Do you want to learn something about the world?

People who are really good at dealing with interpersonal relationships often understand the following eight "ways of the world" that make you wake up! It is necessary to walk in society.

1. You should make yourself very powerful, but don't act very powerful, because besides doing things, you also need to deal with interpersonal relationships, and a basic worldly wisdom of interpersonal relationships is that the more powerful you are, the more people bother you and want to play tricks on you.

When you have any important decision, don't tell others, let alone spread it around, except those who are very close, do it first. Because in this world, there are always a few people who sincerely hope that you are good and that you will succeed. On the contrary, many people want to see your jokes. Therefore, if you don't want to be treated as a joke after failure, you should know how to do great things in secret.

Don't get too carried away when others praise you. But to understand the worldly wisdom of showing weakness actively, which is helpful to deal with interpersonal relationships. For example, if you buy a good car, others congratulate you and praise you for your good eye and good car. At this time, you have to say that the car is a consumable, and the car loan and gas fee put you under great pressure. Doing so can effectively balance the psychology of others and avoid their jealousy.

You know, there are many people behind us, and modesty is an attitude, but also a cultivation. Correcting your position, power is temporary, money is external, body is your own, and being a talent is long-term.

4. No matter how good the relationship is, don't make decisions for others. You can help with ideas and give your own suggestions, but you should let others make their own decisions, even if others ask you to make a decision, you should politely refuse. Because making decisions for others is an extremely thankless thing. If you do it right, people may not thank you, but if you do it wrong, people will certainly blame you and blame you, even if he doesn't say anything.

You can't get rid of the complicated world, but there is a way to avoid your boredom with it and let you take the initiative most of the time, and that is to improve your strength! The stronger your strength, the greater the value you can bring to others, and the more others will try to deal with you. Of course, there are people out there. As long as you want to keep climbing, you will never get rid of this world.

6. to invest in human feelings, it is better to give charcoal in the snow than to add icing on the cake. When others are rich, even if you flatter them, it may not make people sit up and take notice of them, but when others are down and out, they are at the lowest point in their lives, even if you just have the grace of dripping water. It is also likely to harvest a spring. Remember, the truly profound worldly wisdom is also utilitarian, but it must not follow the trend, but timely help with investment awareness.

7. When others ask you for help and ask you to do something, even if you agree, don't be too frank, so that others can see that you agreed after consideration; In the process of helping things, don't look too relaxed, let others see that you have paid a lot to do things well. That way, you won't look like you're in fall in price. This is not a lie, but the basic truth of this world.