Do parents want to "interfere" with their children's college entrance examination volunteers?

Talk about parents' willingness. Interference? The problem of children volunteering to fill in the college entrance examination. A while ago, there was a hot news that the top scholar in Liaoning dropped out of HKU and is now studying at his alma mater. For a while, ten years? High scores and low energy? After all, the opponents of the college entrance examination system have found one. Spray? Export, word for word, is the champion of Chinese mainland unable to adapt to Hong Kong? Really? Excellent undergraduate education model. In addition, there may be things that the champion gave up? Tall? The regret of scholarship. Of course, there are people who know about it. This time, the Haidian senior high school entrance examination took this event as the topic, and defined its nature as great and brilliant. It emphasizes that compared with the vulgar reality, the champion himself is unwilling to succumb to the fashion trend and is more willing to follow his own ideals.

But what about reality? In these discussions, many details were ignored intentionally or unintentionally. First of all, this champion has listened to two holiday classes in Peking University before, and he likes the atmosphere of Peking University very much. Secondly, as far as classical literature is concerned, the atmosphere of HKU is not as pure as that of Peking University, and scholarships will fill the hole in tuition and accommodation fees. Coupled with a series of reasons such as climate and language, it is really easy to be discouraged. Finally, HKU's volunteer was originally filled in by the champion's parents after a night of ideological work, and it was the result of compromise between the champion and his parents. In the early stage, he did not intend to let the champion learn Chinese, but wanted the champion to learn financial economy and finally learn HKU Chinese. This series of factors intertwined, and finally triggered such a compelling event.

Ok, this matter is over. As I said in Weibo before, it is immoral to speculate on this matter again, especially to deliberately create a confrontation between the mainland and Hong Kong (no matter where it is). It is impossible for Peking University to be admitted without exception. It is better to make it as calm and stable as possible during the re-reading time this year. The reason why I chose this incident as an excuse is that I hope parents? Especially the parents of senior three? Think about this question: Why? Interference? Children voluntarily report?

I think most parents will say: I am more experienced than children. This sounds right, but there are two points: from the perspective of dealing with people or understanding the current social situation, parents may indeed be more experienced than their children; But when it comes to volunteering or majors, parents may not know much more than their children. In most cases, parents and children are completely blind. Even if you admit your parents' rich social experience, you don't necessarily want your children to develop according to their parents' plans: what if they grow up and gradually become parents with the intervention of their parents? Ideal state? Isn't it necessary to give one to the child from the beginning? Really? Independent personality, at least not even the most basic right to choose life; What if parents know nothing more about their major and their employment? Looking at the text and giving birth to righteousness? Then we must face the reality: once? Is it hot? Major, such as computer, biology, law, etc. Now it has become a difficult household for employment, and it is expected that in the near future, it will be the turn of economy and finance. How many talents of related majors can be accommodated by society depends on the development needs of related majors. Economic and financial depression in recent years, why are you still preoccupied at this time? Is it hot? Instead of. Interest? In the name of jumping into this fire pit, it is somewhat uneconomical. What's more, none of the high school students who are engaged in the financial industry around me are majoring in economics and finance, only studying chemical engineering and insurance? You see, you have to prevent other majors from getting a piece of the action.

Professional problems are just the tip of the iceberg, and there are many factors such as schools and expectations (vanity), so I won't talk about them for reasons of space. What about the facts? According to my experience, most parents voluntarily fill in the form under their own will, and the result is a tragedy. It's not bad to change departments halfway. When you really can't find a job, parents suffer countless complaints and grievances. Since volunteering under the coercion of parents may not make children happy, why do parents have to be so pretentious and think they are better than their children? Where can parents who have supported their children since childhood count as a stop? My opinion: the sooner you let go, the sooner your child will be independent. After all, children can't depend on their parents for life. Instead of letting the child blame others four years later, let him bear the consequences of his own choice. Besides, there are so many social opportunities now, and it's really not shameful to make a mistake. Let children choose their favorite major or school according to their own interests. Even when I was awake in my junior year and senior year, it's not too late to change my career, and I have gained rare experience in making major decisions in my life. After all, whether it can catch fire or not depends on the child's deep interest and motivation. Even if children's interests seem so in today's society? Not reliable? , still have to wait for his own interest is exhausted, to stimulate the so-called? Is it reliable? Motive is not? What if you always keep one? Interest? It's hard to concentrate on your major, let alone make achievements. Besides, what else? New oriental cooking technical school? What about the guarantee? This is really no joke. Many professional things are really not as meaningful as cooking. Cooking is at least a hard skill and cannot be fooled.

It's still too early to say this, but compared with the rush to volunteer at the beginning of next year, these words may only be heard by parents now. Regarding volunteering, what parents can do is to study the policies and rules in depth, collect information about the corresponding schools and majors according to their children's hobbies, or provide several alternatives and suggestions when their children's interests are uncertain. Really great ideas are left to children to realize. Don't worry about location. It's good for children to go out and break in. Many parents scrimp and save and worry about sending their children to study abroad. How can they go to the south to study and struggle for a long time? In the final analysis, many times, it is actually our parents who can't get over it.

Being a teacher is the same as being a parent. When children are confused, we give suggestions based on our own experience and thinking. Do less for you? When I went to the Chinese Department of Peking University, someone asked me what job I could find in the future. Later, I found out that these people who asked me questions didn't know what job they were looking for in the end, and they didn't seem to be better than me after finding it. Since most of the troubles now come from worrying too much? Imagine? It is better to be calm and let time give our final answer step by step.

Parents should not interfere with their children's college entrance examination volunteers and share them here. I hope it helps you!

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