"Ode to Joy 2" is a bitch

Ode to Joy 2 Who is the most coquettish?

In my opinion, it is not an eccentric little fairy, a sexy and charming fan leftover woman, a silly and sweet little earthworm, nor a vulgar like a good wife and mother, but a little coquettish-a bag that exudes male hormones and always brings coquettish waves to the extreme.

Why do you say that Bao Yi is a "slut"? Just as Bao Yifan is often tired of Andy and constantly corrects his nickname "steamed stuffed bun" instead of "Bao Yifan", the word "steamed stuffed bun" is very suitable for him, but this noun cannot accurately cover all his charm, so the adjective "Sao" is added before the noun and then combined. In the words of Venus beauty, it is two words-perfect!

Forgive my metaphor, coquettish is not a derogatory term.

Just like Bao Yifan, if you only look at the surface, he is young, rich and frivolous, much like a rich second-generation rich man who only makes superficial remarks and is bohemian. So when I started the first and second episodes, 10 thousand people in my heart spurned him for being glib and dishonest. Such a man's pursuit of Andy is an insult to the goddess! However, with the development of the plot, Xiao Sao slowly fought back. I also fell in love with this man and gradually turned black and pink. I silently blessed him and hoped to have a lover with Andy as soon as possible.

This is the charm of Bao Yifan. No matter how annoying he is at first and how low his starting point is, he can always prove himself through practical actions, thus gaining people's recognition and acceptance. Let's see how he captured the goddess:

0 1- coquettish and cheap, coquettish and lovely.

After confirming his affection for Andy in the first few days, Bao Yifan launched a fierce pursuit.

He alluded to Andy's recent situation from Qu Xiaoyu, and kept approaching her through business contacts. However, due to the emotional entanglement between Andy and Weiwei at that time, he failed to fully show his heart and show his fists. It was not until Andy and Vivian officially broke up that he began to pursue crazily.

I have to say that Bao Yifan's pursuit of Andy is really eye-opening. I used to know that coquettish waves were a woman's skill. After reading Bao Yifan, I suddenly realized that men's coquettish waves are more deadly.

In "Ode to Joy 2"1and 2 episodes, Andy went to Thailand for a holiday, and Bao Yifan pretended to be poor and hurt, and finally lived under the same roof with the goddess (Andy slept on the bed and Xiao Sao slept on the sofa). As a result, Bao Yifan introduced various means of "seduction": naked by the pool, swimming and surfing in various poses in the sea, driving Andy on a motorcycle, playing football on the beach, and making the goddess happy in various ways. Through the thick screen, you can smell the thick smell of Sao on Bao Yifan.

In addition to coquetry, Bao Yifan has all kinds of coquetry and worship. The most classic scene is the Beijing garage incident: Bao Yifan was slightly scratched to save Andy who almost had a car accident. As a result, all kinds of requests for kissing, hugging and pretending to be pitiful made the guilty Andy laugh and cry. Therefore, who said that men should be strong, Bao Yifan did the opposite and won the attention of the goddess through weakness. This method is very suitable for Andy who is cold outside and hot inside.

It is absolutely impossible to capture Andy's heart only by these superficial means, and Bao Yifan knows this well. But for Andy who is in a foreign country and has just lost his love, the happiness brought by Bao Yifan's persistent entanglement and companionship is enough to unload his hostility to this rich second generation and temporarily forget his pain and loneliness.

02- Gentleman, don't take advantage of people's danger.

What is a gentleman? As far as love is concerned, a beauty is lying, and a gentleman is a disorderly person. He who does not slander his predecessors and takes advantage of others' danger can also be called a gentleman.

Bao Yifan, who seems to be charming, didn't do anything against the gentleman's way even if he slept with Andy who was unconscious after being drunk. Even if you are not loved by others, as long as you don't get the consent of the other party, you don't take advantage of people's danger, and you don't get everything you want by despicable means. He is a gentleman.

Andy ran into Vivian in the community, and the emotion of being buried and deliberately ignored broke out again like a flood. Late at night, Andy drove all the way, tears streaming down his face. At this moment, Bao Yifan just called, and Andy said, "I'll find you!" " "I was very worried at the time, thinking that a generation of goddesses would be won by Bao Yifan when they were fragile. It's really a pity.

Who would have thought that Bao Yifan would take Andy to his childhood home and play boxing to release his pressure and emotions? When I heard how Andy felt when he met Vivian, I didn't denigrate or be jealous. I just said sincerely: only those who really walk from the heart will be so painful. He turned off Andy's cell phone and told her that the world would go on without anyone. Do nothing tonight. Just like an ordinary person, it is a normal and frequent lovelorn time.

Here, I admire Bao Yi, a generous person. Even if he thinks of his predecessor's problems in the face of his lover, he is also a rational analysis and calm response, without slander and without Andy's help when he is psychologically fragile.

Only in this way can an upright person win Andy's favor.

03- Sao Bao is not a straw bag, and his emotional intelligence is also very high.

At first, I thought that Aunt Bao was a rich second generation who only spoiled and sold cute, charming and burned money. Just like Brother Qu Yaoqin, she was an idiot. But with the development of the plot, I was gradually impressed by Bao Yifan's inner charm, and I couldn't help feeling that this is a male demon with high emotional intelligence.

Bao Yifan's EQ is not only reflected in his various coquettish feelings, but also in his response to Andy's emotional instability. He is a good listener and communicator.

Chatting at the seaside, Bao Yifan recalled the severity and punishment of his parents when he was a child, but when he heard that Andy was an orphan, he didn't show any love and pity, just joking. This is the performance of his high emotional intelligence, because at this time, well-meaning comfort and too many questions are all a kind of self-esteem injury to Andy. He may also know that Andy doesn't need comfort in this respect, because she has a really strong heart.

Andy was harassed by Wei Guoqiang's phone at breakfast. Bao Yifan mistakenly thought it was Andy's ex-boyfriend. Ask him, do you want me to help you solve it? After Andy explained his relationship with Wei Guoqiang, his face was sad and he couldn't eat. Bao Yifan didn't ask if he needed help, but simply said: Don't say unhappy things when eating, and then change the subject easily.

His cleverness lies in not asking about other people's privacy at will, not blindly participating in other people's family conflicts, and not judging their close relatives.

Andy was mistaken for a mistress by Wei Guoqiang's wife. He was slapped for no reason and lost face in front of his colleagues in the company. The next day, Wei Guoqiang's wife was waiting downstairs in the company. When Andy wants to talk to her, Bao Yifan calls her, tells her friend's experience of borrowing money, and subtly gives Andy some hints. This is another manifestation of high emotional intelligence:

Don't pry into privacy in the name of caring for others, don't make suggestions, take care of your friends' face in front of yourself, pretend not to know when you know it, and find another way to help.

High emotional intelligence is an important condition for getting love, because it is not so tiring to fall in love with people with high emotional intelligence, because they will help you unintentionally and resolve your embarrassment and injury.

05- Complement, love is happier.

Andy is a relatively withdrawn person, with high IQ, but average EQ. Although he is calm, he lacks emotion and is not tactful in dealing with people. Get along with such people, either people from the same world, such as Wei Wei and Lao Tan, or people who need complementary personalities, such as Qu Xiaoyu and Bao Yifan, so as to attract each other and get along happily.

But as can be seen from the first part of Ode to Joy, Andy can be friends with people from the same world, but he is not suitable for being a lover, so he wants to break up with Wei Wei. And Bao Yifan, who is full of hippies, open-minded, cheerful, frustrated and smooth, can just adjust his tense life that is too self-disciplined, rigorous and high-paced, but lacks emotional appeal. Because Bao Yifan looks frivolous on the surface, in fact, he is very measured, advancing and retreating, and it is easy to transfer Andy's nervousness when he is upset.

So when Andy refuses to Bao Yifan because of other things, Bao Yifan will easily say: It's not that difficult to enjoy my pursuit. Will also appease Andy before DNA:

Bao Yifan makes Andy happier when she is happy, and tries to make her happy and give her warmth and comfort when Andy is unhappy. It is difficult to get along with such a man, whether bored or unhappy. Andy, how can he resist in troubled times!

It can be said that Andy needs to continue to be a smart and capable Bai Gujing in front of Vivian, but he can be a weak and lovely little woman in front of Bao Yifan.

Wei Wei can discuss astronomy, geography and technology with Andy and live a supreme life, but Bao Yifan can let her enjoy the simple happiness of ordinary people.

In a word, Bao Yifan confused Andy and me unconsciously.

Such a man is a combination of ruffian and gentleman spirit, with a certain degree of advance and retreat, affectionate and single-minded, what a lovely little slut.

Did he find you?

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