marriage and children have to do with my house and car? Why do people always associate western Zhejiang with each other? It's too superficial. She brought up a nephew of my sister's family last year. When you get married, go back to the wedding reception. I met a cousin of my family. He is very busy. When we met, she asked me who your husband was. Why didn't your husband come? I said he came back from leave, and my father-in-law fell down and broke his leg while repairing the house in his hometown. My husband went back, and my cousin said why he was repairing the house at home? There is nothing interesting in that hometown. How convenient it is to buy a house directly in the city with money!

She looked surprised when I said that there was a house in our city. In her opinion, when can we newlyweds afford to buy a house? So we deliberately asked in front of many people, and when we learned the result, we looked pale and said that you were quite powerful. We just got married a few years ago and bought it. Anyway, the house repaired at home is better than ours! I said it doesn't exist, and many people have a shelter from the wind and rain. Really let her down. People in this era are like this. They all care about money. When you are unknown, no one knows you. When you get better, everyone knows you. People often ask if they want to buy a house, which is a very annoying thing. As long as they hear who is married, most people's instinctive reaction is where did they buy their new house? Generally, I haven't heard about buying a house for about 6 years after marriage, and many relatives have become strangers. This society is really realistic.